~~ WHO YOU ARE ?~~

“Nobody can say anything about you. Whatsoever people say is about themselves. But you become very shaky, because you are still clinging to a false center. That false center depends on others, so you are always looking to what people are saying about you. And you are always following other people, you are always trying to satisfy them. You are always trying to be respectable, you are always trying to decorate your ego. This is suicidal. Rather than being disturbed by what others say, you should start looking inside yourself…

Whenever you are self-conscious you are simply showing that you are not conscious of the self at all. You don’t know who you are. If you had known, then there would have been no problem— then you are not seeking opinions. Then you are not worried what others say about you— it is irrelevant!

When you are self-conscious you are in trouble. When you are self-conscious you are really showing symptoms that you don’t know who you are. Your very self-consciousness indicates that you have not come home yet.”
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Good points in here, but does being self-conscious help a person to become more considerate of other people's feelings?

A person who is self-conscious has an advantage to become less selfish?
Rock...That’s a bad habit. Self-awareness is good, but self-criticism is not good because it is never to the point.
It is simply foolish to waste even a single moment thinking about others.you are wasting the present..so please keep concentration on your self.
owl, but if you know what hurts, you can use that information when dealing with others. But I get your point and it is a good one. Unfortunately for most of us, it is harder to do than say. Unless a person is a psychopath.
wow. good blog. thumbs up Wish more had glints of wisdom like this!
yes rock...i'm agree with you..we are human..have some feelings about others..yes we do..but try to avoid it..
Owl? Try to avoid feelings for others? Perhaps you're right.

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