Should a person compromise who they are to be with the one they love? (119)
NO ur beliefs and morals and the standards u set for urself are who and what makes ur personality, u shouldnt give up those qualities for anyone and no one should should ask u to.
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No, if you fall in love with someone it should be for the person they are, to try and change them is wrong.
Doesn't mean there shouldn't be some compromise on some things tho
Doesn't mean there shouldn't be some compromise on some things tho
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Goy buckleys of changing me
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It's depends on the quality of the indivual compromising,
if they're a good person then probably not,
but if they suck, sure.
if they're a good person then probably not,
but if they suck, sure.
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Mercedes1: Goy buckleys of changing me
now Merc, who the heck would want to????? 
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I never compromise WHO I am but I will always compromise what I do if need be. But WHO I am, no I don't compromise that.
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morgan5: now Merc, who the heck would want to?????
Not me, shes to dang cute and lovable as she is.
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morgan5: now Merc, who the heck would want to?????
They would lose half their brain mass in trying to
Gday Morgan matey
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Shedman01: Not me, shes to dang cute and lovable as she is.
Wiseman 
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Mercedes1: They would lose half their brain mass in trying to
Gday Morgan matey
Gday Morgan matey
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i would nev er change who i am for anyone . if the guy didnt likew who i was then i dont understand the reason he would be with me in the first place
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Nope...If I have to compromise who I am to be in a relationship...then it's not really me the person wants to be in a relationship with...BUT his own idea of who I should be....
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Shedman01: I never compromise WHO I am but I will always compromise what I do if need be. But WHO I am, no I don't compromise that.
I agree.
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No. Absolutely not.
We all come with flaws; none of us are perfect..
But we all try and do the right thing.
I want to be accepted for who I am, not what someone wants me to be.
We all come with flaws; none of us are perfect..
But we all try and do the right thing.
I want to be accepted for who I am, not what someone wants me to be.
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Never compromise your own personality to be with someone. If someone loves you they have to love you for who you are, not who they want you to be. 
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everybody said no, so my anwser is YES compromise
its for love
btw do you know Karate???
its for love
btw do you know Karate???
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BOBANBOBAN: everybody said no, so my anwser is YES compromise
its for love
btw do you know Karate???
its for love
btw do you know Karate???
Who me? Yes. Tang Soo Do. If not me, then forget I said anything.
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petalbabe: No. Absolutely not.
We all come with flaws; none of us are perfect..
But we all try and do the right thing.
I want to be accepted for who I am, not what someone wants me to be.
I would try to be a better person for the one I love, and compromise on the small stuff is one thing. My core beliefes and values, never. I am who I am and Im too old to change it.We all come with flaws; none of us are perfect..
But we all try and do the right thing.
I want to be accepted for who I am, not what someone wants me to be.
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I think you have to compromise as regards what you like to do sometimes, and what you have done when you are single, but as regards compromising who I AM? No way...
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petalbabe: No. Absolutely not.
We all come with flaws; none of us are perfect..
But we all try and do the right thing.
I want to be accepted for who I am, not what someone wants me to be.
We all come with flaws; none of us are perfect..
But we all try and do the right thing.
I want to be accepted for who I am, not what someone wants me to be.
Absolutely, Petal. And it's what I give in return. Any changes I make come from within, and are ones I want to make. And I don't ask anyone to change for me, either. I either love them for who they are, or I didn't really love them, did I?
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druidess6308: Absolutely, Petal. And it's what I give in return. Any changes I make come from within, and are ones I want to make. And I don't ask anyone to change for me, either. I either love them for who they are, or I didn't really love them, did I?
Thats very true, Dru..
Im not perfect, who is?? But I try to be the best person I can be.
I accept other's flaws; I dont want a perfect robot. I want a living, breathing, flawed man.
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petalbabe: Thats very true, Dru..
Im not perfect, who is?? But I try to be the best person I can be.
I accept other's flaws; I dont want a perfect robot. I want a living, breathing, flawed man.
Well, Ive got lots of flaws, so here I am, honIm not perfect, who is?? But I try to be the best person I can be.
I accept other's flaws; I dont want a perfect robot. I want a living, breathing, flawed man.
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The very essence of your being..... no. But that's not to say one can't be accommodating, flexible and take on board another's feelings, needs, etc.
We live in a very ME, ME, ME culture these days. A little give and take really isn't hard work!
If someone is rigid and inflexible.... they are not really for me.
"Stones" and "Sponges".....??
Good thread!
We live in a very ME, ME, ME culture these days. A little give and take really isn't hard work!
If someone is rigid and inflexible.... they are not really for me.
"Stones" and "Sponges".....??
Good thread!
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Compromise and just run away with me....
zee
zee
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petalbabe: Thats very true, Dru..
Im not perfect, who is?? But I try to be the best person I can be.
I accept other's flaws; I dont want a perfect robot. I want a living, breathing, flawed man.
Im not perfect, who is?? But I try to be the best person I can be.
I accept other's flaws; I dont want a perfect robot. I want a living, breathing, flawed man.
I agree, Petal. Nobody is perfect, and all of us can only be the best we can...we're human, and thereby we all have flaws. We just need to find another whose flaws we can live with, and who can accept ours as well.
I never compromise who I am, but I'll compromise on some of what I do in order to make a relationship work.
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zee1ander: Compromise and just run away with me....zee
Who??
Anyone in particular? Or just ANYONE??!! 
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Id do anything for my partner..
Id move anywhere in the world for them, if that is what is required. Id stop watching soap operas if it annoyed them, Id stop hogging the duvet, pretty much everything..
But my essence, as Rose said, is my own. I wont change that.
Not even for Brad Pitt.. And I wish he would stop ringing me...
Id move anywhere in the world for them, if that is what is required. Id stop watching soap operas if it annoyed them, Id stop hogging the duvet, pretty much everything..
But my essence, as Rose said, is my own. I wont change that.
Not even for Brad Pitt.. And I wish he would stop ringing me...
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druidess6308: I agree, Petal. Nobody is perfect, and all of us can only be the best we can...we're human, and thereby we all have flaws. We just need to find another whose flaws we can live with, and who can accept ours as well.
I never compromise who I am, but I'll compromise on some of what I do in order to make a relationship work.
I never compromise who I am, but I'll compromise on some of what I do in order to make a relationship work.
Yes compromising on what you do is different than compromising who you are....and obviously compromise is needed to resolve issues in any relationship...otherwise someone always come out the loser...and there is never a win win solution for the relationship itself....
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petalbabe: Id do anything for my partner..
Id move anywhere in the world for them, if that is what is required. Id stop watching soap operas if it annoyed them, Id stop hogging the duvet, pretty much everything..
But my essence, as Rose said, is my own. I wont change that.
Not even for Brad Pitt.. And I wish he would stop ringing me...
Id move anywhere in the world for them, if that is what is required. Id stop watching soap operas if it annoyed them, Id stop hogging the duvet, pretty much everything..
But my essence, as Rose said, is my own. I wont change that.
Not even for Brad Pitt.. And I wish he would stop ringing me...
OMG!!!! He's ring you TOO?! The b*st*rd!!!
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roseofsharon: Who?? Anyone in particular? Or just ANYONE??!!
Anyone? I don't compromise.... Everyone.
zee
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Created: Apr 2009
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