Well for today April 9th it HAS to go to this thread....
"What is a GOOD WORK OUT, tell us your Secret´s....." by Moonlightstar... there is a tale behind it.. a bull's tail maybe LOLOL but omg it has just been a blast to watch unfold...
I am the one who could not have been more blessed to have found such an amazing person as yourself, Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your life, truly.
back to focusing on other folks...please I really should have posted this with an anonymous account.
I should have made a new account to post this with I think. It truly is meant to be about you all, NOT about me in anyway, I have not been here that long, really. Just wanted to recognize all of you folks.
Rusty you're without a doubt one of the great ones, even though you may not know it or accept it I know a lot of olks very much enjoy your being part of CS, and so do I. Thanks for being who you are! And I mean that whether your postings were in jest to me or in all out seriousness, just so ya know.
Hey all I just wanted to post something for everyone on these boards that contributes to so much of the laughs, fun, and support of each other.
It is always wonderful to see and seems so seldom that it is recognized so I like to do that once in a while and this is one of those times.
There are people that contribute here almost everyday in some way offering a laugh, a hug, or just some thoughts and support for others and what I like to recognize is that even those folks who are facing things that seem so daunting and so heavy a burden to bear are still doing all they can to support others who need it, or they are posting funnies to share a laugh, etc.
People on this site face things every day like living in a town where they have to ask themselves is this the day a military group will come through and start war outside my door. Or things like their child facing severe addiction troubles, or themselves suddenly out of a job and no idea how they will make ends meet.Or they wonder if their lover will put them in a hospital bed or will be sleeping with their secretary. etc.. and all manner of things in the middle.
All these things and more are faced and dealt with by folks posting in this forum every day and yet they come and they do their best to set aside their own troubles for a little while and maybe even lift the spirits of others all as a way to just say here I am, lets enjoy this moment we have together and share a laugh regardless of all else.
That is the kind of people I see here and yes there are others at other sites and around the world all over. But for tonight I just wanted to recognize the people that come from every corner of the globe to meet in this one little tiny corner of the Internet, and I want to say simply...
Here is to you all, for the compassion, understanding, and good spirits that you bring in spite of all that you face!! Thank You!
Myself though.. I think roping the bull before it gets to carried away could save the whole situation. Not to mention that having it run rampant could find people crying over spilt fruit juice... or is that milk? never could keep that straight...
I sooo need a workout partner... I am just not in the shape I used to be.
I haven't worked out in years and I find that working out alone is just a bunch of bull and nothing really satisfying about it.
Working out with a partner is always much better for me cause I just find there is a lot more enjoyment to the workout. You know like chasing chipmunks around and such until they are soaking wet from all that running.
Course sometimes it could be like turning a bull loose in a china shop too and you may end up paying for some severe damages or worse the bull may get a horn stuck especially if it tries to gore the chipmunk and misses....ooo that could be very bad and may end up with the poor bull not having any horns left cause they would get cut off by the owner of the china shop...
but yeah uhm been a couple years since I had a good work out...
You realize of course that this will be reversed by many. But that aside, if they don't give you a chance are they worth worrying about? I mean to me it seems that if someone is going to base meeting new people on how their ex may have treated them are they really ready to be moving into a new relationship?
I personally do not think they are because they have not let go of the resentment, anger, hurt, etc from the last relationship if they are doing any kind of comparing between a current possibility and the last experience. So for me if that is the case I would rather not have them even try to pursue me. Once they can view their ex as either a lesson learned or as some enjoyable memories, or a combination of that etc.. then I think they are ready to find a new relationship.
Just my own thoughts on it, don't know if it will help at all in feeling "shunned" but thought I would offer the above just in case.
It is a very common thing to find individuals who for many different reasons create multiple profiles on almost any web forums. Some do it to stimulate the forums and make them appear busier then they are, some do it to joke with people, and yet others do it for strange reasons or vicious ones etc.
There have been many I have seen here already and a couple others I suspect of it. It is just the nature of "faceless" freedom that some folks have and take full advantage of in order to do things they would never consider doing otherwise etc. In other words it just happens.
All honest folks can do is simply accept that there are people out there that do such things and to just pay attention to their own feelings on things. If you suspect a profile of being a duplicate you could ask them directly or report it saying your suspcsion and asking the moderators to check IP addresses of the two or more profiles you suspect. Doesn't mean they will but if they do and they find out it is a duplicate they can then deal with it and help to keep the site free from such nonsense though it will never be completely free of it.
I am utterly sick and tired of a computer screen and would drop all in a heart beat to spend even just one day with Mercedes1 in person, to heck with the airfare and all it would be worth it to me regardless. but that's just the way I feel right now so "BLURT" there are the words that fell out when I opened my mouth on this subject...
uhm.... hmm I voted yes btw.. in case the above was to vague...
Sorry Merc but since I am letting that "other thread" go I had to blurt out something here... You can punish me later.
I was 14 she was 16 we went out about two years then she told me to get lost... come to find out about 9 years later she was also the mother of my child, which was part of why she told me to get lost apparently.... Yup that's a long story.
I had a huge crush in 2nd grade and cut her hair off to prove how much I liked her... yep talk about demented view... but that cured that view real quick. But she was also the first girl I ever kissed... well I should say she kissed me...
That is NOT an accident that is an anger flare that is occurring over something so simplistic it would utterly terrify me to know what it could become in a more serious situation or even a more seriously perceived situation. I would take it as a dramatic warning sign of blatant anger control issues and be very cautious of any further interaction.
This is based on the description given and is only how I would see this single side of the event in my own experiences.
It may also be that the individual in question was not using extreme force and that the one being twisted simply has very low pain tolerance and low muscle tone which could allow for injury even when the action taken was very much not meant to cause harm, which means it could very easily be an accident.
So again this is simply my thoughts based on what is given and looking at other possibilities.
I know this may not help as I have placed an answer on both sides of the question but hopefully you can apply the more appropriate answer to your specific question since you know more of the details involved with both people etc.
The world blurred in my vision because of my pain, sounds became muffled and distant, to hear I strain, my touch feels cold and no pleasure from it do I gain, What has been lost to make my life so hurtful to me, will these horrid feelings with me now always remain?
Questions I scream and sometimes their only whispered, looking and listening yet always they feel unanswered, weeping and hurting I long for my happiness remembered, Why can I not hear the laughter, nor the beauty now see, will these things ever again somehow to me be delivered?
Then in my heart I heard faint sounds a consoling voice, I quieted my mind and hushed my senses by my own choice, Now could I feel the love my heart was trying to hoist, Now my heart again comforts me my sorrows begin to flee, love has come to explain the pain again I now can rejoice.
RE: Would u date Mercedes1?
Now that I would pay to see... er.. I mean ...uhm... I'm just gunna quietly back away now...