I believe in soul mates and believe I have found mine... in fact I know I have... I'm young but I was one of the lucky ones. Yet, the entire time he was right there the whole time, we walked circles around each other for years... We've now been together nearly a year... can't picture my life w/out him in it. I've learned though, its all about give and take. You have to even each other out. I knew the first time I saw him in person... yes we met online! Only to find out we knew all the same people... The Lord works in crazy ways. Him and I will be married in January. Its hard to believe he wasn't always in my life!
Well girl we been through thick and then together! You know how my long distance relationships have went I have friends I have known for yrs! And and ex boyfriend that means the world to me! Granted being slow is the key! You are strong and you know your heart! Life is confusing but like I told Charles thats why we have our Lord because we are stupid to figure it out for ourselves! If he brings you to it he'll bring your through it! As for Ryan he is a huge step up from from the ex we both neither claim! Follow your heart be step carefully and I'll be here through all of it !
I have never been a smoker and never will be! Though I come from a family of quite a few! My mom has been smoking since she as in high school but she quit in April of 07 and hasn't smoked since she used Chantix as did my aunt who also smoked since she was young! So w/ my mom it was about 25 to 30 yrs of smoking! While my dad smoked since he was like 15 he just tured 51 less than a wk ago ! He stopped smoking in January just by will power alone! Proud of both of them! But Chantix does work its worked for quite a few people I know of!
Being only 19 myself it is still illegal for me to drink but I really don't chose to do so! I have drank though with my parents and family and we never leave the dirt road poodunk community I live in as it is all mostly my family! I don't see drinking until you are drunk right at all! I was in Protecting You Protecting Me which is a program in which I was eduated on the effects alcohol has the brain and taught the children from grades 1st to 5th! Honestly Drinking has a larger effect than smoking as drinking effects all receptors of the brain and smoking only effects certain ones! Though I believe both are wrong! We taught the children to never ride in a vechicle with someone that had been drinking even if it was their parents and if they did where to sit and to always be sure to put their seatbelts on. If I was a mother I think I would raise my kids the same as my parents raised me, if you let your children know its ok to drink with them as long as you drink in moderation, they are going to be less likely to go and drink behind your back. Thats just my opinion on the subject! As for smoking I hope no child of mine would ever chose that path and if they did I would help them through it and be sure they knew how wrong it was.
I have always been left except for the once that I left him in my most recent relationship! I was tried of him having to always know where I was at and what I was doing. I was tired of being acussed of cheating even though I would never do such a thing. I was tired of the yelling and cussing at me. I was tried of him being angry disrespecting me and disrespecting his mom. lol the day I left him my mom told him if I wanted to be with a kid I could go back to school. He was 26 living with his parents not going to school not working. He got a job for a wk then they fired him cause he called in sick so that he could come with my mom to get me from school. He stayed with me every wk end I was home from school. I wasn't allowed to talk to my friends! I am glad I am not with him. I am extremely happy about it. Only guy I ever left and I still don't regret my choice.
Arabella its not like that w/ him. They are apart because she cheated! He is grown and has done everything the court has done him to. Including getting a different job!
Very true Tater... I am talking him (thebigdog) her reason have not been for good in the 3 mths I knew him. She cheated thats the reason they are not together! So she could be mad! I don't like her she's mean! But hey alot of people are!
Well my uncle is currently over there! He loves it there! Granted the things he has seen he also has to deal with I am not sure who he is with KBR possibly? But don't get me to lying. The money is diffently good. I believe he is not completly outta danger but safer than some. I have a friend who is a soldier over there a job I would recomend to no one. Granted I am thankful for our troops and all that they do. But in the past two wks he has almost been killed serveral times! I pray everyday that he is ok. Thankfully he will be home for like a month in alittle less than two wks but has also been gone since Nov.! It is your choice your a grown man and know your risks.If you feel driven and something in your heart tells you to go! Then go with what you feel there is a reason for everything.
I can understand that! lol I have felt the same way many times! Children are amazing I can not wait to have children of my own! I have had my school to keep me busy!
lol... right can you imagine. On TV once I seen a dog that had llike 18 or something! I think I would freak if I ever had an animals have that many! lol
I know I'm in when the mear mention of his name makes me smile, I will love him no matter whether or not we are together, and when he tells me he's been thinking about me all day!
Me neither I have seen a lot of people turn into cat people in time though! My uncle was a cat guy but when he moved he took his cats that were strays with him lol! Unless a black one crosses your path. I love all animals got turtles and dogs too if I had my choice Id have way more! lol! I cant stand animals being stray!
Awwwss... I have had so many stray cats I currently have a long haired siamese we call him pretty eyes! He has caused some fuss around here I have two adult males and two adult females! Plus 8 kittens! All have been born and raised here! I had a stray we called Oreo... the most loving cat you'd have ever met ran out to the truck to meet my dad everyday!
Ok.... so i didn't know what ginger cats where ? lol so i looked it up they are orange! I have raised many of these cats thats all I had! We just call them tabby cats ! Until here recently and I still have two of them in the 8 I have now!
Awww... thats great vonney.... I myself am a cat lover well lol Im a lover of all animals... I have raised cats since I was little though! My sister says I should have been a vet as I have raised many kittens from babies because of mishaps with their mothers! lol in fact right now I have a total of 8 kittens had 9 but one went to a great home over a month ago. Two litters 4 in one 5 in the other the litter of 5 I raised! Birth can be scary if you've never seen it before but it is also very exciting! I almost lost a kitten of the litter of 4 mom did not take care of it when she was first born and she did not nurse for the first 3 hrs. I found her cold and still her in her sack not moving my first reaction was warmth and air I rubbed her back until she started breathing! She was tiny way smaller than her brothers and sister. Her name is Beacan meaning small one! She is still the smallest of her brothers and sister and even the adopted 5 that her mom took on after her litter was older! Good Luck! And Congrats on the Kittens!
I'm a country girl! Born here raised here and will stay if I have the choice! Though I love to travel and learn about others cultures and the culture of my family! Been to Toronto where there was a 4 lane highway outside my aunts front door and you had this little patch of land in the back where you could see everyone's back doors. I loved it only for the experience... cement under my feet all the time can't take that! I have to be able to feel the dirt under my feet! Been to the one of the ghetto parts of Dallas! Now the ghetto by Fair Park but one where there is police all the time and I seen people getting arrested almost everytime I left my aunts and uncle's place. I have also been to the nicer part of Dallas in Garland and thats a bit more peaceful. To everyone their own. I like to be able to walk down my road barefoot, in my pjs. Love to sit on the porch wrapped in a blanket in winter and look at the stars. In the summer I love to sit out and watch lighting bugs!
Hi welcome to CS... I would suppose the best way to decide this would be to sit down and write down your likes and dislikes of each! It has helped me make chooses before!
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RE: Soul Mates
I believe in soul mates and believe I have found mine... in fact I know I have... I'm young but I was one of the lucky ones. Yet, the entire time he was right there the whole time, we walked circles around each other for years... We've now been together nearly a year... can't picture my life w/out him in it. I've learned though, its all about give and take. You have to even each other out. I knew the first time I saw him in person... yes we met online! Only to find out we knew all the same people... The Lord works in crazy ways. Him and I will be married in January. Its hard to believe he wasn't always in my life!