mylifewithu: Wow that was a long time of having to put up with a stalker. I am glad he finally went away.
well it wasn't an everyday thing--more like a monthly thing, but each time it just pricked me so...Funny thing is, I had an 11 year "time out" and ended up meeting the same exact type of person on the net that just won't leave me alone Go figure.
there are certain peole here on CS that report to the mods every chsnce they get. And I actially believe they are mods, themselves. You know who you are. Anytine anyone disagree with you, that person gets banned.
I would love to name names...but that would insure my being banned.Otherwise...I would love to point out their names.
One doesn't like my animal pictures. One thinks he is Socrates...until he reveals his real self in his e-mails. One is so right winged...that he must keep flying in circles, so afraid of making a left move.
THses three are the most vengeful people I can think of on CS. Of course they act as if they are everyone's friend. At least the HILLBILLY BROAD isn't on much anymore
gypsykisses: well it wasn't an everyday thing--more like a monthly thing, but each time it just pricked me so...Funny thing is, I had an 11 year "time out" and ended up meeting the same exact type of person on the net that just won't leave me alone Go figure.
Oh I understand that one, I had several in a row myself. But not with a big gap between them as your's. I am glad I moved past those kind somehow.
pretzelman: there are certain peole here on CS that report to the mods every chsnce they get. And I actially believe they are mods, themselves. You know who you are. Anytine anyone disagree with you, that person gets banned.
I would love to name names...but that would insure my being banned.Otherwise...I would love to point out their names.
One doesn't like my animal pictures. One thinks he is Socrates...until he reveals his real self in his e-mails. One is so right winged...that he must keep flying in circles, so afraid of making a left move.THses three are the most vengeful people I can think of on CS. Of course they act as if they are everyone's friend. At least the HILLBILLY BROAD isn't on much anymore
pretzelman: there are certain peole here on CS that report to the mods every chsnce they get. And I actially believe they are mods, themselves. You know who you are. Anytine anyone disagree with you, that person gets banned.
I would love to name names...but that would insure my being banned.Otherwise...I would love to point out their names.
One doesn't like my animal pictures. One thinks he is Socrates...until he reveals his real self in his e-mails. One is so right winged...that he must keep flying in circles, so afraid of making a left move.THses three are the most vengeful people I can think of on CS. Of course they act as if they are everyone's friend. At least the HILLBILLY BROAD isn't on much anymore
I got banned from posting a while back for using more than 3 emoticons in a happy birthday thread, and then banned for a bit from putting up a pic that was deemed "not mine", and I have seen that pic used by others.
mylifewithu: Oh I understand that one, I had several in a row myself. But not with a big gap between them as your's. I am glad I moved past those kind somehow.
the funny thing is, they didn't seem to be the same type of person... I'm certainly not going to spend another 11 years trying to figure out what the heck I'm doing wrong.
gypsykisses: I got banned from posting a while back for using more than 3 emoticons in a happy birthday thread, and then banned for a bit from putting up a pic that was deemed "not mine", and I have seen that pic used by others.
Omg for going over the 3 emoticon, I better watch that I often post over by a couple. Eeeeeek .
pretzelman: there are certain peole here on CS that report to the mods every chsnce they get. And I actially believe they are mods, themselves. You know who you are. Anytine anyone disagree with you, that person gets banned.
I would love to name names...but that would insure my being banned.Otherwise...I would love to point out their names.
One doesn't like my animal pictures. One thinks he is Socrates...until he reveals his real self in his e-mails. One is so right winged...that he must keep flying in circles, so afraid of making a left move.THses three are the most vengeful people I can think of on CS. Of course they act as if they are everyone's friend. At least the HILLBILLY BROAD isn't on much anymore
For sure it's not paranoia if they're out to get ya.
mylifewithu: Omg for going over the 3 emoticon, I better watch that I often post over by a couple. Eeeeeek .
that was a while back, I'm not really sure who got me, but I have a feeling is was someone hugging me-while trying to feel the right stabbing place in my back. It's all good...at the end of the day, what can you do?
gypsykisses: the funny thing is, they didn't seem to be the same type of person... I'm certainly not going to spend another 11 years trying to figure out what the heck I'm doing wrong.
I wouldn't either, cause I don't think their is surefire way of knowing that ahead of time. Except to try to avoid the weird ones.
I have enjoyed reading this thread. Revenge? Oh I have heard the funniest stories.
One woman I know, her husband had an affair, he was precious about his wine collection, so she went and delivered his wine like pints of milk on people's doorstep.
Many, many others, but I would bore you all to sleep.
I am not into revenge, anger, we can do, but when we deliver it, we often turn inward into ourselves and we are the ones feeling angrier and angrier. Injustice is a different matter.
I have noever wanted revenge, I am just not strong enough to carry something through such as that.
Sommerauer71: I have enjoyed reading this thread. Revenge? Oh I have heard the funniest stories.
One woman I know, her husband had an affair, he was precious about his wine collection, so she went and delivered his wine like pints of milk on people's doorstep.
Many, many others, but I would bore you all to sleep.
I am not into revenge, anger, we can do, but when we deliver it, we often turn inward into ourselves and we are the ones feeling angrier and angrier. Injustice is a different matter.
I have noever wanted revenge, I am just not strong enough to carry something through such as that.
As far as CS is concerned, I know that there is at least one person who reports me on a regular basis. His dislike for me knows no bounds. SOOO I just stay out of his threads so I give him as little ammunition as possible.
Outside of CS...I have very little time for vengeful people. Tjhe thread about "p*dophile" shows my lack of vengeance. I just wish people on CS could live the same way
hollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
gypsykisses: I got banned from posting a while back for using more than 3 emoticons in a happy birthday thread, and then banned for a bit from putting up a pic that was deemed "not mine", and I have seen that pic used by others.
Almost everyone uses a lot of emoticons especially in birthday threads. As far as I know no one else had told of having been banned for using to many. Why you is the question huh?
LIfe is way too short to waste time seeking revenge...it is a negative, toxic reaction that will only keep the cycle of anger going and it all is a result of fear. When the need for revenge is so deep, one must really address and conquer their fears. The fact is, to act out revenge doesn't give the revenger an upper hand or power, but rather, all of that is just handed back to the person that wronged you. They again know that they still have the power to control you and that you lack the power to control your actions. It's kinda like the whole forgiveness thing, it's not for them, it is for you...because when that ball of anger/hate/revenge/distress etc. is wadded up in the soul; a person is stuck there - they will have a very difficult time in life obtaining and keeping all they aspire to be and have.
I had someone leave me in a relationship that devastated me beyond belief. To get even, I wrote her a vthree page email that was so terrible I even shuddered after I read it. Thinking that I got even after I hit the send button, I soon felt overwhelmed with sorrow and disgust over the fact that I would do that to someone in order to feel better about myself. After thinking about it days later, I realized that if I truly felt that way, then just maybe she had every right to leave and was correct in doing so. Revenge is not good!!
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well it wasn't an everyday thing--more like a monthly thing, but each time it just pricked me so...Funny thing is, I had an 11 year "time out" and ended up meeting the same exact type of person on the net that just won't leave me alone Go figure.