I'll never understand

I'm greatful for a place to sound off . I've been feeling the need to do this for over a week now . The reason will be clear in a minute .
Story #1 There's a lady across the street from me who's nice looking. She's even flirted with me . And yet she keeps this guy around . His mommy lives across the street . The couple is in their late 30's . He's hiding from the Sheriff . He just got out of prison . He starts drinking around the time he gets up . Smokes pot all day . He works on this truck till around 2 , which he's been working on for 2 months . Then the party goes into full force . He sits in there playing his Gituar and singing the same sad songs and every song is played with the same 3 cords .

Story #2 This beautiful young girl and this guy come out of Walmart . She's in a Black dress , and face like a model . He's got the camo hat and shirt on with the sleeve tore off . They stop at the car beside me . I hear him say , "put my pop back in the bag." She says, " I just want a swollow." He says Yae you'll drink it all ! She says no I won't I'll.... . to which he says SHUT YOU MOUTH BEFORE I PUT MY FIST IN IT !

Story #3 This one is married to a guy that has cameras around the house to watch her . Has punched her . Has broken her finger . Tells her who and if she has any friends . She's not allowed to do anything without asking him first . AND THEY'VE BEEN MARRIED 8 YEARS ! And everytime she decides to get a devorce she changes her mind . The only reason I can come up with is he makes good money .

Is this what you girls are really looking for ???? Why is it a nice guy comes along and you treat him like s**t ? In the past I would go up to a woman and say something nice and was being honest, I would hear , I've heard that one before !
Right now on this site , I met someone , not in person , I really was thinking highly of . Was trying not to rush her . Merely being nice and wanting to let her know I cared about her .
There's no mistery about me and my feeling . I don't play the game of " gees , I wonder if he likes me." Why would you want to play that game . Why is it when someone says they are excited to meet you , you run the other way . You say you don't want someone that plays games , and yet you keep forcing games on us . Is it low self-esteem ? Do you think no one could like you that much ? You say things like ,aren't there any honest , or good , or caring men out there ? Well would you know one if you saw him ? Maybe you need to open your mind alittle more . I came from a site where everyone had to be looking at profiles thinking , " Okay, what's wrong with this one?" Instead of what's right .
I for one talk to everyone that will talk to me . That's the only way to be sure you're not missing something . I know older couples that say they wanted nothing to do with their mate when they first met . But with that said , I only date one women at a time. I open doors , and I was just told again the other day what a caring and compassionate person I am .

Well thanks for letting me rant . Don't be afraid of me . I have a funny side also .
Mike