You're judged by your photo
Or lack therof.Okay, I guess I'd better get something off my chest. Guys, gals, you're judged by your photos.
I'm on here half for fun and finding new friends or contacts and half in an actual attempt to find something. Maybe three quarters and one quarter. Anyway...
I'm looking for something that may not be horribly specific (trying to keep an open mind) but I know what I'm NOT looking for. Sometimes, what I'm NOT looking for shows up in your photos. You drunk in a bar with your buddies doesn't scream "social" to me, it screams "drunk". You sitting in your broken down lounge chair with a sleeveless cut-off and greasy hair doesn't scream "well groomed" it screams "germs". (Not saying I'm running across this...making general statements) You holding two women in your arms doesn't scream "looking for something serious" it screams "trying to get laid."
You could be the nicest guy in the world, those girls could be your sister and her best friend, you could drink only once a year...but that's not the story I get from your pictures. There's a reason there are entire articles devoted to what kind of photos you should post on public profiles.
I'm 26. While I don't mind chatting with men who are significantly older than me if they provide interesting conversation...that's NOT what I'm looking for. So if you're profile says you're over 35 why are you getting pissed at me for not persuing you?
I am not the most amazing person in the world but I am getting contacted a lot. It's starting to get on my nerves when I have five chat pop-ups interfering with me trying to post something or respond to an e-mail. Maybe I'm having a bad day, maybe I'm busy, maybe I just don't feel like talking to you at this particular moment. Some guys are fine with it, other's throw hissy fits. I am trying to be nice and respond to people but I can only handle so much. It can get overwhelming.
So CHILL OUT!!!
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chill out...
I'm to old, to short, and to far away, for 99% of the people on this site, I'm not looking to get laid, (I don't think the heart could take it) but will often send a flower and say "Hi" as I live on a remote island where we all stop and talk, have lots of friends, and a good social life,
However I used to live in the city, and not many people would even talk, say hi, or even pass the time of day,
I often think of the people who have little or no contact with the outside world, this is often the kind of people who use these web sites .........
Think about it .... and as you say ...Chill Out