g33kgurl: you know the drill.. now fess up guys.. i'm completely baffled!!!
hi there..i think you are not alone..i think i am going to experience the same thing..just slowly but i have a feeling..coz he doesnt reply to my email that fast unlike before. that is one thing i dont understand with men..why not just be honest and say something rather than just disappear and not communicate..can you blame us women for wondering and thinking too much?
g33kgurlOPMelbourne, Victoria Australia1,995 posts
pesh121: hi there..i think you are not alone..i think i am going to experience the same thing..just slowly but i have a feeling..coz he doesnt reply to my email that fast unlike before. that is one thing i dont understand with men..why not just be honest and say something rather than just disappear and not communicate..can you blame us women for wondering and thinking too much?
ooh... yeah.. i know how you feel. that really sucks huh? i am tempted to just jump the gone and say - well, as i havent heard from you since my last email.. yadda yadda yadda.. but then again, he'd just think we're being paranoid, right?
g33kgurl: ooh... yeah.. i know how you feel. that really sucks huh? i am tempted to just jump the gone and say - well, as i havent heard from you since my last email.. yadda yadda yadda.. but then again, he'd just think we're being paranoid, right?
yeah and they say women think too much..well we wont if you started talking in the first place..
pesh121: hi there..i think you are not alone..i think i am going to experience the same thing..just slowly but i have a feeling..coz he doesnt reply to my email that fast unlike before. that is one thing i dont understand with men..why not just be honest and say something rather than just disappear and not communicate..can you blame us women for wondering and thinking too much?
Apr 6, 2009 11:51 PM CST Question: After getting along so well online - what makes a guy drop off from the face of the earth?
santarosaPaulSanta Rosa, CA, California USA173 Posts
santarosaPaulSanta Rosa, CA, California USA173 posts
Well g33gurl, you're cute... I don't know what he was thinking. Communication through the net can get serious, but I think it also gets a bit boring and feeling like nothing is moving forward when it goes on and on and on and on. Not saying you're boring, nobody is boring when you are someone new in someone else's life. That guy probably just started talking to someone else, thinking a new person that maybe he thinks he has a better chance with or maybe closer to where he resides. Why he didn't say goodbye or sorry but...? Insensitive to other people's feelings. Not all guys are like that, but I think he must think that it's just a internet friend, nothing personal since nobody really knows anybody they meet on the net without meeting them in person. Funny though... because I still have friends that I met back in 1996 when email penpals and message boards first started. Those are just theories of what I think, not speaking for anyone or knowing why or who. Good question tho g33gurl. Stay cool... are there are a lot of cool dudes out here in the world.
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