I'm losing all hope...

what, i figured it out? evidently not since I am writing this blog. you figured it out? great, can i join the club

I can understand you completely... Happened to me too. but at the end i beleive that these experiences in life makes us grow stornger for what's coming next. I too decided to spend some time alone rather then going out with girls, and refused alot of offers too, and i must say that it was the best decision i ever made for my self. Finding your self and loving yourself is much more important then loving someone else and get nothing back.

Start from that. First be strong until everything calms down, then find your self by speing time and do hobbies which you like. Without knowing you will be building a strong charecter which others will be respecting.

In future relationships, dont always be there for your partner, don't let him take you for granted.

Once you achieve that, you can say that you are ready for a wonderfull future, respected and loved by the man of your life ;)

Take good care and feel free to msg me if you need to talk.

hi..

i know what u feel cos i have been throgh the same situation, and u have put it in to words properly..
but at the end of the day its up to our self to pull our self together, its smthing that i'm keep on saying to my self..
and i totaly agree with zlaws but its not an easy path to walk..

wish u all the very best in life..

NA I DONT THINK SO,YOU JUST LACK THE PROPER "Wisdom" TO WEED THESE GUYS OUT. LINK UP! MR PERFECT

come to the bahamas i feel that sometimes i live by myself separated and looking for love cant find no one we can chat or vacate together

Don,t give up. I like to meet you
Raymond

Hey Girl,

I kno exactly what you mean.. and yes it can be very disheartening and can make u feel like giving up altogether..
How do i kno?.. because I've been there.. but here's what i figured.. u can only be disappointed if u expect .. so go into every relationship with little to no expectation.. don't expect him to be this or that.. rather go into it with the thought of getting to kno this person.. if u don't like what this person actually is, then get out asap.. dont hang around and wait for things to change.
Don't decide that ur want to be alone or not.. go with the flow.. if u meet someone nice and think ur feeling something.. then give it a shot..if not..then u have a new friend!
There's no need to project any image of urself.. just be who u are, ppl can sense when u are comfortable with urself and that can help to attract the right ppl into ur life.. let it be friends or partners...
Ur not puttin any pressure on the guys as u say.. the only person u r putting pressure on is urself!.. learn be nicer to urself and be more light-hearted and when u learn to b truely happy with that..happiness will find u even if u try to hide!

Good luck :)

One thing that you got it winning is THAT YOU ARE YOUNG.
When you wake everyday, breath in, be happy with yourself.
If some guys have turned you down it don't matter he was not the one.
Every rejection makes you get experience, turns out maybe down the line it was not going to work anyway.
If you do find him let there be always responces from both ends, don't let it always be YOU, try to be loved.
Take it slow, be positive, you can't imagine how many guys out there are feeling the same things as you.
Keep searching, you will find!!