"Relating again"

Forget relationships and learn how to relate. Once you are in a relationship you start taking each other for granted – that’s what destroys all love affairs. The woman thinks she knows the man, the man thinks he knows the woman. Nobody knows either! It is impossible to know the other, the other remains a mystery. And to take the other for granted is insulting, disrespectful. To think that you know your wife is very, very ungrateful. How can you know the woman? How can you know the man? They are processes, they are not things. The woman that you knew yesterday is not there today. So much water has gone down the Ganges; she is somebody else, totally different. Relate again, start again, don’t take it for granted. And the man that you slept with last night, look at his face again in the morning. He is no more the same person, so much has changed. So much, incalculably much has changed. That is the difference between a thing and a person. The furniture in the room is the same, but the man and the woman, they are no more the same. Explore again, start again. That’s what I mean by relating
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wave
hru bro?
I can't disagree! Addressing one and all and so we need to restart it rebooting again and again. thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
living with a person maybe we do take for granted is just life normal I thinks but definitely same person you go to bed with you wake up with .but then as women become more assertive I wonder about that to no easy answers just tak good care of what you have as tomoorow can change
Furniture made from good wood like oak improves with age too.

I think good wood is the key to a happy relationship cool
It doesn't matter how long one has been with one another that you really don't know one another as much as you think you do.
Bearwpmam, you got that right!!
I think you've got it back to front, owlsway. The woman or man that you knew yesterday most probably is still there today, and therein, quite often lies the problem.
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