The claytons relationship... (31)
kizzy27: So I was contacted by a man about 2 months ago & we have been chatting he lives about 3 hrs away , nice man we chat on the phone , on msn but more so the phone & lately everyday now . we have not met as yet mainly because we are both so busy .work commitment, my surgery , kids , car shopping,etc all have made a meeting as yet not viable . Seems we will meet in 2 weeks .
Its very strange cause i feel like im in a relationship with a stranger . He called me today to say he was going out with mates tonite for a drink I mean what is that????
I am not in a relationship....am I???
Little things are being said , assumed like , when you meet such n such or we can go here , He is buying a house and wanted me to look at some he liked asked my opinion when I said i didnt like the hill the drive was on he scrapped it ....whats that???
Its just we talk so often we have become very familiar without being familiar ...has anyone else experianced this Its like i am involved yet im not ...
Ive never webcammed with him have only seen 2 pics of him but i like his personality very much I feel comfortable chatting to him about life etc
so whats the go am I seeing someone ort arent I ????
Kizzy
Its very strange cause i feel like im in a relationship with a stranger . He called me today to say he was going out with mates tonite for a drink I mean what is that????
I am not in a relationship....am I???
Little things are being said , assumed like , when you meet such n such or we can go here , He is buying a house and wanted me to look at some he liked asked my opinion when I said i didnt like the hill the drive was on he scrapped it ....whats that???
Its just we talk so often we have become very familiar without being familiar ...has anyone else experianced this Its like i am involved yet im not ...
Ive never webcammed with him have only seen 2 pics of him but i like his personality very much I feel comfortable chatting to him about life etc
so whats the go am I seeing someone ort arent I ????
Kizzy
hmmmmmmmm..... never been in that situation... do you feel the same way? or are you telling him similar things (i.e. when you go out with your mates etc..)?
kizzy27: So I was contacted by a man about 2 months ago & we have been chatting he lives about 3 hrs away , nice man we chat on the phone , on msn but more so the phone & lately everyday now . we have not met as yet mainly because we are both so busy .work commitment, my surgery , kids , car shopping,etc all have made a meeting as yet not viable . Seems we will meet in 2 weeks .
Its very strange cause i feel like im in a relationship with a stranger . He called me today to say he was going out with mates tonite for a drink I mean what is that????
I am not in a relationship....am I???
Little things are being said , assumed like , when you meet such n such or we can go here , He is buying a house and wanted me to look at some he liked asked my opinion when I said i didnt like the hill the drive was on he scrapped it ....whats that???
Its just we talk so often we have become very familiar without being familiar ...has anyone else experianced this Its like i am involved yet im not ...
Ive never webcammed with him have only seen 2 pics of him but i like his personality very much I feel comfortable chatting to him about life etc
so whats the go am I seeing someone ort arent I ????
Kizzy
Its very strange cause i feel like im in a relationship with a stranger . He called me today to say he was going out with mates tonite for a drink I mean what is that????
I am not in a relationship....am I???
Little things are being said , assumed like , when you meet such n such or we can go here , He is buying a house and wanted me to look at some he liked asked my opinion when I said i didnt like the hill the drive was on he scrapped it ....whats that???
Its just we talk so often we have become very familiar without being familiar ...has anyone else experianced this Its like i am involved yet im not ...
Ive never webcammed with him have only seen 2 pics of him but i like his personality very much I feel comfortable chatting to him about life etc
so whats the go am I seeing someone ort arent I ????
Kizzy
Does the word 'lapdog' mean anything to you?
kizzy27: So I was contacted by a man about 2 months ago & we have been chatting he lives about 3 hrs away , nice man we chat on the phone , on msn but more so the phone & lately everyday now . we have not met as yet mainly because we are both so busy .work commitment, my surgery , kids , car shopping,etc all have made a meeting as yet not viable . Seems we will meet in 2 weeks .
Its very strange cause i feel like im in a relationship with a stranger . He called me today to say he was going out with mates tonite for a drink I mean what is that????
I am not in a relationship....am I???
Little things are being said , assumed like , when you meet such n such or we can go here , He is buying a house and wanted me to look at some he liked asked my opinion when I said i didnt like the hill the drive was on he scrapped it ....whats that???
Its just we talk so often we have become very familiar without being familiar ...has anyone else experianced this Its like i am involved yet im not ...
Ive never webcammed with him have only seen 2 pics of him but i like his personality very much I feel comfortable chatting to him about life etc
so whats the go am I seeing someone ort arent I ????
Kizzy
Its very strange cause i feel like im in a relationship with a stranger . He called me today to say he was going out with mates tonite for a drink I mean what is that????
I am not in a relationship....am I???
Little things are being said , assumed like , when you meet such n such or we can go here , He is buying a house and wanted me to look at some he liked asked my opinion when I said i didnt like the hill the drive was on he scrapped it ....whats that???
Its just we talk so often we have become very familiar without being familiar ...has anyone else experianced this Its like i am involved yet im not ...
Ive never webcammed with him have only seen 2 pics of him but i like his personality very much I feel comfortable chatting to him about life etc
so whats the go am I seeing someone ort arent I ????
Kizzy
just go with the flow! If it gets too full on then worry. He obviously values your views on things. in two weeks it will shed more lite on how you feel!
bourbon: Does the word 'lapdog' mean anything to you?
Does the word Obnoxious a**hole mean anything to you?
g33kgurl: hmmmmmmmm..... never been in that situation... do you feel the same way? or are you telling him similar things (i.e. when you go out with your mates etc..)?
No Im not Im just chatting about what eva I certaily dont tell him what im doing or with whom ...I just find it odd that feeling of knowing someone without knowing them ...
kizzy27: Does the word Obnoxious a**hole mean anything to you?
Some people are destined to find out the hard way.
bourbon: Some people are destined to find out the hard way.
so much for the olive branch hey Bourbs
kizzy27: so much for the olive branch hey Bourbs
You know that I'm straight to the point... even when it's not what you really want to hear.
Go back and read your original post... then tell me you seriously believe that what you said is normal behaviour for a guy who's never even met you.
bourbon: You know that I'm straight to the point... even when it's not what you really want to hear.
Go back and read your original post... then tell me you seriously believe that what you said is normal behaviour for a guy who's never even met you.
Go back and read your original post... then tell me you seriously believe that what you said is normal behaviour for a guy who's never even met you.
yeah perhaps your right I am extreamly tired tonite
My apologies
Im gone
kizzy27: So I was contacted by a man about 2 months ago & we have been chatting he lives about 3 hrs away , nice man we chat on the phone , on msn but more so the phone & lately everyday now . we have not met as yet mainly because we are both so busy .work commitment, my surgery , kids , car shopping,etc all have made a meeting as yet not viable . Seems we will meet in 2 weeks .
Its very strange cause i feel like im in a relationship with a stranger . He called me today to say he was going out with mates tonite for a drink I mean what is that????
I am not in a relationship....am I???
Little things are being said , assumed like , when you meet such n such or we can go here , He is buying a house and wanted me to look at some he liked asked my opinion when I said i didnt like the hill the drive was on he scrapped it ....whats that???
Its just we talk so often we have become very familiar without being familiar ...has anyone else experianced this Its like i am involved yet im not ...
Ive never webcammed with him have only seen 2 pics of him but i like his personality very much I feel comfortable chatting to him about life etc
so whats the go am I seeing someone ort arent I ????
Kizzy
Its very strange cause i feel like im in a relationship with a stranger . He called me today to say he was going out with mates tonite for a drink I mean what is that????
I am not in a relationship....am I???
Little things are being said , assumed like , when you meet such n such or we can go here , He is buying a house and wanted me to look at some he liked asked my opinion when I said i didnt like the hill the drive was on he scrapped it ....whats that???
Its just we talk so often we have become very familiar without being familiar ...has anyone else experianced this Its like i am involved yet im not ...
Ive never webcammed with him have only seen 2 pics of him but i like his personality very much I feel comfortable chatting to him about life etc
so whats the go am I seeing someone ort arent I ????
Kizzy
I hate those kind of relationships.. where you are not sure if you even have one or not and if you do.. how much of a relationship is it ?
even worse to THINK you have one and realise you never did.. makes you feel like a real dumbarse .. and I hate feeling like that
blondeaozichick: I hate those kind of relationships.. where you are not sure if you even have one or not and if you do.. how much of a relationship is it ?
even worse to THINK you have one and realise you never did.. makes you feel like a real dumbarse .. and I hate feeling like that
even worse to THINK you have one and realise you never did.. makes you feel like a real dumbarse .. and I hate feeling like that
Ive had the "THINK you have", and not so long got over the dumbarse feeling. It comes as abit of a shock really.
wgaBloke: Sorry Kizzy i meant to reply to you also,
Why not sit him down and ask him, then you arent left guessing.
Why not sit him down and ask him, then you arent left guessing.
well ive said to him how weird it is he agrees but then the honey im going out with the boys thing just took me by suprise I amean he is in canberra!!! Im an the coast he neednt tell me he is doing anything hell even if he lived local at this point havin not met i dont think there is any need to be tellin me what he is up too.
I just dont want any expectations god knows after the experiances ive endured net dating I have absolutly no expectations other than a coffee ....
but seems like he has
kizzy27: So I was contacted by a man about 2 months ago & we have been chatting he lives about 3 hrs away , nice man we chat on the phone , on msn but more so the phone & lately everyday now . we have not met as yet mainly because we are both so busy .work commitment, my surgery , kids , car shopping,etc all have made a meeting as yet not viable . Seems we will meet in 2 weeks .
Its very strange cause i feel like im in a relationship with a stranger . He called me today to say he was going out with mates tonite for a drink I mean what is that????
I am not in a relationship....am I???
Little things are being said , assumed like , when you meet such n such or we can go here , He is buying a house and wanted me to look at some he liked asked my opinion when I said i didnt like the hill the drive was on he scrapped it ....whats that???
Its just we talk so often we have become very familiar without being familiar ...has anyone else experianced this Its like i am involved yet im not ...
Ive never webcammed with him have only seen 2 pics of him but i like his personality very much I feel comfortable chatting to him about life etc
so whats the go am I seeing someone ort arent I ????
Kizzy
Its very strange cause i feel like im in a relationship with a stranger . He called me today to say he was going out with mates tonite for a drink I mean what is that????
I am not in a relationship....am I???
Little things are being said , assumed like , when you meet such n such or we can go here , He is buying a house and wanted me to look at some he liked asked my opinion when I said i didnt like the hill the drive was on he scrapped it ....whats that???
Its just we talk so often we have become very familiar without being familiar ...has anyone else experianced this Its like i am involved yet im not ...
Ive never webcammed with him have only seen 2 pics of him but i like his personality very much I feel comfortable chatting to him about life etc
so whats the go am I seeing someone ort arent I ????
Kizzy
i hope he aint reading this!!!
rocketqueen: i hope he aint reading this!!!
It wouldnt worry me its what I am feeling so no secret he isnt from here tho ...
I will send u a private msg
Lou29: I will send u a private msg
can i have one too???
psuedonym: can i have one too???
If your lucky
Of course!!
kizzy27: So I was contacted by a man about 2 months ago & we have been chatting he lives about 3 hrs away , nice man we chat on the phone , on msn but more so the phone & lately everyday now . we have not met as yet mainly because we are both so busy .work commitment, my surgery , kids , car shopping,etc all have made a meeting as yet not viable . Seems we will meet in 2 weeks .
Its very strange cause i feel like im in a relationship with a stranger . He called me today to say he was going out with mates tonite for a drink I mean what is that????
I am not in a relationship....am I???
Little things are being said , assumed like , when you meet such n such or we can go here , He is buying a house and wanted me to look at some he liked asked my opinion when I said i didnt like the hill the drive was on he scrapped it ....whats that???
Its just we talk so often we have become very familiar without being familiar ...has anyone else experianced this Its like i am involved yet im not ...
Ive never webcammed with him have only seen 2 pics of him but i like his personality very much I feel comfortable chatting to him about life etc
so whats the go am I seeing someone ort arent I ????
Kizzy
Its very strange cause i feel like im in a relationship with a stranger . He called me today to say he was going out with mates tonite for a drink I mean what is that????
I am not in a relationship....am I???
Little things are being said , assumed like , when you meet such n such or we can go here , He is buying a house and wanted me to look at some he liked asked my opinion when I said i didnt like the hill the drive was on he scrapped it ....whats that???
Its just we talk so often we have become very familiar without being familiar ...has anyone else experianced this Its like i am involved yet im not ...
Ive never webcammed with him have only seen 2 pics of him but i like his personality very much I feel comfortable chatting to him about life etc
so whats the go am I seeing someone ort arent I ????
Kizzy
Kizzy, I read and reread your original post. In my opinion (thats all, no more), you are developing a fairly normal relationship....from a man's perspective. I would hazard a guess that if asked, he would say that the relationship was going really well. He would probably say that you and he were gradually getting closer and that his trust in you was growing. I would think that he has no idea that you are (or may be) unhappy with how things are going.
The fact that you feel comfortable with the developing relationship is great and I'm sure he would agree, but I think he would be surprised you are uncertain. I suspect (could be wrong!) that he imagines your relationship is progressing well. Its just a mans way of moving along the way to something closer. He shared an important piece of information with you....that he was going out with mates for a drink....this is significant to him, even if it seems trivial to you. Its a positive sign, showing he may be ready to share other important things....like he cares for you, but that may take somewhat longer to be acknowledged.
Be patient with him....he is a mere male and values different things. Be careful how you confront his seeming lack of response, it may upset him and drive him away.
Hang in there, Kizzy, play him carefully and he will get on your wavelength soon (hopefully).
We wait the next instalment with interest.
Kizzy, please dont take offence at my humorous take on your relationship, I genuinely hope this man is the right one for you. I hope when you meet that your obvious mutual attraction is realised.
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Its very strange cause i feel like im in a relationship with a stranger . He called me today to say he was going out with mates tonite for a drink I mean what is that????
I am not in a relationship....am I???
Little things are being said , assumed like , when you meet such n such or we can go here , He is buying a house and wanted me to look at some he liked asked my opinion when I said i didnt like the hill the drive was on he scrapped it ....whats that???
Its just we talk so often we have become very familiar without being familiar ...has anyone else experianced this Its like i am involved yet im not ...
Ive never webcammed with him have only seen 2 pics of him but i like his personality very much I feel comfortable chatting to him about life etc
so whats the go am I seeing someone ort arent I ????
Kizzy