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Finding someone that you feel on the same page with takes time. If you are going to spend the rest of your life with someone it cannot be any other way. Misery and regret follows those who rush in and overlook differences.
Keep faith in yourself, you seems to be an interesting young woman.
Be patient..
Good Luck
I say the same to guys who cry publicly.
1) It really doesn't MATTER what any one else says
2) It really WORSENS your chances of attracting someone suitable
3) It also worsens your chances of KEEPING someone in your life ... threads such as this can be seen by others long after the pain has passed - and they can bite yer bum years later.
As for your thinking ... well, Henry Ford said something like
"Whether you think you are, whether you think you aren't ... y'll probably prove yourself right by acting that way."
There's NOTHING to be gained from engaging in a conversation (or a debate) as to 'what went wrong here'. In truth what YOU hope for is the opportunity to convince he's wrong. The experience of millions (billions prob) of people is that 'It takes two to play ball, and if one doesn't wanna play the other has to find a different game'
No doubt y'll get loads of reassurnace from strangers about how lovely they think you are - it's a wasted effort on their part because YOU KNOW that they don't even know you so y'll disregard their kind words.
Take a FAIR look at your last several relationships ...
1) Internet comms are NOT relationships
2) Look at what has happened 'in real life' ... look for common denominators, things that repeat.
3) Look at your part
I'd say 'good luck' for the future, but better still 'Good designs' on your future - luck is what you create!
Think about the 1st thing out of your mouth (for as you said, "these things that we post may reflect on future relationships" - or something such as that) because real men do cry in public, it only shows that they're human beings with real emotions! You sound like a product of some military institution that would lead BOYS as well as men to believe otherwise.
NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!BE SURE...
MANY TIME WE ONLY UNKNOW WHAT HAVE TO MAKE ABOUT OUR MAN...MAYBE HE UNKNOW TOO.
IS FASE OF THE LIFE.EASY TO YOU THINK IN POSITIVE WAY ABOUT YOU SELF
TAKE CARE FRIEND
GOOD LUCK
Looks like he is the loser
Den2040