Revenge, Getting Even, etc. ( Archived) (114)

Mar 9, 2009 4:27 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Nope..I don't do the revenge thing...sure I have thought about it...BUT then I think we all have...I can't be bothered with revenge...I am like SA and leave it to karma...which can do a much better job at revenge than I ever could....wave wink hug kiss hug heart beating
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Mar 9, 2009 4:30 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
You did the right thing, why should you be harassed by these very persistent people when as you say, it was not your bill.
In my opinion this was Not revenge.
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Mar 9, 2009 4:35 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
hollandgirl: You did the right thing, why should you be harassed by these very persistent people when as you say, it was not your bill.
In my opinion this was Not revenge.
Oh but it felt like it at the time.laughwink
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Mar 9, 2009 4:36 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Nope..I don't do the revenge thing...sure I have thought about it...BUT then I think we all have...I can't be bothered with revenge...I am like SA and leave it to karma...which can do a much better job at revenge than I ever could....



Ok maybe I did one revenge thing...I called my ex-husbands fling at the time he was fooling around with and told her she could have him...that was the sweetest revenge of allllllll....grin
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Mar 9, 2009 4:38 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Ok maybe I did one revenge thing...I called my ex-husbands fling at the time he was fooling around with and told her she could have him...that was the sweetest revenge of allllllll....
thumbs up That is a good one. I have done something similiar on that as well.professor applause
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Mar 9, 2009 4:39 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
mylifewithu: That is a good one. I have done something similiar on that as well.


I almost forgot about that one...BUT damn it felt good...grin
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Mar 9, 2009 4:41 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: I almost forgot about that one...BUT damn it felt good...
Karma has to come back somehow. laugh
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Mar 9, 2009 4:43 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
mylifewithu: Karma has to come back somehow.


Yep...and it did...she got to put up with the a**hole instead of me...grin
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Mar 9, 2009 4:44 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yep...and it did...she got to put up with the a**hole instead of me...
laugh She got what she paid for that is for sure.laugh
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Mar 9, 2009 4:45 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
mylifewithu: She got what she paid for that is for sure.


Yep that she did...he didn't treat her any better than he did me...laugh
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Mar 9, 2009 4:47 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
takeit4granted
takeit4grantedtakeit4grantednew berlin, Wisconsin USA4 Threads 785 Posts
snugglysenior: It seems that I've been getting in trouble today with my posts. Geez, I hope that has ended.

I'm also hoping that you will have an interest in this subject.

I think (I'm not saying you have) at one time or another we have thought of revenge or getting even. I certainly have.

There is alot to talk about if we are all honest.

The sayings go that "revenge is sweet"
"getting even is the way to go"
"an eye for an eye"

How do you feel about getting revenge or getting even with those that hurt you.


You've been a little rebel? wink Revenge,,to much effort,,energy spent on it,,I wouldnt go out of my way to seek revenge,,but thats not to say if an opportunity was placed in front of me,,it would'nt be tempting devil
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Mar 9, 2009 5:00 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
takeit4granted: You've been a little rebel? Revenge,,to much effort,,energy spent on it,,I wouldnt go out of my way to seek revenge,,but thats not to say if an opportunity was placed in front of me,,it would'nt be tempting
There you go, that is the way to go about it.applause wink devil
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Mar 9, 2009 5:03 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
druidess6308: Ah, that I've done, Hope. It's called defending oneself. There's a difference.

Example:

Someone breaks into my house and robs me. I saw them, and know what they look like. The police can't catch them, they left no evidence. A few months later I see the person, and someone is able to identify them.

Revenge would be if I found out where they lived and went and robbed them.

Justice is I turn them in to the police, who investigate and I sue them.

Big difference in how it's handled.

Oh, defense is holding the burgler there with my gun and dogs until the police arrive, btw.



Thank you sis.hug
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Mar 9, 2009 7:55 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
takeit4granted
takeit4grantedtakeit4grantednew berlin, Wisconsin USA4 Threads 785 Posts
mylifewithu: There you go, that is the way to go about it.


we'll call it,,"fair play " angel devil
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Mar 9, 2009 8:43 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
RicoWest: If you've ever read any books by George Hayduke, you know that karma sometimes needs a push in the right direction...




thumbs up laugh
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Mar 9, 2009 8:46 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
RicoWest: If you've ever read any books by George Hayduke, you know that karma sometimes needs a push in the right direction...
laugh thumbs up Just a little pushwink devil
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Mar 9, 2009 8:51 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
gypsykisses
gypsykissesgypsykissesPort Huron, Michigan USA7 Threads 1 Polls 2,405 Posts
wave Not quite sure this is revenge as it is classified "just desserts"

Long story short-an ex stalked me for 4 years, showing up at my work, driving by my apartment etc.roll eyes Too afraid to actually do anything about it, but then one night he cut a huge heart into the seat of my truckvery mad It was an old truck, but the seat was in perfect condition. That's when I knew his obsession was progressing.

Well one night, I was on the porch-enjoying the evening, when I noticed him circling around my block with a woman in the passenger's side. I had lived in the "red zone" district at the time, and the police started to follow him. For whatever reason, I had parked my truck on the side of the road and not in the driveway, and when he saw the police, he dumped the car and the woman in my parking space and fled on foot.

The police asked me about him, and I told them as much as I knew at that point. Then looking at the car, I told the police officer the story of him not leaving me alone for so long and asked him if there was anything they could do about the car.

They were happy to help--had it towed and impounded. That was the end of his obsession and the last time I saw him.wave

Just desserts.
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Mar 9, 2009 8:53 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
gypsykisses: Not quite sure this is revenge as it is classified "just desserts"

Long story short-an ex stalked me for 4 years, showing up at my work, driving by my apartment etc. Too afraid to actually do anything about it, but then one night he cut a huge heart into the seat of my truck It was an old truck, but the seat was in perfect condition. That's when I knew his obsession was progressing.

Well one night, I was on the porch-enjoying the evening, when I noticed him circling around my block with a woman in the passenger's side. I had lived in the "red zone" district at the time, and the police started to follow him. For whatever reason, I had parked my truck on the side of the road and not in the driveway, and when he saw the police, he dumped the car and the woman in my parking space and fled on foot.

The police asked me about him, and I told them as much as I knew at that point. Then looking at the car, I told the police officer the story of him not leaving me alone for so long and asked him if there was anything they could do about the car.

They were happy to help--had it towed and impounded. That was the end of his obsession and the last time I saw him.

Just desserts.
Wow that was a long time of having to put up with a stalker. comfort hug bouquet I am glad he finally went away.wink
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Mar 9, 2009 8:57 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
gypsykisses: Not quite sure this is revenge as it is classified "just desserts"

Long story short-an ex stalked me for 4 years, showing up at my work, driving by my apartment etc. Too afraid to actually do anything about it, but then one night he cut a huge heart into the seat of my truck It was an old truck, but the seat was in perfect condition. That's when I knew his obsession was progressing.

Well one night, I was on the porch-enjoying the evening, when I noticed him circling around my block with a woman in the passenger's side. I had lived in the "red zone" district at the time, and the police started to follow him. For whatever reason, I had parked my truck on the side of the road and not in the driveway, and when he saw the police, he dumped the car and the woman in my parking space and fled on foot.

The police asked me about him, and I told them as much as I knew at that point. Then looking at the car, I told the police officer the story of him not leaving me alone for so long and asked him if there was anything they could do about the car.

They were happy to help--had it towed and impounded. That was the end of his obsession and the last time I saw him.

Just desserts.
thumbs up
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Mar 9, 2009 9:02 PM CST Revenge, Getting Even, etc.
In response to: It seems that I've been getting in trouble today with my posts. Geez, I hope that has ended.

I'm also hoping that you will have an interest in this subject.

I think (I'm not saying you have) at one time or another we have thought of revenge or getting even. I certainly have.

There is alot to talk about if we are all honest.

The sayings go that "revenge is sweet"
"getting even is the way to go"
"an eye for an eye"

How do you feel about getting revenge or getting even with those that hurt you.



Seeking revenge isn't really wroth it at all. i just think that why should I stoop to the other persons level.
That's why I would rather forgive the wrong doing then seek revenge on someone. Sometimes the best revenge is not revenege at all.I'd rather let karma handle casue sooner or later it will come back to them anyway.I don't like holding grudges and would rather write them off as a bad debt and move on.
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