What do you men think..... ( Archived) (55)

May 14, 2009 4:49 PM CST What do you men think.....
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
sambhava: Well the last time I was in Athens I was lured into a bar BY a woman in Syntagma Square. And once inside it was the same old story. She asks for a drink and the naive guy buys her one...But not me! The cost of one of those drinks would have been about £200 a shot! And if you don't cough up they'll threaten you. I wonder how many guys still fall for this kind of thing...


I have no intention of asking someone to buy me a drink. Yes, these things happen, but it's kind of irrelevant to my initial question. Thanks for responding, though.
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May 14, 2009 4:52 PM CST What do you men think.....
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
jlb684: I have no intention of asking someone to buy me a drink. Yes, these things happen, but it's kind of irrelevant to my initial question. Thanks for responding, though.
Would you let me buy you a drink, then we can discuss the next drink.hug kiss bouquet wine
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May 14, 2009 4:52 PM CST What do you men think.....
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
wixomwizard: I rarely go to bars, when I do it is generally on a whim. If I go at all, it is with other friends for dinner or perhaps it is football season and I want to watch a collegiate game on a bigger scene than what I have at home.

I no longer go there to meet women. I think I have pretty much grown out of that lifestyle.


I just know that I will want to take in some nightlife while on vacation...the whole atmosphere, you know? People out walking along the water, lines of cafes and bars and clubs with lots of activity. I won't want to sit in my hotel room and watch t.v., that's for sure. And so I WILL go in where I choose to, enjoy a drink or two, people watch, and listen to the music. I'll work on getting over the awkward feeling.
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May 14, 2009 4:54 PM CST What do you men think.....
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
drbombay: Would you let me buy you a drink, then we can discuss the next drink.


I would be honored.
Must head off to bed now. Goodnight, all.
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May 14, 2009 4:56 PM CST What do you men think.....
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
jlb684: I would be honored.
Must head off to bed now. Goodnight, all.
TY, night night sweetieyawn heart wings kiss wine bouquet
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May 14, 2009 5:01 PM CST What do you men think.....
As a direct answer to the op....

.....depends on the aura the woman gives.....if she is making it obvious that she is there for company I ignore totally.....

....if she is there and seemingly enjoying the scene.....I would check out....possibly eye contact first...and take it form there...

...a simple smile would speak volumes......

....if I am in a group I would probably ask her to join us....

...if I am alone myself...would probably introduce myself and ask if she would mind my joining her table.....

cool
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May 14, 2009 5:06 PM CST What do you men think.....
ziplockbaglady
ziplockbagladyziplockbagladyhome, Ceiba Puerto Rico2 Posts
lmao @ then the cicle continues til death.. that's messed up!

I think Women shouldnt go out to bars period.. why? for liquor?.. drink water go home! buy a dog or something.. do something that actually will not make you feel uncomfortable.
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May 14, 2009 5:09 PM CST What do you men think.....
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
ziplockbaglady: lmao @ then the cicle continues til death.. that's messed up!

I think Women shouldnt go out to bars period.. why? for liquor?.. drink water go home! buy a dog or something.. do something that actually will not make you feel uncomfortable.


....Hmmmm....this will be a interesting one....

laugh popcorn typing

J.D
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May 14, 2009 5:10 PM CST What do you men think.....
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
ziplockbaglady: lmao @ then the cicle continues til death.. that's messed up!

I think Women shouldnt go out to bars period.. why? for liquor?.. drink water go home! buy a dog or something.. do something that actually will not make you feel uncomfortable.


Was just about to log off to go to sleep, but I must respond to this one.
So, I'm on vacation, wanting to enjoy island nightlife and not to sit bored in my hotel room and the solution is......


Buy a dog???????

rolling on the floor laughing
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May 14, 2009 5:21 PM CST What do you men think.....
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
jlb684: Was just about to log off to go to sleep, but I must respond to this one.
So, I'm on vacation, wanting to enjoy island nightlife and not to sit bored in my hotel room and the solution is......Buy a dog???????


haha

Have fun on your vacation. laugh
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May 14, 2009 8:10 PM CST What do you men think.....
ihateusernames
ihateusernamesihateusernamesForestville, Maryland USA2 Threads 375 Posts
I go to bars alone and prefer it that way. I feel obligated to make converssation if I have a date or am otherwise out with a friend. I like to get smashed and ppl watch. Cuz I'm really just there for the alcohol.
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May 14, 2009 8:16 PM CST What do you men think.....
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
ziplockbaglady: lmao @ then the cicle continues til death.. that's messed up!

I think Women shouldnt go out to bars period.. why? for liquor?.. drink water go home! buy a dog or something.. do something that actually will not make you feel uncomfortable.


And what, Sir, do you think women should do, aside from buy a dog?

I don't feel uncomfortable if in a bar alone. Of course, I am careful about which bars I would enter alone.

I find your post amusing.
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May 14, 2009 8:23 PM CST What do you men think.....
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
ziplockbaglady: lmao @ then the cicle continues til death.. that's messed up!

I think Women shouldnt go out to bars period.. why? for liquor?.. drink water go home! buy a dog or something.. do something that actually will not make you feel uncomfortable.


Well I'm not going to tell someone what they should or shouldn't do... but the OP ask men, what we thought to ourselves when we seen a woman in a bar by themself, and I give my honest anwser, it doesn't mean it's a fact for all women, it is just my opinion...

But Are you a liberal?????laugh if not you sure missed your calling..laugh That's what they do... they tell other's what would be best for them.and how they should live their life....laugh
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May 14, 2009 8:30 PM CST What do you men think.....
TxGuy1306
TxGuy1306TxGuy1306Pflugerville, Texas USA217 Posts
oooooooooo, ouch. Tater - you are so dead on.
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May 14, 2009 8:33 PM CST What do you men think.....
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
I think it's a bit odd,as a guy,I PREFER TO go with a few friends when I GO OUT...

although I'm not crazy about hanging in bars anyways,and prefer coffee shops and restaurants,terraces in the summer,that kind of stuff.
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