azdesperado72: For me its the lack of responses from people I have messaged. People just don't seem to even want to give someone a chance to get to know them, so why come back frequently,
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
And I also have to say, because its very clear to see once you've taken a step back from here for a while, that there are a number of members who seem to just want to post stupid, pointless comments, totally undirected to the tone of the thread and consequently completely disrupt its flow..
caspatch: does it seem the action on cs has slowed down??? is it due to new format or people just busy or are they just not here what are your thoughts
Yes, it does.
Because of the nice weather and a great out-doors time, mostly.
And partially because of the very unpleasant tendencies I've noticed lately - to label other CSers posts stupid, pointless, totally undirected to the tone of the thread, etc.
It's not just arrogant and ridicules, but plain stupid, IMO.
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
Laura25: Yes, it does.
Because of the nice weather and a great out-doors time, mostly.
And partially because of the very unpleasant tendencies I've noticed lately - to label other CSers posts stupid, pointless, totally undirected to the tone of the thread, etc.
It's not just arrogant and ridicules, but plain stupid, IMO.
I assume you are refering to my post, Laura..
Ok well, I will say this...
A post that has absolutely NO RELEVANCE WHATSOEVER to the thread topic, has a point? Because I cant see it.
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
Laura25: Yes, it does.
Because of the nice weather and a great out-doors time, mostly.
And partially because of the very unpleasant tendencies I've noticed lately - to label other CSers posts stupid, pointless, totally undirected to the tone of the thread, etc.
It's not just arrogant and ridicules, but plain stupid, IMO.
And, also I may add, what Ive seen over the past couple of months on here, has been absolutely disgusting. And, I would say, judging by the amount of people who have left, either to go to other sites or simply to take a breath, Im not the only one who feels that way!
petalbabe: And, also I may add, what Ive seen over the past couple of months on here, has been absolutely disgusting. And, I would say, judging by the amount of people who have left, either to go to other sites or simply to take a breath, Im not the only one who feels that way!
Well, I am not keeping track where did ppl go, I personally spend a lot of time in a RW vs spending it at CS.
But what makes you think other people think the same way you do?
If everybody would come here labeling other CSers posts stupid, it would be worse "hell" than it already is.
A little respect to other members goes a long way, IMO.
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
Laura25: Well, I am not keeping track where did ppl go, I personally spend a lot of time in a RW vs spending it at CS.
But what makes you think other people think the same way you do?
If everybody would come here labeling other CSers posts stupid, it would be worse "hell" than it already is.
A little respect to other members goes a long way, IMO.
I totally agree on the respect thing, Laura, completely. Thats exactly my point.
I consider hijacking someone's carefully thought out thread topic with something completely irrelevant to that same topic, to be disrespectful, but thats just my humble opinion.
And as regards me knowing what other people think, I know because they have told me.
petalbabe: I totally agree on the respect thing, Laura, completely. Thats exactly my point.
I consider hijacking someone's carefully thought out thread topic with something completely irrelevant to that same topic, to be disrespectful, but thats just my humble opinion.
And as regards me knowing what other people think, I know because they have told me.
Well, "they" told me an opposite opinion - the one I posted.
When/if it's off topic, mods carefully review it and remove offencive posts.
claudya: Well maybe they are boring by too much hate in threads ,the same subject in threads and too much scammers and liars here maybe they finally woke up at reality ,that internet is just an ilusion not a way to find u half.
wow i guess the 23 or so couples met and married on CS
and those are only the ones i know about so there must be more
we are all going to have to wake up from out delusion
who knows the way to find your mate?? best to stay open minded i suggest
staying on topic is no more a phenomenon now than ever was
been here since early 05....trust me on this
threads dont stay on topic
ever
any thread
ever
it happens... it is not controllable
in the summer it slows down -simple
kids are home from school etc etc
threads like this arent a help in my opinion
there have been over a dozen in the last few weeks suggesting we discuss-(which inevitably leads to blame/responsibility for changes at cs)
change is the only constant in the universe
talking about it, lamenting and dissecting the reasons makes the many lurkers (cs members that dont come in to forum but do watch it)prolly not any more interested in joining
I started working, and that has made my time on here very limited. Ugh...responsibilities. Reading textbooks and relaxing with the dogs in the evenings before bed and doing yard work on the weekends definitely makes my time on here limited. Last weekend was my last really long one on here unless it's rainy and my housework is all caught up. I hate having to be an adult again.
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Oh BOBANBOBAN, i dont hate you, i think that you are an incredibly fun guy,you're patter is fab..i dont hate anyone for the record..