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mathiasll557: Ok. So I met this girl at another site, and we have been emailing for about 2 weeks now. At monday I ask her out, and she says yes. We can go out on friday (today 6/5). Yesterday she says "her car is broken". The deal was she would go to my city to have lunch in a restaurant with me. So I suggest I can go to her city by "commuter means" instead. Guess what? This morning I get an SMS saying "Sorry, have to work".
Am I wrong to think this is just a bad excuse, that she has got cold feet and doesnt dare to tell me? Or is she honest? Personally I think its a little too "convienent" for these two things to happen in 2 days...
Am I wrong to think this is just a bad excuse, that she has got cold feet and doesnt dare to tell me? Or is she honest? Personally I think its a little too "convienent" for these two things to happen in 2 days...
Hi Mathias are you new to the EU forums ..never seen you before anyway if that is the case hi and welcome
as for your questions well as symbolist pointed out ..there are alot of people on this site who play games...in your case....it could be so on the other hand i always believe in giving a person the benefit of the doubt so wait and see if she gets back to you with another date ..if not then she has probably changed her mind or got cold feet ..to be fair it happens to the best of us ..we say yes and then become uncertain about going ...there is something a bit scary i feel about a blind date ..and its not everyones cup of tea...anyway hope it works out for you ..
just and direct and polite.
mathiasll557: Ok. So I met this girl at another site, and we have been emailing for about 2 weeks now. At monday I ask her out, and she says yes. We can go out on friday (today 6/5). Yesterday she says "her car is broken". The deal was she would go to my city to have lunch in a restaurant with me. So I suggest I can go to her city by "commuter means" instead. Guess what? This morning I get an SMS saying "Sorry, have to work".
Am I wrong to think this is just a bad excuse, that she has got cold feet and doesnt dare to tell me? Or is she honest? Personally I think its a little too "convienent" for these two things to happen in 2 days...
Am I wrong to think this is just a bad excuse, that she has got cold feet and doesnt dare to tell me? Or is she honest? Personally I think its a little too "convienent" for these two things to happen in 2 days...
She could be avoiding you or got her period all of a sudden; they make you act strangely.
She could be suffering from PMS....Pre-Meal Psychosis....
stuff her, mate .. what there's no football on where you are? ..
lusciousmile: She could be avoiding you or got her period all of a sudden; they make you act strangely.
I'm feeling strange sis
Just send her a SMS asking if she REALLY wants to meet you. Nothing wrong with being direct. It never ceases to amaze me how funny people can be about all sorts of stuff but maybe she's just shy. Just ask if anything is the matter. Show concern but don't be pushy, she may really be avoiding you. So an SMS is probably enough.
In response to: Ok. So I met this girl at another site, and we have been emailing for about 2 weeks now. At monday I ask her out, and she says yes. We can go out on friday (today 6/5). Yesterday she says "her car is broken". The deal was she would go to my city to have lunch in a restaurant with me. So I suggest I can go to her city by "commuter means" instead. Guess what? This morning I get an SMS saying "Sorry, have to work".
Am I wrong to think this is just a bad excuse, that she has got cold feet and doesnt dare to tell me? Or is she honest? Personally I think its a little too "convienent" for these two things to happen in 2 days...
Am I wrong to think this is just a bad excuse, that she has got cold feet and doesnt dare to tell me? Or is she honest? Personally I think its a little too "convienent" for these two things to happen in 2 days...
why don't you spend the money you had saved for the date to get a few drinks down you on a place you might like, and not get too tangled up on what happened? I don't think it's your business to worry, it's her business to communicate what she wants articulately. Don't overestimate people, cause truth lies in actions and not intentions (i think).
mathiasll557: Ok. So I met this girl at another site, and we have been emailing for about 2 weeks now. At monday I ask her out, and she says yes. We can go out on friday (today 6/5). Yesterday she says "her car is broken". The deal was she would go to my city to have lunch in a restaurant with me. So I suggest I can go to her city by "commuter means" instead. Guess what? This morning I get an SMS saying "Sorry, have to work".
Am I wrong to think this is just a bad excuse, that she has got cold feet and doesnt dare to tell me? Or is she honest? Personally I think its a little too "convienent" for these two things to happen in 2 days...
Am I wrong to think this is just a bad excuse, that she has got cold feet and doesnt dare to tell me? Or is she honest? Personally I think its a little too "convienent" for these two things to happen in 2 days...
I guess if you could have gone to her city by 'commuter means' she could have come to your city by 'commuter means' too (IF her car had indeed broken down).
You cannot force an issue in a relationship - for whatever reason it looks as though she has indeed had 'cold feet' and you should assume the worst yet hope for the best......... it's often when you 'let something go' that it unexpectedly drops into your lap!
liakos: why don't you spend the money you had saved for the date to get a few drinks down you on a place you might like, and not get too tangled up on what happened? I don't think it's your business to worry, it's her business to communicate what she wants articulately. Don't overestimate people, cause truth lies in actions and not intentions (i think).
Where were you today when I needed this advice?
rusty_knight:
You cannot force an issue in a relationship - for whatever reason it looks as though she has indeed had 'cold feet' and you should assume the worst yet hope for the best......... it's often when you 'let something go' that it unexpectedly drops into your lap!
You cannot force an issue in a relationship - for whatever reason it looks as though she has indeed had 'cold feet' and you should assume the worst yet hope for the best......... it's often when you 'let something go' that it unexpectedly drops into your lap!
And where was this advice??? Do you have a thing against women whining over men rather than the other way around?
symbolistartist: Where were you today when I needed this advice?
symbolistartist: And where was this advice??? Do you have a thing against women whining over men rather than the other way around?
Everybody has a right to whine now and again.......... it's just when one makes it a daily habit that it gets boring.
I wrote what I wrote from personal experience here - I moaned too much for too long and people eventually got fed up and lost sympathy.
I am certainly not attacking you for being a female moaner - just pointing out that moaning, whatever your gender, just gets boring after a while - ok?
So mathias what do YOU think after all this talking? 
mathiasll557: I dont know, I feel like waiting and see if she contacts me again...
Sounds like a good idea........ contacting her again at this stage when she has clearly let you down doesn't sound too sensible!
She's doing that annoying thing that women do ..
mathiasll557: I dont know, I feel like waiting and see if she contacts me again...
you seem to have put your hope on this thing and i honestly wish it'll turn out good. still in the rare chance that she is playing with you, i'd make it a bit harder for her to confuse you next time. it's only fair.
Actually, I didnt put that much hope into it. I was just looking forward to meeting her, and wanted to show her how much effort I was willing to put into it. It would have taken me 1h30 min to get to her city. This would have been my 3rd date this year :D
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