I think it also depends on a few things. If you only got along online and never met, then he was looking for someone to play with and had a short interest span. If you actually met in person, sadly enough, he probably didn't sense the chemistry or attraction for real and rather then be a man and tell you he was no longer interested, he just disappeared.
g33kgurlOPMelbourne, Victoria Australia1,995 posts
azdesperado72: I think it also depends on a few things. If you only got along online and never met, then he was looking for someone to play with and had a short interest span. If you actually met in person, sadly enough, he probably didn't sense the chemistry or attraction for real and rather then be a man and tell you he was no longer interested, he just disappeared.
hmmmmmmm.... really? someone to play with huh? well, yes, we are from different continents and have done online.. but wouldnt it be polite to say.. "hey, found someone closer to home, wish you well, yadda yadda"....? and shouldnt they just say they want someone closer to home dammit?!
g33kgurl: hmmmmmmm.... really? someone to play with huh? well, yes, we are from different continents and have done online.. but wouldnt it be polite to say.. "hey, found someone closer to home, wish you well, yadda yadda"....? and shouldnt they just say they want someone closer to home dammit?!
Wellll ya would think...I guess some of them would rather leave it open just in case they might wanna come back and play with ya again a couple more times....
g33kgurl: hmmmmmmm.... really? someone to play with huh? well, yes, we are from different continents and have done online.. but wouldnt it be polite to say.. "hey, found someone closer to home, wish you well, yadda yadda"....? and shouldnt they just say they want someone closer to home dammit?!
g33kgurlOPMelbourne, Victoria Australia1,995 posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Wellll ya would think...I guess some of them would rather leave it open just in case they might wanna come back and play with ya again a couple more times....
pfffft! fat chance of that happening! what? like a plan B if plan A fails? he could be so lucky! HAH!
Hugz_n_Kissez: Wellll ya would think...I guess some of them would rather leave it open just in case they might wanna come back and play with ya again a couple more times....
Unfortunately, you are right. I too, feel a man should have the decency to treat one with dignity and respect, by letting me know he has changed his mind. There are many that do not do this though, sadly.
g33kgurl: hmmmmmmm.... really? someone to play with huh? well, yes, we are from different continents and have done online.. but wouldnt it be polite to say.. "hey, found someone closer to home, wish you well, yadda yadda"....? and shouldnt they just say they want someone closer to home dammit?!
Don't we all wish hun. People hide behind their computers. Chances are he wasn't even who he presented himself as.
CjTenorSax: Unfortunately, you are right. I too, feel a man should have the decency to treat one with dignity and respect, by letting me know he has changed his mind. There are many that do not do this though, sadly.
That's the key words...respect...and dignity and they don't have either...
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