Shedman01 Forum Posts (1,029)

RE: Have u ever worked as a middleman for marriage / 2 loving heart ?

I have managed to help four couples come together three of which were long distance relations that are now together in the same country. One of which was a young couple in AZ that to my knowledge as still going strong. So I have been a mediator for others from time to time and so far been lucky to have been helpful.



Off to bed for me... after 6am already..sheesh

RE: Why women are diffrent...

hehe

RE: What are the Biggest Lies told when Dating

"No I am not comparing you to my ex...."

RE: Why women are diffrent...

Not all men do that, just to balance the books a little. Nor do all women cut off communications with other guys etc.

Some of those who talk to more then one could be doing so for any number of reasons including, "safety net", Playing the field, flirting not dating, and many other reasons. It just happens and it happens in dating in person too.

That is the understanding in brief that I have of the situation. I have never done it so simply don't know. I am to interested in talking to the special one in my life to find much to say elsewhere including posting much. But when she is working or busy elsewhere then I post some.

RE: What are the Biggest Lies told when Dating

RE: What A Woman Can't Do

RE: What do u think you are ?

Nah, not lazy at all Jesse, succinct and direct sure, but not lazy.

RE: What do u think you are ?

It is these compliments that come to me that I wish I could give back to those who are responsible for my being who I am. You see it is the kindness and compassions that I have been shown that make it possible for me to then show those things to others. Were it not for the manner in which people have always treated me I would not be able to know how to treat those I have treated. Perhaps in some small way that is what is meant by the saying “pay it forward” or perhaps it is just what makes human beings such a unique and splendid creature of Earth.

I may never know the true answer for that but I can tell you that knowing all the people I have known makes me very proud to be a human being and it is what makes me believe so fiercely that we are not a creature bent on self destruction. We, the individuals that create the species, are the ones who live through our hearts and passions for life and the expansions of our inner selves. We, the individuals who pursue the desires and thirst for knowledge that we are not the barbaric memories our history lessons exude. We, the individuals who place love for those others of us that we do not know, on a higher level then greed or lust or what they can do for our own benefit. So what do I think I am? Just one of a few billion amazing people.


me

RE: Say 'I LOVE YOU' in your native language

In my "native tongue of prose" here is how I might say it, at least tonight, to a certain lady who is still at work right now but will be on later...

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Three words can be said that are short and true,
and yes, they can express the love I have for you.
But how can only three words said here tonight,
be enough to reveal my hearts very high flight?

So more then three I will offer you this time,
trying to emulate my feelings by making a rhyme.
For it is a song that you add to, deep in my heart,
a melody of my own, of which now you too are a part.

Harmony is ringing within; my soul now resounding,
and all through the heavens I feel I am bounding.
Sharing with you my love and the love that you give,
feelings on which alone I swear I could forever live.

The song of mine beats new now, in my minds ear,
and would not sound as sweet without you here.
So with these few words I have tried to think of,
know it's just my way of saying it's you I Love.

RE: Who Is A Real Man?

One helluva man at that I would say with a snapped salute and sincere thanks. Honestly Big_J.

RE: Who Is A Real Man?

Good thing I am a REAL WOMAN then

RE: THE HAPPIEST DAY IN MY LIFE......

All of mine thus far have been very happy days, but there is a day in my future that I think will hold a pretty high rank and oddly enough it will be a day I get a stamp in my passport...hmmm

RE: How recent is your picture on your profile?

about four days?? Don't remember, took it right before I posted it though.

RE: how do you fall in love with a computer monitor....

I was not trying to offer a negative feeling with my comment about sympathy.

I can accept people being cautious with their hearts even if I don't understand it because of my own views on it all. So I do hope it was not an offensive wording I used as it was only meant to reflect my personal feelings of compassion that I hold for others and the hope I have for them to experience truly giving relationships... that's all.

It sounds to me like you would at some point release the Love you have for another and that is great, my sympathy was meant more for those who seem to never be willing to do that again no matter what, and some of the comments made in this thread speak in that direction. It seems for some that even after knowing someone they can't fully release their hearts and so caution prevails over all else and it seems that for some folks they will never give completely of their Love again.

That is where my sympathy flows to, I just can't help that, so hopefully that helps to clarify so that my comment doesn't feel negative to anyone.


me

RE: how do you fall in love with a computer monitor....

I have read through this thread and to be very blunt I can not help but feel sympathy for many who have expressed their inability to Love without "meeting" (physically being in the same location as another person) someone.

Why do I feel this? Because to me it shows how life has created walls around the hearts of people who have a great deal of Love to give and yet will not give it for the fears of the pain it may bring.

I have been burned by fire, yet I enjoy the warmth it gives and do not fear what it can do if I am sitting in the middle of it. I have been made severely ill by food I have eaten yet I still enjoy the very foods that made me ill once. I have been attacked by a dog and yet do I still reach out and pet strays. I have been cheated in business yet do I still offer my services to others.

I have been lied to by family and yet do I still trust them with my life. I have been hurt by words that were never directed at me, yet do I continue to read and listen. I have given countless gifts for holidays and birthdays to people who never sent me gifts or even thank you's in return, yet do I still send gifts...

I have been hurt people I have given my Love to, but yet I offer it to all those I feel it for the minute I know I feel it from deep within my heart and soul. If I were blind would I never Love again because I could not see the one I Loved? No. If I were Deaf would I never Love again because I could not hear the one I Loved? no. And if I were paralyzed and could feel nothing from the neck down and never even flinch at the touch from one who Loved me would I never Love them back? no.

Love is not a conditional emotion, or one of choice for me. I do not choose to Love or not Love someone. To me Love is either accepted or rejected by those who feel it, and/or by those who it is given to. I myself choose to never reject the Love I have to give. Why would I do so? I want to give my Love to anyone that draws it from me.

I will never withhold it, I will never hide it, and I sure as heck am not ever going to deny it, I don't care if the one who draws that Love out of my heart lives as far away as it is possible to live on this planet, and I do not care if I have ever felt their touch, smelled their breath, heard their sneeze, or seen their toes, If my heart tells me I Love them I trust it, my heart, and I let that Love pour forth from it regardless of the pain I may find, regardless of the lies I may hear, regardless of how it may be received.

Why? Because I will not die feeling as though I kept such a powerful gift away from someone who may have really needed it, I will always know my Love was given because I will always give it when it is there to give, and I protect myself in one way only, I never place any expectation upon it when I give it. Love is not a barganing chip in my life, it is a gift given to me and one that when I feel it belongs to someone else I can not keep it from them, I must give them the gift I have been allowed to hold for them. What they choose to do with the gift of my Love is up to them, not me, so I give it to them.

So a question is asked, how do you fall in Love with a person you have never "met", and all I can say is this...

I can Love someone I have never "met" because it is not my place to withold the gift of Love that my heart says belongs to that person. I can Love them because I do not require proof of how they feel for me, all that matters is that I offer them the gift my heart and soul says is theirs to have regardless of all else.

Take care all,

me

RE: The Bar Is Open ..................It Is Always Ladies Night...........

very glad! 5am here I am off to meet you within my dreams and dance through the night on the clouds below our feet. May you sleep well when you go and hopefully I'll catch you in your dreams as well. Night my

RE: hi ladies do you like forward men?

Grabs your hand and takes you to the dance floor one last time for tonight...



Tenderly holds one of your hands while placing your other hand on my shoulder and wrapping my free arm around your waist. Hope the link works for you this time. Night sweety!


*forward enough?

RE: The Bar Is Open ..................It Is Always Ladies Night...........

grrr wrong link....



That one

RE: Gday

LOL



Love that song!

RE: Gday

Well Crickey I ain't fearin no spidahs an juss whait till I jump tha't big ol' crock oveh thair...

*With sincere respect to Steve, but I love doing impressions of him *

RE: Gday

is ok I have been dealing with a virus myself...*snicker* just ignoring away and having fun with certain site features. Go hit the bar and see if the Aussie links work for you on the songs I posted if you have a sec..

RE: Gday

I was dancing with you and you weren't there...

played two songs in the Desmond Bar and and...sniff...

RE: The Bar Is Open ..................It Is Always Ladies Night...........

sneaks out to leave the two alone swaying on the dance floor under the softly spinning lights, their eyes locked on each other so as not to notice a thing around them....

RE: If money´s no object ..................

Very likely, I have never felt as though I only belonged in one place, it just has never been the way I feel really even though I am able to do it for extended periods of time and not be unhappy about it at all, I do very much enjoy wandering too. Have been doing it the past couple of years again now after spending almost 15 years in one place. Been having a lot of fun and finally got my passport last year so am ready to stert crossing oceans too!




Think that's where I am headed first on my overseas travels.

RE: Gday

LOL well I thank you for the very kind compliment paid then since your eyes are 'doctor approved' I have to accept it right?

Hope your weekend went well?

RE: The Bar Is Open ..................It Is Always Ladies Night...........

oooohhh snap he pulls out the Luther!!! So smooth... I want to be like Des when I grow up!

I think my dance partner snuck out on me...

RE: The Bar Is Open ..................It Is Always Ladies Night...........

I just don't want to stop dancing with her now so spinning out another...





*hope the Australia links are working this time*

RE: The Bar Is Open ..................It Is Always Ladies Night...........

Kicks the jukebox and grabs Mercedes1 and spins her round out to the dance floor with one arm around her waist and another holding her hand tenderly...



Have to love the slooooow dance...

RE: Gday

I'll make an eye appointment for you right away! hehe

RE: reclaim yourself

hehehe I still play hopscotch with Chester and Dixie LOL they always wonder what the heck I am doing but they have great fun in barking while I hop the squares...

Skateboarding I enjoyed watching my boys do, never really enjoyed it a whole lot myself but would keep up with you on inline skates for certain