Ever wonder if those little "boy bands" were actually the illegitimate offspring of some of these other early eighties groups??? no??... yeah me neither... ahem....
If you truly have to ask, then you already have an answer in my book... That would be leave it as it is...
If you are asking this question of strangers, there can only be one of two reasons that I can see, and neither are fitting to start something more then where this relationship of yours is right now...
1) You need support to do something you think is wrong to do, but "want" it to be right so approval from others justifys it...
or
2) You will only do what you plan to do as long as enough people agree with you because you lack the confidence to do it on your own...
Neither of those would be very solid reasons to start a relationship with. Just my own opinion of course and offered only as a thought to be either considered or ignored.
PS:This has been building in me far longer then last night, so please don't narrow my feelings down to any single event at all, it is simply a compilation of countless things I have seen in my short time here, and in things I see around me locally away from the computer etc...
...that the world is in such disharmony at the moment? I mean truly think for a moment about the following, this is one small forum of absolutely no consequence in the workings of the world… or is it? There are maybe 100 active forum members here at this one forum on the site, of that maybe 50 that are quite active. In that few there are many countries of this world represented and many various cultures and view points, and there are wars between them...
So much intolerance, anger, hatred, misunderstanding, and complete disregard for the feelings of others is exhibited just in this small little space, how can any of us be surprised that governments don’t get along when the individuals that live within those governments can’t even get along on a website designed to bring people together in friendship and with luck, Love…
Where has common respect for others gone? Are there really so few people left with it that it is next to impossible to find one? I like to think that I try my best to be one but then I could not say that with full honesty and still post this message could I? But yet by posting this and trying my best to be as respectful as I can in saying how I feel I go against what I am about to say, but only because right now I should not be discussing things with others until I get my own feelings back under control.
I do my very best to give respect to everyone, I don’t ask that they prove themselves worthy of it first, I give it to them straight off. How? By trying to understand their views and trying to learn why they say what they say and do what they do. They have grown up in a different way then I have. They have experienced different things in their lives. They are different people. I love to learn about people and what makes them feel as they do about things.
It is that desire to know their views and why they hold those views, that drives me to give them respect first, in order that I may try to remain as open to what they say as I possibly can. Knowing that it may very well be their views are such that I could never agree with them but at least maybe by respecting them I can find out why. If I know why then at least there is a chance I can better understand them and others who may share the same views as they do. It is called acceptance that my views are NOT the right ones for anyone else but me.
If we few people here in this simple forum designed to bring people together from around the world cannot be open to each others views and try to learn from each other, how the HECK can we expect our governments to do so? How can we expect our children to do so? How in the world do we expect to ever live in a world that our children or their children will not have to face hatred, war, and death at the hands of others who do not even understand why the person they hate and/or kill thinks as they do?
I am sorry that I have vented such a long babble of negativity but I had to let some of what I have been feeling out. I have been holding it in to long and simply had to release some before I completely fell apart. There are some amazing people on this site and some truly very impressive ones in the respect they show for others, but there are also some very seriously vicious and mean people here that I sure wish I could understand better but I am in no position right now to even try asking them why they are so angry, anger asking about anger is just a volatile combination, maybe someday later on I will be able to ask…
Take care all, and do at least try to find something any tiny little thing within each other that you can at least recognize as making you each part of the whole world and that each of you can have a big impact on how not only this site “feels” to others but how those people around your life feel as well.
I wouldn't regret a thing. My views of respect are not typical and I am not meaning that I would walk around cussing out certain folks etc or anything of that nature. I mean respect for their wishes and the like would change... example My sister not wanting me to go out of my way to do things for her... my mom the same thing... etc... I respect their wish in that regard but if I only had a year left you can bet I would simply do things for them anyway regardless of their request that I not... things of that nature is what I mean.
As for regreting later... nope.. still wouldn't have any no matter if I live 50 years past the date. Life is still much to short and offers way to much to learn to have any regrets of anything.
The only thing that would be different in that situation verses my reality now is that I would do things for me that I wanted to do, one in particular that I am not doing out of respect for the other person. If I knew I was going to die within a year however I would say sod it and do those things I do not do right now out of respect for others. maybe that is a wrong answer to give but I can't help it as I hate to bother other people etc... so yeah it would be different for me right now.
Always like these kind of thoughts because I can read them quite often and each time my answer that comes first to my mind changes either slightly or completely, keeps things interesting.
Different kind of "Love" song here as it is one I have dedicated to my kids and other family... but I always enjoy this one as it just gives that goooooood feeling to me...
Ich kann nicht mehr sehen trau nicht mehr meinen Augen. Kann kaum noch glauben Gefhle haben sich gedreht. Ich bin viel zu trge um aufzugeben. Es wr auch zu frh weil immer was geht.
Wir waren verschworen wren freinander gestorben haben den Regen gebogen und Vertrauen geliehen. Wir haben versucht auf der Schussfahrt zu wenden nichts war zu spt aber vieles zu frh
Wir haben uns geschoben durch alle Gezeiten haben uns verzettelt und verzweifelt geliebt. Wir haben die Wahrheit so gut es ging verlogen es war ein Stck vom Himmel, dass es dich gibt
Du hast den Raum mit Sonne geflutet hast jeden Verdru ins Gegenteil verkehrt. nordisch nobel, deine sanftmtige Gte dein unbndiger Stolz das Leben ist nicht fair.
Den Film getanzt in einem silbernen Raum am goldnen Balkon die Unendlichkeit bestaunt wahllos versunken, trunken und alles war erlaubt zusammen im Zeitraffer, Mittsommernachtstraum.
Du hast den Raum mit Sonne geflutet hast jeden Verdruss ins Gegenteil verkehrt nordisch nobel, deine sanftmtige Gte dein unbndiger Stolz das Leben ist nicht fair
Dein sicherer Gang deine wahren Gedichte. Deine heitere Wrde dein unerschtterliches Geschick Du hast der Fgung deine Stirn geboten hast ihn nie verraten deinen Plan vom Glck, deinen Plan vom Glck.
Ich gehe nicht weg hab meine Frist verlngert neue Zeitreise auf eine Welt habe dich sicher in meiner Seele ich trag dich bei mir bis der Vorhang fllt, ich trag dich bei mir bis der Vorhang fllt.
**The Way**
I can no longer see Don't believe my eyes any more Can hardly believe Feelings all turned around
I'm much too lazy To give up Besides it would be too soon Because there's always a way
We were bound together Would have died for each other Bent the rain into a bow Lent each other our trust
We tried to Turn while schussing Nothing was too late But much was too soon
We have shoved each other Through all the tides We got sidetracked together Loved desperately
We denied the truth The best we could It was a piece of heaven That you exist
Every room you Flooded with sun Every frustration You turned around
Nordic noble Your gentle goodness Your untamed pride Life isn't fair
Danced the movie In a silver room From a golden balcony We stood in awe of eternity
Helplessly sunken, drunken And everything was allowed Together in time-lapse Midsummer-Night's Dream
Every room you Flooded with sun Every frustration You turned around
Nordic noble Your gentle goodness Your untamed pride Life isn't fair
Your confident stride Your true poetry Your serene dignity Your unshakeable grace
Your destiny You defied You never betrayed Your plan for happiness Your plan for happiness
I'm not leaving here I've extended my stay New time travel Open world
I have you safe Inside my soul I'll carry you with me Until the curtain falls
I would only add to those who celebrate Mother's day, (even unwillingly ) I hope that the weekend is an enjoyable one.
As for my own plans, calling my mom is a definite, as well as my sister and sister-in-law, and the mother of my Grand Daughter, a couple of ex'es to wish them a happy Mother's day. Aside from that... spending whatever time I can with a certain someone who also happens to be a very special mom... Merc
Inspiration for me comes from every aspect of my life, everything I see, smell, touch, taste, feel, etc. It is in the flowers that bloom the same as it is in those that whither, the smile of a child and their tears. Life itself provides the inspiration that feeds my mind, and heart. Sorry I could not be more specific but when everything good and bad is an inspiration it is a never ending list unless it is generalized.
Passion for me is what gives strength to my own codes of honor and morals, it is what drives my desires to do all I can for my Loved ones, like Merc, my kids, and family etc. My passion for life drives my desires to understand it and investigate it as well as share my understandings with any who wish to hear/see them.
RE: Texas Gun Logic
Thats a ripper mate----
Yeah now tell me WHY am I living here again???
hiya Des!