Is every man shallow? ( Archived) (135)

Mar 18, 2009 7:27 PM CST Is every man shallow?
lifesajoy
lifesajoylifesajoySand Fork, West Virginia USA4 Threads 404 Posts
Big_John: I believe I will tell you what you want to hear. So yes I am shallow. I want the woman I want, not the one you wish me to have. She needs to have the body I desire. She needs to be the height I am looking for. Once I find the body I will see if she has a mind, personality and traits I like in her. Until then I will continue to be petty, shallow and selective in the woman I wish to find.


Hey there Big John, nothing like kickin' a girl when she's down. Easy big fella!
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Mar 18, 2009 7:28 PM CST Is every man shallow?
krt4fun
krt4funkrt4funpennock, Minnesota USA411 Posts
Charli15695: Wasn't there a movie....Shallow Man???



yup, shallow hal..
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Mar 18, 2009 7:28 PM CST Is every man shallow?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
jessejess47: yea hang out with us for a while , we don't bite much, but i heard Desmond gropes tho....



That's true! He almost stayed in jail with me so he could keep pulling my chair closer! laugh
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Mar 18, 2009 7:28 PM CST Is every man shallow?
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
krt4fun: yup, shallow hal..


Oh yeah...loved that! thanks! dancing
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Mar 18, 2009 7:30 PM CST Is every man shallow?
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
dcj22: That's true! He almost stayed in jail with me so he could keep pulling my chair closer!


Well at least with Des there...you had some might fine drinks I bet! bartender waiter buddies cheers
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Mar 18, 2009 7:30 PM CST Is every man shallow?
krt4fun
krt4funkrt4funpennock, Minnesota USA411 Posts
Charli15695: Oh yeah...loved that! thanks!


See, i am good for something,,,, even though i cant dance,,except for thebanana LOLgrin
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Mar 18, 2009 7:31 PM CST Is every man shallow?
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
krt4fun: See, i am good for something,,,, even though i cant dance,,except for the LOL



thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Mar 18, 2009 7:31 PM CST Is every man shallow?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Charli15695: Well at least with Des there...you had some might fine drinks I bet!



It was just hard to get to them from slapping his hands out of the way. laugh
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Mar 18, 2009 7:33 PM CST Is every man shallow?
Mankind_
Mankind_Mankind_NY, New York USA6 Threads 194 Posts
lifesajoy: Not all men are like that. I found one here who isn't like that at all and we are planning to marry in July. Just hand in there! If nothing else you'll come away with some really good friends. Isn't that worth staying around for?


Congratulations
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Mar 18, 2009 7:33 PM CST Is every man shallow?
Most anything worhwhile takes time and patience.
Hang in there and enjoy some of the other things available on the site.
Who knows, when you least expect it?
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Mar 18, 2009 7:33 PM CST Is every man shallow?
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
dcj22: It was just hard to get to them from slapping his hands out of the way.


LOL...he's a dish tho...why would you want to? rolling on the floor laughing dancing
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Mar 18, 2009 7:33 PM CST Is every man shallow?
Matthew98
Matthew98Matthew98Flowery Branch, Georgia USA3 Threads 46 Posts
Big_John: I believe I will tell you what you want to hear. So yes I am shallow. I want the woman I want, not the one you wish me to have. She needs to have the body I desire. She needs to be the height I am looking for. Once I find the body I will see if she has a mind, personality and traits I like in her. Until then I will continue to be petty, shallow and selective in the woman I wish to find.


Women do the same thing so I see no harm I guess.
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Mar 18, 2009 7:33 PM CST Is every man shallow?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
sassygirl08: wow, talk about shallow.... best of luck there buddy...



yea right
the guys are shallowdoh doh doh
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Mar 18, 2009 7:35 PM CST Is every man shallow?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Charli15695: LOL...he's a dish tho...why would you want to?



laugh That he is! And a sweetheart!
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Mar 18, 2009 7:43 PM CST Is every man shallow?
takeit4granted
takeit4grantedtakeit4grantednew berlin, Wisconsin USA4 Threads 785 Posts
sassygirl08: I think im about to delete my profile here! I just feel every man here is looking for barbie, not everybody has a perfect body, height or weight, but I swear every guy here is looking for that perfect women, nobody takes the time to get to know the inner person, get to know our personality, our strenghts, weaknesses, likes, dislikes and our quirks. What a shame, I fell I have so much to offer the right person but never get the time of day, honestly im pissed as hell and needed to vent for all that will do...


Barbie is/was over rated,,I always liked the dirty,,tom boy type women,with that nawti edge,,in moderation angel devil
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Mar 18, 2009 7:44 PM CST Is every man shallow?
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
sassygirl08: I think im about to delete my profile here! I just feel every man here is looking for barbie, not everybody has a perfect body, height or weight, but I swear every guy here is looking for that perfect women, nobody takes the time to get to know the inner person, get to know our personality, our strenghts, weaknesses, likes, dislikes and our quirks. What a shame, I fell I have so much to offer the right person but never get the time of day, honestly im pissed as hell and needed to vent for all that will do...


Rejection hurts like hell, doesnt it? hug

What keeps us going is the hope that the next profile we view, or the next person to view us will be THE ONE. We cant give up, here or in real life. teddybear
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Mar 18, 2009 7:45 PM CST Is every man shallow?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
lifesajoy: I'm not saying tell her what she wants to hear, I'm saying there's a kinder way of saying it without making her feel any worse than she already does. Am I the only one who believes in diplomacy?


If you go back and read my original post you will find I did not state the type of woman I am interested in. Most you read into it what you wanted to read, not what I wrote. This is a common problem on dating sites it is more important on how you say something rather than what you say.
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Mar 18, 2009 7:46 PM CST Is every man shallow?
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts

Oh girl I don't even know where to begin here and I will
try to be tactful as it is not in my character to hurt
someone. First, you probably have no idea how many of
this type of thread has been on here, but remain in the
forums and I'm sure you will see them again.


I personally would rather see you come on as a newbie. let
us welcome you and then participate in the forums and let
people get to know you a little. Not saying that you will
find a man but you will find a friend or two. I love me
and until we can stand in front of a full length mirror
naked and really say as I do, Damn Sassy you look pretty
damn good for pushing 60, then how can we really expect
a man to love us.

I agree with John and I am hoping this does not upset you,
but we all have in our minds what we are looking for.
Now I consider John a friend, but I read his profile, I
know what he is looking for, but having him as a friend
is wonderful. Sorry John, you just happened to be the one
that was speaking how you feel so I chose to use you, in
a good way.

I say welcome, stick around the forums, chat with people
make friends and have a good time. (JMO)
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Mar 18, 2009 7:48 PM CST Is every man shallow?
texasmlh
texasmlhtexasmlhSouthgate, Kentucky USA1 Threads 8 Posts
sassygirl08: I think im about to delete my profile here! I just feel every man here is looking for barbie, not everybody has a perfect body, height or weight, but I swear every guy here is looking for that perfect women, nobody takes the time to get to know the inner person, get to know our personality, our strenghts, weaknesses, likes, dislikes and our quirks. What a shame, I fell I have so much to offer the right person but never get the time of day, honestly im pissed as hell and needed to vent for all that will do...


You are not the only one. I feel the same way too. I have met a couple of men and they say that they think we clicked and then I have never heard from them again. I am getting very very frustrated. confused Any hints from someone??
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Mar 18, 2009 7:50 PM CST Is every man shallow?
JamesBraginton
JamesBragintonJamesBragintonPalm Desert, California USA179 Posts
sassygirl08: I think im about to delete my profile here! I just feel every man here is looking for barbie, not everybody has a perfect body, height or weight, but I swear every guy here is looking for that perfect women, nobody takes the time to get to know the inner person, get to know our personality, our strenghts, weaknesses, likes, dislikes and our quirks. What a shame, I fell I have so much to offer the right person but never get the time of day, honestly im pissed as hell and needed to vent for all that will do...



How would guys know what u look like? U have no photo. I used

to be one of those guys who goes for barbie doll women. Then, I

married one and for 9 years I lived in infamy. Guess what, I

don't date that type of girl anymore. So now I seee if the girl

is sane or not by getting to know them by chatting or talking

with them for a while.

Hey, make sure u have no guns.
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