How to Catch a Good Woman
Finding that special woman may be easier than you think. For a woman to become attracted to you may be less about how you dress, dance, or how big your muscles are.
If you've ever wondered how the geek ended up with the beauty queen, it was probably because she passed over a lot of frogs who lacked integrity first.
Especially when a woman has had a bad experience with a man, she will look for traits that are more valuable in the future. That means your personality, manners, character, and level of self-awareness will probably speak louder to a smart woman. When you cultivate these areas and demonstrate them, you will be attractive. These traits tell a woman that you will make a good boyfriend or are good spouse material.
Aside from your own self-development, having an understanding of women is essential to a good relationship. Here are a few things smart women might say they like in a man:
He Understands Her Differences
Even though she's good at blending in with a crowd, watching sports, and maybe even doing tough jobs, she still wants to be admired for her more feminine qualities. She will love it when you take time to listen to her stories even if they tend to bore you. She will love it when you notice the small things, especially the special touches she adds to make herself or the environment more beautiful.
He Shares His Feelings
It's usually not typical for a man to share his innermost feelings. When a woman finds someone that does, she knows she's found a treasure. To her, intimacy is more about the content shared than it is about being physical closeness. Tell her how you feel about life, and share your dreams for the future.
He Notices Her
It's easy to feel a relationship is about yourself but making it about your own happiness will dull the relationship. A woman will make a better companion to the man who notices her hard work and efforts. Take time to comment on what she's done, how she's handled situations, and so on. Offer to help her. Compliment her, thank her, and tell her when you're proud of her. She probably has few people in her life that do that, so when you notice her, it will set you apart.
He Keeps Dating Her
Manners, respect and intrigue can quickly go out the window as time goes on. It's important to make respect a long-term trait. Remember how you treated her on your first dates and keep doing it to keep your relationship fresh. Even if you don't feel romantic at times, playing the role of the romantic may help romance bloom.
He Takes the Initiative
Women are often controlling, choosing date locations, how time is spent, etc. A woman may even hint at what a man should wear, or correct him when he's wrong. But though a woman is naturally controlling, she will appreciate the man who steps up. She will appreciate you making plans now and then. She'll appreciate it when you show your intellect, dress nicely, open doors, and lead the way.
He Encourages Friendships and Has Friends of His Own
You can't possibly fill all a woman's needs, nor she yours. A woman will be happier when she has opportunities for girl talk with other women. Encourage her to have friends and her own hobbies. A little distance now and then does wonders for a relationship.
Finding and maintaining a relationship is far from easy. It makes sense to have some good guidelines such as these to go by. However these are not tools only to use to 'catch' a woman, they must be genuine, traits that reflect the real you. The bottom line is that to catch a good woman, you must be a good man. The tips above are signs that women look for in a good man.