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May 7, 2009 2:30 AM CST unsure
malcolmrobert
malcolmrobertmalcolmrobertbirmingham, West Midlands, England UK22 Threads 179 Posts
can you fall in love over the net
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May 7, 2009 2:33 AM CST unsure
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
malcolmrobert: can you fall in love over the net
My personal opinion is this. Yes, you can, but you can also easily mistake falling in love with a person, with falling in love with the idea of being in love with that person. Hope that helps.
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May 7, 2009 2:35 AM CST unsure
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
Da10th: My personal opinion is this. Yes, you can, but you can also easily mistake falling in love with a person, with falling in love with the idea of being in love with that person. Hope that helps.

incredibely convolouted answer. and makes perfect sense.
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May 7, 2009 2:35 AM CST unsure
malcolmrobert: can you fall in love over the net

Malco,always i feel that internet is a place of my friends and i love it,so there are chances to fall in love ,yes it can bethumbs up thumbs up
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May 7, 2009 2:36 AM CST unsure
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Mornin, quite a divided view on this one.

I don't believe you can, i think you can like what you see of a person by the way they interact and by talking to them begin to lay the foundations of a sound friendship maybe something more.

But to fall in love, i think you have to met the person, and take it from there.

Love, lust and infatuation are all very different so i think it is important to keep hold of reality until you meet the person
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May 7, 2009 2:37 AM CST unsure
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Da10th: My personal opinion is this. Yes, you can, but you can also easily mistake falling in love with a person, with falling in love with the idea of being in love with that person. Hope that helps.
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May 7, 2009 2:42 AM CST unsure
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
malcolmrobert: can you fall in love over the net



No.
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May 7, 2009 2:46 AM CST unsure
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Yepcheering
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May 7, 2009 2:49 AM CST unsure
moonlightstar
moonlightstarmoonlightstarparis, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France12 Threads 1,073 Posts
malcolmrobert: can you fall in love over the net


You can get stong feeling for some one, and I think if u really have this...it is quite possible to fall in Love.....

Other wise no body would make the effort to Travel around the Globe to meet with the New Love....

But thats just my opinion.....dunno teddybear
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May 7, 2009 2:53 AM CST unsure
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
moonlightstar: You can get stong feeling for some one, and I think if u really have this...it is quite possible to fall in Love.....

Other wise no body would make the effort to Travel around the Globe to meet with the New Love....

But thats just my opinion.....
mornin moon wave i would travel to find out how we got on in RL, not because i loved them.

I had been talking to guy on here, all well we met and after 2 days i couldn't stand him, he just wasn't what i thought he would be like at all
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May 7, 2009 2:54 AM CST unsure
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
morgan5: mornin moon i would travel to find out how we got on in RL, not because i loved them.

I had been talking to guy on here, all well we met and after 2 days i couldn't stand him, he just wasn't what i thought he would be like at all




I wasn't that bad was I?laugh
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May 7, 2009 3:00 AM CST unsure
moonlightstar
moonlightstarmoonlightstarparis, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France12 Threads 1,073 Posts
morgan5: mornin moon i would travel to find out how we got on in RL, not because i loved them.

I had been talking to guy on here, all well we met and after 2 days i couldn't stand him, he just wasn't what i thought he would be like at all


Good Morning...

I see your point, I guess u just have to have luck, but I would´nt travel to him with out Feelings...

So u must have a bit of attraction to do that I think, but has to be from both sides....

up to now I have´nt traveled yet.....My first date would be in combitation of a Holiday somewhere together, just in case it didnt work out, at least the trip would not be for nothing....

No rush......

thumbs up teddybear
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May 7, 2009 3:04 AM CST unsure
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Da10th: I wasn't that bad was I?
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May 7, 2009 3:07 AM CST unsure
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
moonlightstar: Good Morning...

I see your point, I guess u just have to have luck, but I would´nt travel to him with out Feelings...

So u must have a bit of attraction to do that I think, but has to be from both sides....

up to now I have´nt traveled yet.....My first date would be in combitation of a Holiday somewhere together, just in case it didnt work out, at least the trip would not be for nothing....

No rush......
i liked him on here and when we spoke on the phone etc, and it was from both sides.

But on the internet people can let you see only what they want you to see, in RL and when your actually with them you get to the real person.
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May 7, 2009 4:09 AM CST unsure
malcolmrobert
malcolmrobertmalcolmrobertbirmingham, West Midlands, England UK22 Threads 179 Posts
morgan5: i liked him on here and when we spoke on the phone etc, and it was from both sides.

But on the internet people can let you see only what they want you to see, in RL and when your actually with them you get to the real person.
i think now days love is an under stated word and some people use it as a means of getting what they want from the other person face to face is still the best way
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May 7, 2009 4:16 AM CST unsure
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
malcolmrobert: i think now days love is an under stated word and some people use it as a means of getting what they want from the other person face to face is still the best way
i think as someone else said, it's easy to fall in love with the idea of being in love, especially over the internet cheers
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May 7, 2009 4:20 AM CST unsure
tito76
tito76tito76Kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait2 Threads 1 Polls 65 Posts
moonlightstar: Good Morning...

I see your point, I guess u just have to have luck, but I would´nt travel to him with out Feelings...

So u must have a bit of attraction to do that I think, but has to be from both sides....

up to now I have´nt traveled yet.....My first date would be in combitation of a Holiday somewhere together, just in case it didnt work out, at least the trip would not be for nothing....

No rush......


so are you ready sweetie for our trip to Alex? cool

teddybear
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May 7, 2009 4:28 AM CST unsure
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
morgan5: Mornin, quite a divided view on this one.

I don't believe you can, i think you can like what you see of a person by the way they interact and by talking to them begin to lay the foundations of a sound friendship maybe something more.

But to fall in love, i think you have to met the person, and take it from there.

Love, lust and infatuation are all very different so i think it is important to keep hold of reality until you meet the person


I agree with you Morgan, as you will know from previous threads about this subject.

In my opinion you cannot fall in love with someone you have never met.
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May 7, 2009 4:51 AM CST unsure
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
I feel you can develop a deep admiration and a wealth of respect. However I do feel love comes and develops when you meet, touch, kiss and are able to look into someone's eyes. heart wings
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May 7, 2009 5:40 AM CST unsure
I couldn't fall in love with anyone over the internet cause it's just words.Plus you really don't know who you might be talking to.There are some people that I enjoy talking to but I still use caution.
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