I have known him for about 5 1/2 years. He opens up little by little. There is one thing he should be assured of right now and that is that I would never reject him. I am in no way going to tell him to go get professional help. He has over the past couple years been doing things to help himself. You are right when you say a struggle back and forth. I guess that is why I started this thread. A lot of times I there has been times when I thought we were getting somewhere only to have him close up and get defensive. That he is even letting me into his childhood and what it was like is really amazing to me. It took years! He will never read this and you'll never know him so I don't feel like I am betraying his trust. I wanted to see if there was any insight amongst people here. I have gotten some really good feedback, especially from you and Yankee. Thanks
I need no alchol courage,nothing I wouldn't do straight,that I wouldn't while under the influence. Am just as bold regardless,maybe a bit too bold,being fearless can sometimes be downfall,but for now,I still stand.
liquid courage with added stupidity..lol.. guys get drunk and tell me all kinds of stuff..most i don't even care to hear..lmao.. and a lot of times way to much info.. and then don't remember it the next day..i tend to ignore the drunken banter..
i hardly ever drink it seems to put me out..i get down and can barely speak at all.. how ever at a normal self..i tend to speak my mind anyways.. i do get shy when i like some one and takes a litle bit of getting my nerve up..but i still tell it like it is.. ;-)
people say the darndest things when drinking. Things they normwlly wouldn't say, so if you need to have a talk with someone do it before you kill the bottle of wine.
I don't like getting falling down drunk, I think I am probably a little too old for that sort of thing.
But when I am in certain situations, I may have a drink or two because it helps me relax, and more at ease and in that way be able to express myself easier.
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