What attracts people to eachother?

What attracts people to each other is their desire to love other people. Chances are the picky person is the one without the desire to give himself/herself to others.

The want for Happiness is what attracts ppl together.. u start to fall for someone when for the first time u realise that they make u really happy, whether its a joke they tell, a meal they cook or just the warmth of their hand on yours... whatever it is..they have given u a feeling that u like and feel happy about and that makes u crave it more.. and as long as you can give each other this happiness, this craving.. the relationship will keep going.. as it is the fuel that moves the relatiosnip...
The relationship dies when the fuel runs dry.. and that happens when ppl stop trying and start taking each other for granted..its sad but it happens all too often

You make it sound like it is bad or wrong to have brief relationships. Every chance encounter is a relationship. We each grow and learn...becoming more educated what makes us pleased in a relationship, with each encounter.

My belief in what attracts us is totally dependent on reincarnation. I believe we set up certain things we wish to work on and even make agreements with others that we will work with them when we incarnate. So we are attracted due to agreements we made and old unresolved energies we have with other souls. We also are attracted to people that will fulfull certain 'growth' needs or karmic beliefs, debts and balances.

For instance, if I harmed someone in a previous life in a particular way, I may come back in a similar situation to eperience what it feels like to be harmed that way....balancing karma and learning compassion. Just my opinion. I don't expect others to accept mine. Nor try to change mine.