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May 17, 2009 10:35 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
I Just woke up, read 3 threads as looking for one to respond to, and all 3 I looked at, and read, took me close to an hour...... and NONE Were worth my time or effort...... Do these people not realise that I would NEVER date them, But Think on this...... I wont forget who is who either.......One thread was a woman bashing a man..... another was a man Bashing a woman......uh oh uh oh uh oh


This I guess is how we tell who NOT TO DATE.......This is a Mess , a CHOCOLATE MESS, but not M&M's...... It is as sad as an adult with a Dirty Diaper......doh grin


Should we need to take dating Classes to be on CS?????


Can we help those who have no self esteem..... How do we make CS Dating more enjoyable.....




next..... Do THEY HAVE THE PROBLEM? Or do I ... I feel like a mad Dad..... with out of control CHILDREN....... This is one reason I have hardly been on here......

Hotrod, PS Please be nice, or dont respond......tip hat hmmm
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May 17, 2009 10:38 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
freedom of speech Hotrod
we are not here to judge others..
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May 17, 2009 10:38 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
starshinebright
starshinebrightstarshinebrightRiverside, California USA189 Threads 1 Polls 6,305 Posts
thumbs up
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May 17, 2009 10:41 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I Just woke up, read 3 threads as looking for one to respond to, and all 3 I looked at, and read, took me close to an hour...... and NONE Were worth my time or effort...... Do these people not realise that I would NEVER date them, But Think on this...... I wont forget who is who either.......One thread was a woman bashing a man..... another was a man Bashing a woman...... This I guess is how we tell who NOT TO DATE.......This is a Mess , a CHOCOLATE MESS, but not M&M's...... It is as sad as an adult with a Dirty Diaper...... Should we need to take dating Classes to be on CS?????Can we help those who have no self esteem..... How do we make CS Dating more enjoyable.....
next..... Do THEY HAVE THE PROBLEM? Or do I ... I feel like a mad Dad..... with out of control CHILDREN....... This is one reason I have hardly been on here......

Hotrod, PS Please be nice, or dont respond......


JUST LEAV IT UP TO ME

I CAN FIX THATdrinking
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May 17, 2009 10:43 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
I've lost the plot of this being a dating site...more of a bashing, beating down, and arguing site....that's why I've lost interest and just pop in to check emails mostly now. After nearly a year of trying this site...I've come to realize it's not a happy place sometimes and not productive - I can live without it.
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May 17, 2009 10:53 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
goodfriend: freedom of speech Hotrod
we are not here to judge others..




I am NOT the one Judging just to make it clear..... I am the one observing...... The ones who are judging is those Bashing.....

Like if this was a degrading tournament..... doh grin


Is this the Kind people you want to meet?


You may say I am Judgig.... I am looking for one to Date...... I darn better be Lwowing.........

I am Screening Potential ones to be a part of my life..... That is not Judging, or bashing.... I am here to have fun, on an Honest noteteddybear teddybear peace



And I will Stand tall
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May 17, 2009 10:56 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
I agree Larry, Some days are absolutely boring and of course
there are the usual ones who like to try to kick up a little
dust every chance they get. But hopefully it will get some better. Take care and have a good day. hug
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May 17, 2009 10:58 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I am NOT the one Judging just to make it clear..... I am the one observing...... The ones who are judging is those Bashing.....

Like if this was a degrading tournament..... Is this the Kind people you want to meet?You may say I am Judgig.... I am looking for one to Date...... I darn better be Ling.........

I am Screening Potential ones to be a part of my life..... That is not Judging, or bashing.... I am here to have fun, on an Honest note
And I will Stand tall


"IMO,you're saying that you're screening whomever
participates on the forums and,you make your
choice as to who you may find suitable or was
that on C.S,in general?."

confused
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May 17, 2009 11:01 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
I have to admit, it is getting very hard to think of this as a dating site. Not too many around (that I'm aware of) who I would be interested in getting to know based on what I've seen in their posts. As to those who lurk but never post - how do people know you are out there?

Dating classes might not be a bad idea - odds are likely though that there would be a lot of people who would skip classes...laugh Probably don't think they need any education in this area.

Hopefully this is just a phase, I certainly don't post to every forum, quite frankly a lot of them I don't even open depending on the opening line or who it is originating from.
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May 17, 2009 11:06 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I Just woke up, read 3 threads as looking for one to respond to, and all 3 I looked at, and read, took me close to an hour...... and NONE Were worth my time or effort...... Do these people not realise that I would NEVER date them, But Think on this...... I wont forget who is who either.......One thread was a woman bashing a man..... another was a man Bashing a woman...... This I guess is how we tell who NOT TO DATE.......This is a Mess , a CHOCOLATE MESS, but not M&M's...... It is as sad as an adult with a Dirty Diaper...... Should we need to take dating Classes to be on CS?????Can we help those who have no self esteem..... How do we make CS Dating more enjoyable.....

next..... Do THEY HAVE THE PROBLEM? Or do I ... I feel like a mad Dad..... with out of control CHILDREN....... This is one reason I have hardly been on here......

Hotrod, PS Please be nice, or dont respond......


Well, at least you're seeing people for who they really are and what their values are.

I think if we're honest, most people have been involved in these little turf battles, slam contests, etc... and some have been quite rude in the process, I know I have. And if that turns someone off then that's OK because they have seen the real me and have made a decision that I'm not to their liking. That's probably better than trying to pretend I'm something or someone else.
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May 17, 2009 11:08 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I am NOT the one Judging just to make it clear..... I am the one observing...... The ones who are judging is those Bashing.....

Like if this was a degrading tournament..... Is this the Kind people you want to meet?You may say I am Judgig.... I am looking for one to Date...... I darn better be Ling.........

I am Screening Potential ones to be a part of my life..... That is not Judging, or bashing.... I am here to have fun, on an Honest note
And I will Stand tall


I always stand tall Hotrod,
I just cant think that i am better than others
Folks have a right to post what they wish to post here
We have the choice to read what we want to read.Good luck to you and you're screening process
I hope just to connect and be surprised by someone
I am here on the chance that i might find something special
we are ALL here for something.
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May 17, 2009 11:09 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
Just to clarify, I have gotten to know some nice people on here so I do know they are around.

It is getting to where it is just entertainment on the Forums for me.

But I am hopeful.
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May 17, 2009 11:22 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Now what was the question? confused
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May 17, 2009 11:30 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
HotrodLarrys: I Just woke up, read 3 threads as looking for one to respond to, and all 3 I looked at, and read, took me close to an hour...... and NONE Were worth my time or effort...... Do these people not realise that I would NEVER date them, But Think on this...... I wont forget who is who either.......One thread was a woman bashing a man..... another was a man Bashing a woman...... This I guess is how we tell who NOT TO DATE.......This is a Mess , a CHOCOLATE MESS, but not M&M's...... It is as sad as an adult with a Dirty Diaper...... Should we need to take dating Classes to be on CS?????Can we help those who have no self esteem..... How do we make CS Dating more enjoyable.....

next..... Do THEY HAVE THE PROBLEM? Or do I ... I feel like a mad Dad..... with out of control CHILDREN....... This is one reason I have hardly been on here......

Hotrod, PS Please be nice, or dont respond......
I will be nice to you. Just remember you get what you give.
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May 17, 2009 11:32 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
granted some get out of hand but it is open forum and just because two people disagree does not make them incompatible it does make for communication, that's like saying you are always right and your mate never is. you might be missing out but sorting out this way
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May 17, 2009 11:36 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
I definitely agree that too many names are called and some argue like little kids....

I am sorta guilty of that too.. I'll call someone a LIB. and I don't like Obama much, but not too much of the other names...I just try and call things the way I see em..cheers
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May 17, 2009 11:48 AM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I Just woke up, read 3 threads as looking for one to respond to, and all 3 I looked at, and read, took me close to an hour...... and NONE Were worth my time or effort...... Do these people not realise that I would NEVER date them, But Think on this...... I wont forget who is who either.......One thread was a woman bashing a man..... another was a man Bashing a woman...... This I guess is how we tell who NOT TO DATE.......This is a Mess , a CHOCOLATE MESS, but not M&M's...... It is as sad as an adult with a Dirty Diaper...... Should we need to take dating Classes to be on CS?????Can we help those who have no self esteem..... How do we make CS Dating more enjoyable.....

next..... Do THEY HAVE THE PROBLEM? Or do I ... I feel like a mad Dad..... with out of control CHILDREN....... This is one reason I have hardly been on here......

Hotrod, PS Please be nice, or dont respond......


kiss kiss Uh uh Hotroodyroo

you answered it yourself my dahlink ,

its your problem kiss kiss
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May 17, 2009 12:12 PM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I am NOT the one Judging just to make it clear..... I am the one observing...... The ones who are judging is those Bashing.....

Like if this was a degrading tournament..... Is this the Kind people you want to meet?You may say I am Judgig.... I am looking for one to Date...... I darn better be Ling.........

I am Screening Potential ones to be a part of my life..... That is not Judging, or bashing.... I am here to have fun, on an Honest note
And I will Stand tall


But you are judging, Larry, when you say you won't date some by the actions you have observed in the forums....
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May 17, 2009 12:15 PM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
SensualVixen: But you are judging, Larry, when you say you won't date some by the actions you have observed in the forums....



So someone who's been a complete jerk (and then some) in the forums - you would consider wanting to get to know him better?

Just looking to clarify here...
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May 17, 2009 12:21 PM CST Bashing, Bashing, Bashing
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
prairiewoman: So someone who's been a complete jerk (and then some) in the forums - you would consider wanting to get to know him better?

Just looking to clarify here...


Where did I say that????? Don't put words in my posts....
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