Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth? ( Archived) (200)

Mar 27, 2009 7:02 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
sxc666: I think its because their wife yelled 'dinners ready'


Or she figured out his password.
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Mar 27, 2009 7:05 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
Paradox67
Paradox67Paradox67Collegeville, Pennsylvania USA9 Threads 5 Polls 1,170 Posts
RayfromUSA: Or she figured out his password.


That's how my cousin got caught. Then he tried to convince his wife that he was trying to find a girlfriend for me because I didn't have internet access at the time.laugh
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Mar 27, 2009 7:06 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Paradox67: Yes. I forgot to click the quote post icon.

As I get older I find that I am looking more for a friendship that is a relationship. I still have puppy like urges, (Pardon my being blunt), but they come second. I'm also more willing to take time and build a relationship by putting more thought into the needs and wants of my partner than I used to. Not to say that I never did. I always try to be considerate, I just put more thought into it now. I think I'm on the right track and just need to find someone who does not live 2000 miles away.


Yes the distance is a bummer..

You really have to trust ur instincts on that..knowing if they are all for you..or just stringing one along..

My husband and i were over 1500 miles away from each other at first and its really hard you have to have trust/communication/ and all that..

but you have it right in ur mind..dont rush and study that person to the fullest

Nice to meet you/I am joannehandshake
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Mar 27, 2009 7:10 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
Paradox67
Paradox67Paradox67Collegeville, Pennsylvania USA9 Threads 5 Polls 1,170 Posts
kissmedeeply: Yes the distance is a bummer..

You really have to trust ur instincts on that..knowing if they are all for you..or just stringing one along..

My husband and i were over 1500 miles away from each other at first and its really hard you have to have trust/communication/ and all that..

but you have it right in ur mind..dont rush and study that person to the fullest

Nice to meet you/I am joanne


Pleasure to meet you as well.handshake

I would absolutely relocate for the right woman. I have an education in electrical and mechanical systems and could get a job anywhere that a job was available. But she would have to be special and hopefully she would want me to be just as special.
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Mar 27, 2009 7:11 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
MsBionics: I dunno.. I wanna know too tho. I met this guy and thought everything was great. We even met a couple times in person for dinner and what not. We talked almost everyday and he tells me I am the greatest thing that has ever happened to him in such a short time. Then suddenly he disappears for a week with no notice. Then the only thing I get after that is a message saying he wants me out of his life and never to speak to him again, ever. Is that how you treat the greatest thing that has ever happened to you? lol I know I wouldn't! haha ohwell.. dust off and toss the line back in the sea right?



My guess is that there was another woman in his life the whole time and he finally had to make a decision between the hand in the bird or the bird in the bush.
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Mar 27, 2009 7:11 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
Paradox67
Paradox67Paradox67Collegeville, Pennsylvania USA9 Threads 5 Polls 1,170 Posts
Gotta run. Nice talking.
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Mar 27, 2009 7:13 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Paradox67: Gotta run. Nice talking.
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Mar 27, 2009 7:22 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
azdesperado72: I think it also depends on a few things. If you only got along online and never met, then he was looking for someone to play with and had a short interest span. If you actually met in person, sadly enough, he probably didn't sense the chemistry or attraction for real and rather then be a man and tell you he was no longer interested, he just disappeared.


All that and,

Some people flirt with several "potentials" at the same time, comparing all the parameters, looking for the "best deal".

They will inevitably end up dropping most of the ones they have been flirting with as they shorten their list.

Personally I think that method sucks because it wastes other people's time and hurts them.
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Mar 27, 2009 9:20 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
g33kgurl: you know the drill.. now fess up guys.. i'm completely baffled!!!



THey usually get too close to the edge!!help
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Mar 27, 2009 9:29 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
g33kgurl: you know the drill.. now fess up guys.. i'm completely baffled!!!
Some people just suck. dunno
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Mar 27, 2009 9:31 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
Irockhearts
IrockheartsIrockheartsLivorno, Tuscany Italy2 Threads 2 Polls 229 Posts
mylifewithu: I would say he found the grass greener so he thinks elsewhere.


Probably
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Mar 27, 2009 9:32 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
Irockhearts
IrockheartsIrockheartsLivorno, Tuscany Italy2 Threads 2 Polls 229 Posts
g33kgurl: with not even a goodbye or sayonara? how rude!!


Cause theyfeel guilty,it's easier this way...moping
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Mar 27, 2009 9:40 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: That's the key words...respect...and dignity and they don't have either...


We can postulate and try putting them into categories, but it's far easier to put them all into one and call them



























Turds
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Mar 27, 2009 11:14 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
g33kgurl: yeh.. i thought so..



I always have something to say, but I went to bed instead.tongue

Just read your comment.....

Easy with that Kendo stick.hole


bouquet
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Mar 27, 2009 11:18 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
curvychick
curvychickcurvychickToronto, Ontario Canada14 Threads 1 Polls 253 Posts
TALK IS CHEAP????

dunno confused

Curvy cheering
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Mar 27, 2009 11:32 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
ocfun
ocfunocfunIrvine, California USA4 Posts
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Mar 27, 2009 11:35 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
ocfun
ocfunocfunIrvine, California USA4 Posts
sxc666: I think its because their wife yelled 'dinners ready'
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Mar 27, 2009 11:37 AM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
leslie8546
leslie8546leslie8546Northwich, Cheshire, England UK1 Threads 62 Posts
and you think women don't do it? ............... everyone does it , it's a fact of life, get on with it.
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Mar 27, 2009 7:27 PM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
Cause theyfeel guilty,it's easier this way...[/quote]

Another saying about the easy way out. . . just shows the world they have no foundation to stand on for them selves when they no longer want to take the easy way out. . .Most sad. . . sad flower sad flower
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Mar 27, 2009 8:16 PM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
RobbieM: We can postulate and try putting them into categories, but it's far easier to put them all into one and call them
Turds



That word sums it all up quite nicely....rolling on the floor laughing
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