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if she is more mature u could go as low at 19-20 i would think.but stick with above 25 n u cant go wrong
I can't help you from a male perspective but only a female's. I only date men the same age or older than myself and my cut off is 33yrs old. I get squicked out by the 40yr and 50yr olds who make a pass at me. Where could our point of references cross? They are looking for a sense of youth I can't give them, and I can't relate to the life experiences they have had.
So ask yourself, are you looking for a weekend of fun or a future of happiness? If you want a mature relationship, the safest bet is closer to your own age. A decade either way and you've got more complications than you might be ready for.
I say once the person is an adult and is mature and communicates with you on a level that you are happy with don't close the door even if there is a significant age difference.
There have been a few cases of such situations that actually worked be careful though. My father took on a young bride. She was 26 and he was in his 50's. Their marriage lasted for more than 12 years... There is another couple who have a 16 year age difference and they have been married for 40 years, the other party just died...who knows how things will go? just be aware of the challenges.
The truth is I prefer to stay within my age range but I am trying to keep an open mind.
but to each their own so long as it's legal and you're happy
You are 32, and I think that 25/26 on up to 36 is a good spread. mid twenties are generally out of college and are startign a career, and gained a little more maturity. The older women are still young enough to share new experiences, and mature enough to handle situations with grace, intellect, and wisdom. Good luck in your endeavor, I bid you good luck in finding someone.