Should a person compromise who they are to be with the one they love? (119)
sxc666: Yeah, bloody hell everyone stop being so frigin fussy and just grab the first single person that is available...............Humans so selfishhhhhhhhhhhh
Why are we so far! hehehe....
no, i think that a person should be true to themselves. You are who you are, and nobody should have to change to be with someone else.
I don't beleive a relationship would last if a person be it the man or woman changes who they are.
just my opinion
I don't beleive a relationship would last if a person be it the man or woman changes who they are.
just my opinion
bestat45: no, i think that a person should be true to themselves. You are who you are, and nobody should have to change to be with someone else.
I don't beleive a relationship would last if a person be it the man or woman changes who they are.
just my opinion
I don't beleive a relationship would last if a person be it the man or woman changes who they are.
just my opinion
well said honey
krisha: well said honey
Certainly not - if you know who you are another person cannot change you to who you not - I can compromise on a lot of things but I accept myself for who I am so can't compromise on that - hope you got some useful answers on your poll
I do believe flexibility is called for sometimes, yes. Compromise? Yes. Accomodating the other person? Yes. But the very core of your being? Possibly not......
Fortunately, I have now met someone that simply doesn't want me to change.... flaws and faults included!!
Bizarre, isn't it?
But then.... I couldn't be luckier! He's a darling.....
Fortunately, I have now met someone that simply doesn't want me to change.... flaws and faults included!!
Bizarre, isn't it?
But then.... I couldn't be luckier! He's a darling.....
you should accpet them as they are and for who they are.you should not try to change someone into something you think they should be,but accpet them as they are and for who they are
No they shouldn't.
To the person who posted the thread: If some guy is always trying to control what you wear and how your hair is and what you eat and where you go and who you hang around with and what you do and what you say, that's classic abusive behavior. Google it. You can't put up with that.
Witchaywoman: To the person who posted the thread: If some guy is always trying to control what you wear and how your hair is and what you eat and where you go and who you hang around with and what you do and what you say, that's classic abusive behavior. Google it. You can't put up with that.
Got it, kick the abusers to the curb!
Witchaywoman: To the person who posted the thread: If some guy is always trying to control what you wear and how your hair is and what you eat and where you go and who you hang around with and what you do and what you say, that's classic abusive behavior. Google it. You can't put up with that.
what? women do that all the time. practically every woman who ever slumped across the planet does all those things the minute she gets her claws inta some poor sod. i've loads of girlfriends who did that on an almost daily basis, they moaned about my hair, moaned about my clothes, moaned about my drinking buddies, moaned about my take aways, moaned about my childishness and everything else.
I used to think so but that has changed. Don't compromise!
dillinger: what? women do that all the time. practically every woman who ever slumped across the planet does all those things the minute she gets her claws inta some poor sod. i've loads of girlfriends who did that on an almost daily basis, they moaned about my hair, moaned about my clothes, moaned about my drinking buddies, moaned about my take aways, moaned about my childishness and everything else.
well sounds like your picking the wrong girls to be your girl friends ...Depends on which definition of compromise you are using.
lol well you seem to maon ya self you ll should a been a good match 
Ooooo saseez... SNAP!
saseez: lol well you seem to maon ya self you ll should a been a good match
ooh lol that last responvce of mine was for dillenger And that SNAP was for saseez toward dillinger
All clear.
Move on...
All clear.
Move on...
prussiafox: And that SNAP was for saseez toward dillinger
All clear.
Move on...
All clear.
Move on...
Witchaywoman: To the person who posted the thread: If some guy is always trying to control what you wear and how your hair is and what you eat and where you go and who you hang around with and what you do and what you say, that's classic abusive behavior. Google it. You can't put up with that.
I think there's somewhat of a double standard there because of the motivations. When men control women it may be out of a psychological need to keep her down so she doesn't leave, or to turn her into a status symbol with perfect hair and clothes. but when women gripe about the stuff men do it's because they want to make the man stop doing very objectionable things.
saseez: well sounds like your picking the wrong girls to be your girl friends ...
well, that's not really my fault, i'm an idiot, i don't know any better
dillinger: well, that's not really my fault, i'm an idiot, i don't know any better
now dillenger was that a sarcastic anwser lol
Please tell me that was a joke.
Witchaywoman: I think there's somewhat of a double standard there because of the motivations. When men control women it may be out of a psychological need to keep her down so she doesn't leave, or to turn her into a status symbol with perfect hair and clothes. but when women gripe about the stuff men do it's because they want to make the man stop doing very objectionable things.
ahh, i see. when men tell women to stop shovelling cake down their throats or have a bath it's because they're evil and wrong but when women do it, it's because they know better
I think there's somewhat of a double standard there because of the motivations. When men control women it may be out of a psychological need to keep her down so she doesn't leave, or to turn her into a status symbol with perfect hair and clothes. but when women gripe about the stuff men do it's because they want to make the man stop doing very objectionable things.
?????
Stop it! Your killing me.
?????
Stop it! Your killing me.
prussiafox: I think there's somewhat of a double standard there because of the motivations. When men control women it may be out of a psychological need to keep her down so she doesn't leave, or to turn her into a status symbol with perfect hair and clothes. but when women gripe about the stuff men do it's because they want to make the man stop doing very objectionable things.
?????
Stop it! Your killing me.
I agree totaly with the first half of your anser coz i have been in that situation..... the second half is questionable ...... ?????
Stop it! Your killing me.
er... that post was directed at Witchay...
Control is control... period.
prussiafox: er... that post was directed at Witchay...
Control is control... period.
wot i may answer if i wish Control is control... period.
It's a free country... um... world... well... kinda... not really.
Heck! I was just clarifying.
Heck! I was just clarifying.
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