Divorce (66)
Ralf74Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia44 Threads 2 Polls 4,241 PostsWell i just sent my divorce papers off to the court and i was expecting some sort of emotion about it all but I am just numb. I am not really sure what to feel or even what I think about it. It just seems like a formality to me, I am not happy or sad or mad or anything, nothing, zip, zero, zilch. I am not typically emotional anyway but I am feeling a bit void of any emotion whatsoever. 
Ralf74: Well i just sent my divorce papers off to the court and i was expecting some sort of emotion about it all but I am just numb. I am not really sure what to feel or even what I think about it. It just seems like a formality to me, I am not happy or sad or mad or anything, nothing, zip, zero, zilch. I am not typically emotional anyway but I am feeling a bit void of any emotion whatsoever.
well, you can only feel what you feel ralfie.....i suppose people say well maybe we're supposed to feel sad, or angry or some such nonsense....but if thats what you feel, no-one can deny your right to feel that way
Ralf74: Well i just sent my divorce papers off to the court and i was expecting some sort of emotion about it all but I am just numb. I am not really sure what to feel or even what I think about it. It just seems like a formality to me, I am not happy or sad or mad or anything, nothing, zip, zero, zilch. I am not typically emotional anyway but I am feeling a bit void of any emotion whatsoever.
I would take that as a good thing. No sadness and pining over something that has ended.
Is there a divorce party in order?
Lou29: I would take that as a good thing. No sadness and pining over something that has ended.
Is there a divorce party in order?
Is there a divorce party in order?
Sounds like a plan!! I'll have to get all the other formalities out of the way and as soon as I have the divorce certificate, it is party time!!
sxc666: Actually when I filed for divorce and when it came through. I felt a certain feeling of failure and found myself analysing what went wrong. I certainly did not feel proud in anyway. I remember it was an unusual feeling......
I hoped I've learnt from mistakes in the past and can take them into the future.
I hoped I've learnt from mistakes in the past and can take them into the future.
....Yep...I know that feeling very well.......
A hug for you sxc666...
J.D
WOOHOO PARTY TIME! I am so there!
WOOHOO PARTY TIME! I am so there!
Ralf74: Well i just sent my divorce papers off to the court and i was expecting some sort of emotion about it all but I am just numb. I am not really sure what to feel or even what I think about it. It just seems like a formality to me, I am not happy or sad or mad or anything, nothing, zip, zero, zilch. I am not typically emotional anyway but I am feeling a bit void of any emotion whatsoever.
Never been there nor do i want to ..Although ladies, there is life after a divorce. Maybe its not the life you had envisioned..
I remember when my divorce came thru ...I cried for hours ,I was sad ,I too felt like a failure ,I made light of it but seriously Ralf what your feeling is shock , we all go into marriage with the expectation that it will be forever the man or woman we love that day & that nothing will ever undermine it or come between it sadly tho reality is a lot different sometimes ... Its a shock to realize the finality of it all & the fact that we didnt make it that reconciliation is beyond reach,
life does go on love too if we are lucky enought o find it
Kizzy
life does go on love too if we are lucky enought o find it
Kizzy
Twodawgz: Never been there nor do i want to ..Although ladies, there is life after a divorce. Maybe its not the life you had envisioned..
got that right dawgz I always said growing up 8+ and ended up 6- 
never again 
Ralf74: Well i just sent my divorce papers off to the court and i was expecting some sort of emotion about it all but I am just numb. I am not really sure what to feel or even what I think about it. It just seems like a formality to me, I am not happy or sad or mad or anything, nothing, zip, zero, zilch. I am not typically emotional anyway but I am feeling a bit void of any emotion whatsoever.
i vote for a divorce party!! i just organised one for my mate last valentines day. we called it the "liberation day".. hehehhehe..
g33kgurl: i vote for a divorce party!! i just organised one for my mate last valentines day. we called it the "liberation day".. hehehhehe..
I love it!! We need some games!!
Ralf74: well i am not divorced just yet!!
phewww ralf, thought i may have managed to offend or upset u, with my insensativity.
. cheer up ralf u have another man n another shot at happiness. as one door slams stick ur foot in the next so it carn't 
thouroughbred: phewww ralf, thought i may have managed to offend or upset u, with my insensativity. . cheer up ralf u have another man n another shot at happiness. as one door slams stick ur foot in the next so it carn't
Thanks TB, you should know that you can't offend me! Ralf74: I am stitching up the voodoo dolls for the party as we speak!! BYO name to put on it or you can just help me make my ex suffer, i am not fussed!!
Errrrk! Although I have the kids and she knows I have
to be alive to cook , clean and look after them, I do
hope my Ex don't do that to me!.
Good lord she read Tarot Cards everyday to!! I'm scared
now! Arrrrrrgggh
No1knows1: Errrrk! Although I have the kids and she knows I have
to be alive to cook , clean and look after them, I do
hope my Ex don't do that to me!.
Good lord she read Tarot Cards everyday to!! I'm scared
now! Arrrrrrgggh
to be alive to cook , clean and look after them, I do
hope my Ex don't do that to me!.
Good lord she read Tarot Cards everyday to!! I'm scared
now! Arrrrrrgggh
Be afraid, be very afraid!! 
Ralf74: Be afraid, be very afraid!!
My two Youngest girls 16yrs and 17yrs are soooo
lazy they will probably work me to death first
anyhow! I'm just glad the other 3 daughters have
left home!
No1knows1: My two Youngest girls 16yrs and 17yrs are soooo
lazy they will probably work me to death first
anyhow! I'm just glad the other 3 daughters have
left home!
lazy they will probably work me to death first
anyhow! I'm just glad the other 3 daughters have
left home!
You sound like a guy I knew. Wanted a boy badly. Gave up trying after the fifth girl
CaySea: You sound like a guy I knew. Wanted a boy badly. Gave up trying after the fifth girl
I have a friend who has 6 boys!!
g33kgurl: i vote for a divorce party!! i just organised one for my mate last valentines day. we called it the "liberation day".. hehehhehe..
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