Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth? (200)
g33kgurl: what happened to him?
Read his thread, here on CS: Life has changed for sure:
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I'm curious as to who this is about.. and living in two different places shouldnt stop the relationship because if it does turn into love, love can overcome distance, it just takes more time... thats when you have to live day by day, yeah its expensive to leave the country, but put a little money aside each day, and both people could be doing it, then you reach that amount in half the time... okay now mail me.. LOL
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CjTenorSax: Read his thread, here on CS: Life has changed for sure:
ok, thanks cj.
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babyjenn2009: I'm curious as to who this is about.. and living in two different places shouldnt stop the relationship because if it does turn into love, love can overcome distance, it just takes more time... thats when you have to live day by day, yeah its expensive to leave the country, but put a little money aside each day, and both people could be doing it, then you reach that amount in half the time... okay now mail me.. LOL
owwww - i cant tell... sorry babyjenn!
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hmm its not a big deal, just makes me wonder if the person I'm talking to is being true or not... I mean why text me "what are u doing?" and then not reply when I ask the same? Granted we talk via texts all the time and he told me he had to work today but it's still odd, and you can just call me Jenn :P
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I just woke up thats where I was.its freakin 7 am here hahaha.No serious beautifull.A lot of men only dare date online and have a hardtime saying,"I'm not interested"or worse"I found someone else"I dont think it's easy myself but I always do...
These days I just make friends on other continents cause its hard to wait for a long time for the first date and it makes it unreal.
These days I just make friends on other continents cause its hard to wait for a long time for the first date and it makes it unreal.
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rodolpho: I just woke up thats where I was.its freakin 7 am here hahaha.No serious beautifull.A lot of men only dare date online and have a hardtime saying,"I'm not interested"or worse"I found someone else"I dont think it's easy myself but I always do...
These days I just make friends on other continents cause its hard to wait for a long time for the first date and it makes it unreal.
These days I just make friends on other continents cause its hard to wait for a long time for the first date and it makes it unreal.
That is basically saying that physical attraction is all a relationship is.. I realize that its hard not to have the physical aspect, especially since I'm at a university and constantly see it, and even get unwanted physical touch, BUT.. if you have a deep connection with someone, waiting shouldn't seem so bad... Idk... I haven't ever dated outside my own country... but right now, I have no way of seeing the person I want to, not for awhile if anything...
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babyjenn2009: That is basically saying that physical attraction is all a relationship is.. I realize that its hard not to have the physical aspect, especially since I'm at a university and constantly see it, and even get unwanted physical touch, BUT.. if you have a deep connection with someone, waiting shouldn't seem so bad... Idk... I haven't ever dated outside my own country... but right now, I have no way of seeing the person I want to, not for awhile if anything...
completely agree with jenn here... should be physical straight away anyway!
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They drop off cause they dont have the balls to stand up and be a real man cause their gutless
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babyjenn2009: That is basically saying that physical attraction is all a relationship is.. I realize that its hard not to have the physical aspect, especially since I'm at a university and constantly see it, and even get unwanted physical touch, BUT.. if you have a deep connection with someone, waiting shouldn't seem so bad... Idk... I haven't ever dated outside my own country... but right now, I have no way of seeing the person I want to, not for awhile if anything...
no that basically not sayin i just want ur body.Its real sis.
Do you think its normal when u meet someone in ur town to wait for 3 months to date?????????
I give an honest explanation and you start callin me shallow thanks jen.funny u got the same name like my ex.
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babyjenn2009: hmm its not a big deal, just makes me wonder if the person I'm talking to is being true or not... I mean why text me "what are u doing?" and then not reply when I ask the same? Granted we talk via texts all the time and he told me he had to work today but it's still odd, and you can just call me Jenn :P
To me though, if you are busy with work, you shoot a text when you are off saying, hey, sorry I missed your message was at work.
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Mercedes1: They drop off cause they dont have the balls to stand up and be a real man cause their gutless
Agreed... I've had no problem telling a guy I am no longer interested... I hate doing it sometimes, but it needs to be done. But what is wrong with guys that they are COMPLETELY unable to give closure? Am I the only one to notice this?
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rodolpho: no that basically not sayin i just want ur body.Its real sis.
Do you think its normal when u meet someone in ur town to wait for 3 months to date?????????
I give an honest explanation and you start callin me shallow thanks jen.funny u got the same name like my ex.
Do you think its normal when u meet someone in ur town to wait for 3 months to date?????????
I give an honest explanation and you start callin me shallow thanks jen.funny u got the same name like my ex.
Wow I never called you shallow now did I? I simply retaliated saying that it shouldn't be just about the physical aspect and you took it the wrong way. I don't care if I have the same name as your ex, there was no reason to even say that... that was ridiculous and childish.
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azdesperado72: To me though, if you are busy with work, you shoot a text when you are off saying, hey, sorry I missed your message was at work.
Oh I agree. He works nights though and I'm sure he will send me a text at some point, it's just the waiting thats driving me crazy. Plus he usually texts while at work, thats why I think his phone might be dead. He kept falling back asleep while texting me because he worked such a long shift. IDK he had broke a promise and was sooooo cute about it cause he felt so terrible but he was wayyyy too tired to call and leave me a voicemail haha, awe <3 I still listen to the voicemail he left saying I'm so sorry, etc... Guys can be so cute sometimes.
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babyjenn2009: Agreed... I've had no problem telling a guy I am no longer interested... I hate doing it sometimes, but it needs to be done. But what is wrong with guys that they are COMPLETELY unable to give closure? Am I the only one to notice this?
No, you are not the only one to notice this.
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babyjenn2009: Wow I never called you shallow now did I? I simply retaliated saying that it shouldn't be just about the physical aspect and you took it the wrong way. I don't care if I have the same name as your ex, there was no reason to even say that... that was ridiculous and childish.
retaliated there you go.Do you ever listen to what you are saying yourself.If I take it wrong maybe more will.
If you dont see the implication,well then dont.and yes I retaliate on an instant.tata
no swet
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Thank you for your honest answer. So this leads to the question: Where are the real men, then???
I'm optimistic that there is someone out there for me but it is so unfortunately that we women open our hearts and are too trusting. We need to trust our instincts not a man's words.
Good Luck all.>>
I'm optimistic that there is someone out there for me but it is so unfortunately that we women open our hearts and are too trusting. We need to trust our instincts not a man's words.
Good Luck all.>>
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rodolpho: retaliated there you go.Do you ever listen to what you are saying yourself.If I take it wrong maybe more will.
If you dont see the implication,well then dont.and yes I retaliate on an instant.tata
no swet
If you dont see the implication,well then dont.and yes I retaliate on an instant.tata
no swet
I'm 21 and you are 38, in no way was I calling you shallow, I even said how important physical touch is BUT in certain cases it shouldn't matter. You are just acting like a child and you are not worth my time or effort. I refuse to lower my standards anymore than they already have been... Goodbye.------ This thread is Archived ------
babyjenn2009: I'm 21 and you are 38, in no way was I calling you shallow, I even said how important physical touch is BUT in certain cases it shouldn't matter. You are just acting like a child and you are not worth my time or effort. I refuse to lower my standards anymore than they already have been... Goodbye.
now now.. everyone.. let's not get into any fisty cuffs.. lets all be friends..
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what happened to him?