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Mar 25, 2009 1:29 AM CST What do you do...
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
When your best friend won't talk to you about something. It's like he knows what I need to talk about, but he doesn't want to listen to it, so unless we're talking about his interests or something neutral, he bails on me.

I have a specific thing that I want to ask him about, I've told him that I want to talk to him about something, but he's not there for me.

It hurts.
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Mar 25, 2009 1:31 AM CST What do you do...
monty611
monty611monty611gladstone, Queensland Australia4 Threads 1 Polls 147 Posts
dcj22: When your best friend won't talk to you about something. It's like he knows what I need to talk about, but he doesn't want to listen to it, so unless we're talking about his interests or something neutral, he bails on me.

I have a specific thing that I want to ask him about, I've told him that I want to talk to him about something, but he's not there for me.

It hurts.


Get a new best friend that wants to listen and also discuss things!! Dont sit back an be all hurt by someone that hasnt got that ability!

JMO comfort
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Mar 25, 2009 1:32 AM CST What do you do...
DarkKnight2032
DarkKnight2032DarkKnight2032West Jordan, Utah USA14 Threads 960 Posts
dcj22: When your best friend won't talk to you about something. It's like he knows what I need to talk about, but he doesn't want to listen to it, so unless we're talking about his interests or something neutral, he bails on me.

I have a specific thing that I want to ask him about, I've told him that I want to talk to him about something, but he's not there for me.

It hurts.


I'm always hear to listen. grin
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Mar 25, 2009 1:34 AM CST What do you do...
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
monty611: Get a new best friend that wants to listen and also discuss things!! Dont sit back an be all hurt by someone that hasnt got that ability!

JMO



Thanks Monty. It's only one specific issue. I can't drop him. He's a part of my heart. bouquet
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Mar 25, 2009 1:34 AM CST What do you do...
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
dcj22: When your best friend won't talk to you about something. It's like he knows what I need to talk about, but he doesn't want to listen to it, so unless we're talking about his interests or something neutral, he bails on me.

I have a specific thing that I want to ask him about, I've told him that I want to talk to him about something, but he's not there for me.

It hurts.


His not into you as you are into him as a best matehug

I only hope that when he wishes for your attention you remember how he wasnt their for you as a best matecheering
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Mar 25, 2009 1:34 AM CST What do you do...
Shedman01
Shedman01Shedman01Gonzales, Texas USA16 Threads 2 Polls 1,029 Posts
monty611: Get a new best friend that wants to listen and also discuss things!! Dont sit back an be all hurt by someone that hasnt got that ability!

JMO


Well spoken!

Dana sweety your to tender hearted... tell the fool to shut up, sit down, and listen or next time he needs an ear you'll be busy trimming nose hairs...HIS... grin

Sorry D just trying to get a smile from ya...
Hiya Monty

wave
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Mar 25, 2009 1:35 AM CST What do you do...
ruffaroundedge
ruffaroundedgeruffaroundedgeMobile, Alabama USA344 Posts
You never told me......sad flower
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Mar 25, 2009 1:36 AM CST What do you do...
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
DarkKnight2032: I'm always hear to listen.



Thank you, R. I do know that you are. It's just that it's personal, but it's something that I know he has a fairly successful experience with. But I will call on you if I need you, my friend. Thank you.

I do hope you're doing well. hug
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Mar 25, 2009 1:36 AM CST What do you do...
monty611
monty611monty611gladstone, Queensland Australia4 Threads 1 Polls 147 Posts
doh why didnt u say partner!! give up trying!!

Hiya Shed how u doing!hug
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Mar 25, 2009 1:39 AM CST What do you do...
DarkKnight2032
DarkKnight2032DarkKnight2032West Jordan, Utah USA14 Threads 960 Posts
dcj22: Thank you, R. I do know that you are. It's just that it's personal, but it's something that I know he has a fairly successful experience with. But I will call on you if I need you, my friend. Thank you.

I do hope you're doing well.


You are always welcomed D. hug

I am doing well, quarter is done next Mon and I got all A's. Work is moving along fine and I get my car tomorrow.

I will have a bit of freedom again.grin
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Mar 25, 2009 1:39 AM CST What do you do...
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Shedman01: Well spoken!

Dana sweety your to tender hearted... tell the fool to shut up, sit down, and listen or next time he needs an ear you'll be busy trimming nose hairs...HIS...

Sorry D just trying to get a smile from ya...
Hiya Montyme



And, of course, you did, Jon. You always make me smile. I really believe that he knows what this is about. Somehow, it hit close to him. I just need him on this. Honestly, it was his choice to be where he is in my life at this point. Now I expect him to honor it.

hug
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Mar 25, 2009 1:40 AM CST What do you do...
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
ruffaroundedge: You never told me......



Brad! Hiya Sweetie! I've missed you lately. You haven't been around much! hug
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Mar 25, 2009 1:40 AM CST What do you do...
ruffaroundedge
ruffaroundedgeruffaroundedgeMobile, Alabama USA344 Posts
work work work .....................frustrated
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Mar 25, 2009 1:41 AM CST What do you do...
Shedman01
Shedman01Shedman01Gonzales, Texas USA16 Threads 2 Polls 1,029 Posts
dcj22: And, of course, you did, Jon. You always make me smile. I really believe that he knows what this is about. Somehow, it hit close to him. I just need him on this. Honestly, it was his choice to be where he is in my life at this point. Now I expect him to honor it.


and in all honesty and seriousness.. he should D, make sure he knows how you feel too though k... don't just tell us tell him too... hughug
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Mar 25, 2009 1:41 AM CST What do you do...
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
Are you trying to talk to a guy about commitment? laugh
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Mar 25, 2009 1:41 AM CST What do you do...
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
DarkKnight2032: You are always welcomed D.

I am doing well, quarter is done next Mon and I got all A's. Work is moving along fine and I get my car tomorrow.

I will have a bit of freedom again.



Looks like things are going great for you R and I'm so glad! And so proud of you for your grades! Congratulations, sweetie. Hang in there, it'll all be worth it in the end. hug
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Mar 25, 2009 1:41 AM CST What do you do...
Shedman01
Shedman01Shedman01Gonzales, Texas USA16 Threads 2 Polls 1,029 Posts
monty611: why didnt u say partner!! give up trying!!

Hiya Shed how u doing!


doin good, hope you can say the same. wave
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Mar 25, 2009 1:42 AM CST What do you do...
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Witchaywoman: Are you trying to talk to a guy about commitment?



laugh No, I'm trying to talk to a guy friend about another man! laugh
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Mar 25, 2009 1:42 AM CST What do you do...
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
ruffaroundedge: work work work .....................



I know, DAMMIT!!!! hug
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Mar 25, 2009 1:43 AM CST What do you do...
monty611
monty611monty611gladstone, Queensland Australia4 Threads 1 Polls 147 Posts
Shedman01: doin good, hope you can say the same.


All good here! applause
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