I Just woke up, read 3 threads as looking for one to respond to, and all 3 I looked at, and read, took me close to an hour...... and NONE Were worth my time or effort...... Do these people not realise that I would NEVER date them, But Think on this...... I wont forget who is who either.......One thread was a woman bashing a man..... another was a man Bashing a woman......
This I guess is how we tell who NOT TO DATE.......This is a Mess , a CHOCOLATE MESS, but not M&M's...... It is as sad as an adult with a Dirty Diaper......
Should we need to take dating Classes to be on CS?????
Can we help those who have no self esteem..... How do we make CS Dating more enjoyable.....
next..... Do THEY HAVE THE PROBLEM? Or do I ... I feel like a mad Dad..... with out of control CHILDREN....... This is one reason I have hardly been on here......
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
HotrodLarrys: I Just woke up, read 3 threads as looking for one to respond to, and all 3 I looked at, and read, took me close to an hour...... and NONE Were worth my time or effort...... Do these people not realise that I would NEVER date them, But Think on this...... I wont forget who is who either.......One thread was a woman bashing a man..... another was a man Bashing a woman...... This I guess is how we tell who NOT TO DATE.......This is a Mess , a CHOCOLATE MESS, but not M&M's...... It is as sad as an adult with a Dirty Diaper...... Should we need to take dating Classes to be on CS?????Can we help those who have no self esteem..... How do we make CS Dating more enjoyable..... next..... Do THEY HAVE THE PROBLEM? Or do I ... I feel like a mad Dad..... with out of control CHILDREN....... This is one reason I have hardly been on here......
I've lost the plot of this being a dating site...more of a bashing, beating down, and arguing site....that's why I've lost interest and just pop in to check emails mostly now. After nearly a year of trying this site...I've come to realize it's not a happy place sometimes and not productive - I can live without it.
I agree Larry, Some days are absolutely boring and of course there are the usual ones who like to try to kick up a little dust every chance they get. But hopefully it will get some better. Take care and have a good day.
HotrodLarrys: I am NOT the one Judging just to make it clear..... I am the one observing...... The ones who are judging is those Bashing.....
Like if this was a degrading tournament..... Is this the Kind people you want to meet?You may say I am Judgig.... I am looking for one to Date...... I darn better be Ling.........
I am Screening Potential ones to be a part of my life..... That is not Judging, or bashing.... I am here to have fun, on an Honest note And I will Stand tall
"IMO,you're saying that you're screening whomever participates on the forums and,you make your choice as to who you may find suitable or was that on C.S,in general?."
I have to admit, it is getting very hard to think of this as a dating site. Not too many around (that I'm aware of) who I would be interested in getting to know based on what I've seen in their posts. As to those who lurk but never post - how do people know you are out there?
Dating classes might not be a bad idea - odds are likely though that there would be a lot of people who would skip classes... Probably don't think they need any education in this area.
Hopefully this is just a phase, I certainly don't post to every forum, quite frankly a lot of them I don't even open depending on the opening line or who it is originating from.
HotrodLarrys: I Just woke up, read 3 threads as looking for one to respond to, and all 3 I looked at, and read, took me close to an hour...... and NONE Were worth my time or effort...... Do these people not realise that I would NEVER date them, But Think on this...... I wont forget who is who either.......One thread was a woman bashing a man..... another was a man Bashing a woman...... This I guess is how we tell who NOT TO DATE.......This is a Mess , a CHOCOLATE MESS, but not M&M's...... It is as sad as an adult with a Dirty Diaper...... Should we need to take dating Classes to be on CS?????Can we help those who have no self esteem..... How do we make CS Dating more enjoyable.....
next..... Do THEY HAVE THE PROBLEM? Or do I ... I feel like a mad Dad..... with out of control CHILDREN....... This is one reason I have hardly been on here......
Hotrod, PS Please be nice, or dont respond......
Well, at least you're seeing people for who they really are and what their values are.
I think if we're honest, most people have been involved in these little turf battles, slam contests, etc... and some have been quite rude in the process, I know I have. And if that turns someone off then that's OK because they have seen the real me and have made a decision that I'm not to their liking. That's probably better than trying to pretend I'm something or someone else.
HotrodLarrys: I am NOT the one Judging just to make it clear..... I am the one observing...... The ones who are judging is those Bashing.....
Like if this was a degrading tournament..... Is this the Kind people you want to meet?You may say I am Judgig.... I am looking for one to Date...... I darn better be Ling.........
I am Screening Potential ones to be a part of my life..... That is not Judging, or bashing.... I am here to have fun, on an Honest note And I will Stand tall
I always stand tall Hotrod, I just cant think that i am better than others Folks have a right to post what they wish to post here We have the choice to read what we want to read.Good luck to you and you're screening process I hope just to connect and be surprised by someone I am here on the chance that i might find something special we are ALL here for something.
HotrodLarrys: I Just woke up, read 3 threads as looking for one to respond to, and all 3 I looked at, and read, took me close to an hour...... and NONE Were worth my time or effort...... Do these people not realise that I would NEVER date them, But Think on this...... I wont forget who is who either.......One thread was a woman bashing a man..... another was a man Bashing a woman...... This I guess is how we tell who NOT TO DATE.......This is a Mess , a CHOCOLATE MESS, but not M&M's...... It is as sad as an adult with a Dirty Diaper...... Should we need to take dating Classes to be on CS?????Can we help those who have no self esteem..... How do we make CS Dating more enjoyable.....
next..... Do THEY HAVE THE PROBLEM? Or do I ... I feel like a mad Dad..... with out of control CHILDREN....... This is one reason I have hardly been on here......
Hotrod, PS Please be nice, or dont respond......
I will be nice to you. Just remember you get what you give.
granted some get out of hand but it is open forum and just because two people disagree does not make them incompatible it does make for communication, that's like saying you are always right and your mate never is. you might be missing out but sorting out this way
I definitely agree that too many names are called and some argue like little kids....
I am sorta guilty of that too.. I'll call someone a LIB. and I don't like Obama much, but not too much of the other names...I just try and call things the way I see em..
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
HotrodLarrys: I Just woke up, read 3 threads as looking for one to respond to, and all 3 I looked at, and read, took me close to an hour...... and NONE Were worth my time or effort...... Do these people not realise that I would NEVER date them, But Think on this...... I wont forget who is who either.......One thread was a woman bashing a man..... another was a man Bashing a woman...... This I guess is how we tell who NOT TO DATE.......This is a Mess , a CHOCOLATE MESS, but not M&M's...... It is as sad as an adult with a Dirty Diaper...... Should we need to take dating Classes to be on CS?????Can we help those who have no self esteem..... How do we make CS Dating more enjoyable.....
next..... Do THEY HAVE THE PROBLEM? Or do I ... I feel like a mad Dad..... with out of control CHILDREN....... This is one reason I have hardly been on here......
SensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA1,726 posts
HotrodLarrys: I am NOT the one Judging just to make it clear..... I am the one observing...... The ones who are judging is those Bashing.....
Like if this was a degrading tournament..... Is this the Kind people you want to meet?You may say I am Judgig.... I am looking for one to Date...... I darn better be Ling.........
I am Screening Potential ones to be a part of my life..... That is not Judging, or bashing.... I am here to have fun, on an Honest note And I will Stand tall
But you are judging, Larry, when you say you won't date some by the actions you have observed in the forums....
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This I guess is how we tell who NOT TO DATE.......This is a Mess , a CHOCOLATE MESS, but not M&M's...... It is as sad as an adult with a Dirty Diaper......
Should we need to take dating Classes to be on CS?????
Can we help those who have no self esteem..... How do we make CS Dating more enjoyable.....
next..... Do THEY HAVE THE PROBLEM? Or do I ... I feel like a mad Dad..... with out of control CHILDREN....... This is one reason I have hardly been on here......
Hotrod, PS Please be nice, or dont respond......