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fear of Love

women just dont believe in true love..and if and when they find it , they push it away , because of fear,
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sweet_saucy2008
sweet_saucy2008●Northwest, Tennessee USA
Jul 23, 2009●2 Blogs●189 Comments
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Alas you may have a good point. What I had been shown as love is a reason for me to run from it. What is real and how do you know when you hear it that it is true. All my loves promised it were true and here I am. Perhaps the best thing I should do is to want someone and need them, but never love them. Not loving doesn't hurt in the end. sad flower
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calmheartseeks
calmheartseeks●Somewhere, California USA
Jul 24, 2009●6 Blogs●1,531 Comments
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I have never figured out how not to love. It seems to help if you don't show it though, with those who will bruise you.
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smilemore
smilemore●cambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK
Jul 24, 2009●14 Blogs●80 Comments
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yes good write ... i agree someway with you professor
even if theyr reaction could be unconditional , and this made an unconditional reaction of the man !
confused



foot in mouth i understand i shut my mouth giggle

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sophisticated68
sophisticated68●Frankfurt, Hessen Germany
Jul 24, 2009
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it is not that we women don't believe in TRUE LOVE, the problem is we once did believe in it, but then so many bad things happened that we lost the trust. I heard a man telling me I am the only woman for him, i am his dream woman, and he don't want to be without me and he is so much in love with me, but fact is the he is gone all the time, forgets to stay in touch, everything else is more important, where is the true love in that?
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Maybelove
Maybelove●Zurich, Switzerland
Jul 24, 2009●10 Comments
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I am believe in true love...angel
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missm09
missm09●kerry/Cork area, Kerry Ireland
Jul 25, 2009●36 Blogs●87 Comments
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UR SO RIGHT SAUCY,MEN HAV HABIT OF REELING YOU IN ,MAKIN YOU FALL,U FALL,DEEP !THEN THEY TAKE IT BACK BIT BY BIT,DO YA BLAME US FOR BEIN IN FEAR OF GOING THER AGAIN,ITS HURTS LIKE HELL,crying blues thumbs down frustrated very mad mumbling doh
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sleepin_bird
sleepin_bird●Vilvoorde, Flemish Brabant Belgium
Jul 25, 2009●294 Comments
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How would you define true love in the first place?
I think it can mean many different things to as many different people.

Yes, we (both men and women) do get hurt and that might cause us to push away someone who gets really close; it is only a natural reaction, instinctive and it does take time to trust again after being hurt.

For me, true love means being able to share all and feel like one with my partner... in all freedom, with respect, understanding and accepting the other for who he is. Being completely open and sharing mind, body and spirit can seem quite frightening indeed, but it's also a beautiful experience when it works.

I don't think true love necessarily needs to last forever... people change, circumstances change and you might find out one day that you don't want the same things out of life any longer... should you hold on then? Or let go before both of you'll end up unhappy?

I'd say, enjoy the good moments, take them as they come and appreciate them for what they are.
Nature has a way of always creating balance and we wouldn't be able to appreciate the good, if we never experienced the bad.
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