Is every man shallow? (135)
sassygirl08: I think im about to delete my profile here! I just feel every man here is looking for barbie, not everybody has a perfect body, height or weight, but I swear every guy here is looking for that perfect women, nobody takes the time to get to know the inner person, get to know our personality, our strenghts, weaknesses, likes, dislikes and our quirks. What a shame, I fell I have so much to offer the right person but never get the time of day, honestly im pissed as hell and needed to vent for all that will do...
Oh bless you. You vent as much as you like.
Men and their expectations eh? They want us to be beautiful, attractive, easy on the eye, have money, houses and then they come to a free dating site to find it...
The bloody cheek of them.
They don't take the time to get to know the inner person, because they don't make time.
But you know? Some of them do and they are here. Trust me, they are.
I'd do a list. But that is unfair.
Give it some time, certainly posting here will help, it will give you some exposure, that sounds awful, but it is true.
Good luck.
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texasmlh: You are not the only one. I feel the same way too. I have met a couple of men and they say that they think we clicked and then I have never heard from them again. I am getting very very frustrated. Any hints from someone??
My suggestion is to read the Threads and post on the ones you find interesting and you feel you have something to say that will expose your personaility, beliefs and character. Many, many people read and never post on the Threads. This will expose you to many more men. Good luck. I hope you find him soon.
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sassygirl08: I think im about to delete my profile here! I just feel every man here is looking for barbie, not everybody has a perfect body, height or weight, but I swear every guy here is looking for that perfect women, nobody takes the time to get to know the inner person, get to know our personality, our strenghts, weaknesses, likes, dislikes and our quirks. What a shame, I fell I have so much to offer the right person but never get the time of day, honestly im pissed as hell and needed to vent for all that will do...
and generalizing will certainly help you find a gentleman on this site......
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Big_John: If you go back and read my original post you will find I did not state the type of woman I am interested in. Most you read into it what you wanted to read, not what I wrote. This is a common problem on dating sites it is more important on how you say something rather than what you say.
I did read your original post and what I found harsh was, I believe I will tell you what you want to hear, and then refering to yourself as shallow and petty. I don't think because you know what you want makes you shallow and petty. I just think your opening sentence could have been something a little softer.
I guess that's just the mommy in me or the peacekeeper, whatever you want to call it.
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SensualVixen: and generalizing will certainly help you find a gentleman on this site......
well hello long lost vixen...
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lifesajoy: Nice save sweetheart! And no way in hell our we waiting until 2013! I don't care what your lucky number is!
Shoot! are
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jessejess47: well hello long lost vixen...
The names are changes to protect the innocent, but the picture remains the same!
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lifesajoy: I did read your original post and what I found harsh was, I believe I will tell you what you want to hear, and then refering to yourself as shallow and petty. I don't think because you know what you want makes you shallow and petty. I just think your opening sentence could have been something a little softer.
I guess that's just the mommy in me or the peacekeeper, whatever you want to call it.
I guess that's just the mommy in me or the peacekeeper, whatever you want to call it.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....No....Big John wasn't harsh at all...He was being very 'Honest'..I was 'Harsh',and I won't denied it either...not Big John........
J.D
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sassygirl08: I think im about to delete my profile here! I just feel every man here is looking for barbie, not everybody has a perfect body, height or weight, but I swear every guy here is looking for that perfect women, nobody takes the time to get to know the inner person, get to know our personality, our strenghts, weaknesses, likes, dislikes and our quirks. What a shame, I fell I have so much to offer the right person but never get the time of day, honestly im pissed as hell and needed to vent for all that will do...
I think that has more to do with your perception than anything. The one thing I have found is that guys do like to get to know the inner person when they are being real. You need to pick out better guys to get to know. I've never had a problem and I am old plus no beauty queen.
Post, have fun and be patient. Your prince will come. No one wants a grumpy gal who is down on herself. Working on that will help.
jmo
good luck to you
given time, you will find what you are looking for.
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Well here's the thing...Do you want a man or the man...That's what you have to decide...If you want the man...then shallowness of some men shouldn't bother you because obviously that's something that you're not looking for....Sooooooo in that sense it boils down to what any of us want...and are looking for as well as attraction and chemistry....I guess it all depends what you want...Me...I am waiting for THE man soooooooo just any man won't suffice because I am done with unhealthy relationship so I am holding out for the right man this time...so yes that makes me selective.....
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Sommerauer71: I agree, I thought the post about the picture was a little harsh.
Physical attraction is important, it is to me, I can only be seduced by words for a certain amount of time. But they do lead me to an inner depth of a person and that can be helpful.
Evening Teach, you ok?
Physical attraction is important, it is to me, I can only be seduced by words for a certain amount of time. But they do lead me to an inner depth of a person and that can be helpful.
Evening Teach, you ok?
Thanks Sommer and you too John.
I´m fine Sommer, from one Teach to another!
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I am about as deep as a puddle of ant pee...
*sorry* had to say it.
I'll just step away from the thread now...
me
*wave to Big J, liked your first post in the thread.
*sorry* had to say it.
I'll just step away from the thread now...
me
*wave to Big J, liked your first post in the thread.
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Shedman01: I am about as deep as a puddle of ant pee...
*sorry* had to say it.
I'll just step away from the thread now...
me
*wave to Big J, liked your first post in the thread.
*sorry* had to say it.
I'll just step away from the thread now...
me
*wave to Big J, liked your first post in the thread.
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Shallow=Selective
I think everyone gets to this point at sometime...
For me, I wouldnt call myself shallow...but, I am selective in what I want in a man. Im not gonna settle for something less then I want and deserve, after all, "he" could be my life partner (this includes both the outer and inner beauty and both are important when it comes down to it)...I best choose well. so, with that said...I wouldnt expect a man to any less.
I think everyone gets to this point at sometime...
For me, I wouldnt call myself shallow...but, I am selective in what I want in a man. Im not gonna settle for something less then I want and deserve, after all, "he" could be my life partner (this includes both the outer and inner beauty and both are important when it comes down to it)...I best choose well. so, with that said...I wouldnt expect a man to any less.
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sassygirl08: wow, best of luck to you. I just dont know how to feel anymore, I understand a relationship takes work, i was married for almost ten yrs, lol but wow this is A LOT of work and im not having fun yet
So relax, hang out in the forums and have fun...stop looking so hard. When you stop looking, love usually finds you...and just when and where you least expected it.
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druidess6308: So relax, hang out in the forums and have fun...stop looking so hard. When you stop looking, love usually finds you...and just when and where you least expected it.
it happens quite often too
good advice Dru
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virgiomonkey: Whoa....which 'Planet' did you come from....'Sensitive New age Guy Planet'....?
apparently cracked a new self help book
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virgiomonkey: Whoa....which 'Planet' did you come from....'Sensitive New age Guy Planet'....?
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gypsykisses: apparently cracked a new self help book
..............Good one.....
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