My wife walked out on me for a free house ( Archived) (23)

Mar 29, 2009 11:55 PM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
robkeeps
robkeepsrobkeepscincinnati, Ohio USA6 Threads 42 Posts
I was awakend around 3:00am to find my wife and her daughter loading up everything into her car and a truck.

Her friend owns many houses and gave her a house.

she didnt need me or my SSI check any more and left me high and dry.

That was the most pain ive ever felt in my life.

I never saw it coming, I was simply wothless to her and she didnt need me anymore.

I thought she loved me............I really thought she loved me, I was wrong.
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Mar 30, 2009 12:00 AM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
robkeeps: I was awakend around 3:00am to find my wife and her daughter loading up everything into her car and a truck.

Her friend owns many houses and gave her a house.

she didnt need me or my SSI check any more and left me high and dry.

That was the most pain ive ever felt in my life.

I never saw it coming, I was simply wothless to her and she didnt need me anymore.

I thought she loved me............I really thought she loved me, I was wrong.
That really sucks. How long were you married to her? Apparently she is cold hearted woman and didn't love you. hug I hate people that use others.
I am SSI also. But I wasn't married while on it. I just got mine almost 5 yrs ago. comfort sad flower
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Mar 30, 2009 12:00 AM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts

Rob, So very sorry to read that. I can't imagine the pain
you must be going through. Try to remain strong. I am off
to bed now but if you need to talk mail me and I will
answer as soon as I get up in the morning. My best to
you. hug comfort
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Mar 30, 2009 12:03 AM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
robkeeps: I was awakend around 3:00am to find my wife and her daughter loading up everything into her car and a truck.

Her friend owns many houses and gave her a house.

she didnt need me or my SSI check any more and left me high and dry.

That was the most pain ive ever felt in my life.

I never saw it coming, I was simply wothless to her and she didnt need me anymore.

I thought she loved me............I really thought she loved me, I was wrong.


.........Being there,so I know how you feel...'Totally Used'....Look ,you have to put it behind you...move on with your life,be positive,and take each day as a new day...and sorry, if I sound really harsh here...but don't fall into the the trap of feeling 'Sorry for yourself'...its not going to help you one little bit....all the best to you...

handshake thumbs up cheers

J.D
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Mar 30, 2009 12:05 AM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
robkeeps: I was awakend around 3:00am to find my wife and her daughter loading up everything into her car and a truck.

Her friend owns many houses and gave her a house.

she didnt need me or my SSI check any more and left me high and dry.

That was the most pain ive ever felt in my life.

I never saw it coming, I was simply wothless to her and she didnt need me anymore.

I thought she loved me............I really thought she loved me, I was wrong.
you HAVE to go through what you are going to go through, in the days to come....it's sorta' like a detox. for junkies...it's something that has to get out of the system...but, when it's over, the sun will shine again buddycheers comfort
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Mar 30, 2009 12:06 AM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
virgiomonkey: .........Being there,so I know how you feel...'Totally Used'....Look ,you have to put it behind you...move on with your life,be positive,and take each day as a new day...and sorry, if I sound really harsh here...but don't fall into the the trap of feeling 'Sorry for yourself'...its not going to help you one little bit....all the best to you...



J.D
professor what he said ^^^cheers
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Mar 30, 2009 12:26 AM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
evilcherryqueen
evilcherryqueenevilcherryqueenRemiss, Michigan USA1 Threads 439 Posts
robkeeps: I was awakend around 3:00am to find my wife and her daughter loading up everything into her car and a truck.

Her friend owns many houses and gave her a house.

she didnt need me or my SSI check any more and left me high and dry.

That was the most pain ive ever felt in my life.

I never saw it coming, I was simply wothless to her and she didnt need me anymore.

I thought she loved me............I really thought she loved me, I was wrong.



wOw, that is really a harsh reality that you had to go through. teddybear We all have them though, that is for sure. I wish that no one would have to suffer such pain.

There are plenty of nice people out there, and eventually we find who we are supposed to be with and are safe and happy.

I truly wish you the best of luck, I'm sure you will find your better half.hug
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Mar 30, 2009 12:40 AM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
robkeeps: I was awakend around 3:00am to find my wife and her daughter loading up everything into her car and a truck.

Her friend owns many houses and gave her a house.

she didnt need me or my SSI check any more and left me high and dry.

That was the most pain ive ever felt in my life.

I never saw it coming, I was simply wothless to her and she didnt need me anymore.

I thought she loved me............I really thought she loved me, I was wrong.


I can think of three reason's someone might have given her a house...


1) You're not a nice person.

2) She's not a nice person, and convinced someone you're abusive.

3) The house fairy want's your to see your wife naked.


I've heard of women packing up in the middle of the night,

and most of those stories have had one thing in common.
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Mar 30, 2009 4:59 AM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts

Did she just leave you recently? Do you have children and
if so did she take them? dunno
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Apr 5, 2009 11:51 AM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
I am so sorry to hear that you are experiencing this. I too am on SSDI/SSA and know how little it covers. I am sorry that this has happened to you.hug hug hug
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Apr 5, 2009 12:09 PM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
girlourdreams
girlourdreamsgirlourdreamsoshawa, Ontario Canada4 Posts
well when one door closes another opens. chin up !
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Apr 5, 2009 12:13 PM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
TLC69
TLC69TLC69duncannon, Pennsylvania USA1 Threads 270 Posts
A FREE house? there is no such thing as free as i am sure she will find out in due time.

Betrayal is the worse! Keep your head up, grieve, and hope she is happy.
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Apr 5, 2009 12:18 PM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
LovelyAsTheSun
LovelyAsTheSunLovelyAsTheSunMesa, Arizona USA5 Threads 225 Posts
sounds like she was in a relationship for the wrong reasons. dont feel bad anymore. you gave your heart, now take it back. your mourning for a dream & you just woke up. let yourself hurt & gather the support of others. you will be strong & move on. be glad that someone with such a cold heart has been removed from your life. have beautiful days.cheering
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Apr 5, 2009 1:03 PM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
look on the bright side she could have moved you out and kept your house, still sorry to hear it
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Apr 5, 2009 1:57 PM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
littlemate1
littlemate1littlemate1Ottawa, Ontario Canada7 Threads 4 Polls 22 Posts
wow,what a blow! Someday, you may see that it was really for the best..but no wonder you are in shock!
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Apr 5, 2009 2:59 PM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
Paradox67
Paradox67Paradox67Collegeville, Pennsylvania USA9 Threads 5 Polls 1,170 Posts
In response to: I was awakend around 3:00am to find my wife and her daughter loading up everything into her car and a truck.

Her friend owns many houses and gave her a house.

she didnt need me or my SSI check any more and left me high and dry.

That was the most pain ive ever felt in my life.

I never saw it coming, I was simply wothless to her and she didnt need me anymore.

I thought she loved me............I really thought she loved me, I was wrong.



My advice is to morn for a short time and then start looking for a girlfriend. I have lost thousands by trying to be a nice guy and learned the hard way to take my time and get to know a girl before moving forward.

I would expect the same from a woman.
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Apr 5, 2009 4:22 PM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
gretta40
gretta40gretta40St. Joseph, Michigan USA5 Threads 205 Posts
robkeeps: I was awakend around 3:00am to find my wife and her daughter loading up everything into her car and a truck.

Her friend owns many houses and gave her a house.

she didnt need me or my SSI check any more and left me high and dry.

That was the most pain ive ever felt in my life.

I never saw it coming, I was simply wothless to her and she didnt need me anymore.

I thought she loved me............I really thought she loved me, I was wrong.


I am sorry for you pain and loss. I just want to let you know that you are not alone, we have all experienced it in one way or another. That is the con of a relationship, that we put everything we have mind, body, and soul. It is just hard when it is found it is only one sided. Take care and I hope that all ends up for the better for you.teddybear
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Apr 5, 2009 5:14 PM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
Walk out on her for a new wife.
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Apr 5, 2009 5:14 PM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
In response to: I was awakend around 3:00am to find my wife and her daughter loading up everything into her car and a truck.
I thought she loved me............I really thought she loved me, I was wrong.


Now just when did this take place?

Your profile says you're divorced.

Was this a long time ago before your divorce?


or was it recently, indicating that you were searching for other women online while married?

In the latter case, it might have something to do with her leaving.
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Apr 5, 2009 6:00 PM CST My wife walked out on me for a free house
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
Yeah, good point!!! doh
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