Relationships..do you put the same energy in it now as before? ( Archived) (7)

May 25, 2009 6:51 PM CST Relationships..do you put the same energy in it now as before?
PeachesandRay
PeachesandRayPeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA72 Threads 1 Polls 1,358 Posts
Ever caught yourself becoming lazy about the things you used to do for that special someone in your life?confused

I know an "ole married CS couple" who has done thisdoh

Moi & Earlblues

So tell me what do you do to "spice things back up again"?

It should be interesting to see the different ways the guys and gals "rekindle the flamedevil

Please everyone share...we can all "try our your ideas"devil devil devil

Earl used to send me Video dedications regularly, virtual flowers everyday...yep, everyday...and beautiful Love Poems into my emails at least 3-6 times a weeksigh ..can't tell you when I last received any of the abovemumbling

I've slacked off on appreciating what he has doneyawn so I'm just as guilty...but he spoiled me firstwink

Can't wait to see your ideasbouquet

PeachesAndCreamteddybear

PS....A Video Dedication for Earl has already been posted...let's see what he thinks of it....It's a Love Songheart beating
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May 25, 2009 6:58 PM CST Relationships..do you put the same energy in it now as before?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
The fact that you've realized what has happened and are doing something to fix it before it goes too long is the best thing you can do about it. Kudos. This is what happens to make most marriages either fail or become less than what they once were.

Sorry, no further suggestions. My best one didn't last long enough to have this issue before he died. My longest one never had such things in it. The best advice I can give is to never take each other for granted again. Do what it takes to keep those fires burning. And HotRodLarry had an excellent thread about that which is full of really good suggestions. You might want to search for it, Peaches.

Good luck to you and Earl. I wish you many happy years. wine
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May 25, 2009 7:17 PM CST Relationships..do you put the same energy in it now as before?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
giiiiirl

we have had this argument already


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

better or worse right sweetie?

but you 2 are in my prayers and id appreciate the same

this is hard worklaugh
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May 25, 2009 7:29 PM CST Relationships..do you put the same energy in it now as before?
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
Well I am determined to expend as much energy as I can in my next relationship.professor
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May 25, 2009 7:47 PM CST Relationships..do you put the same energy in it now as before?
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
mindfful: smartypants(taking notes)


Do you need advice on leaf placement?
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May 25, 2009 7:54 PM CST Relationships..do you put the same energy in it now as before?
DonDon67
DonDon67DonDon67Columbus, Georgia USA19 Threads 2 Polls 692 Posts
if i was in a relationship,now i understands what it takes to make it work.but yes i put in the same now as ever,but not found a mate to give my all to,yet.peace
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Jun 4, 2009 9:56 AM CST Relationships..do you put the same energy in it now as before?
PeachesandRay
PeachesandRayPeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA72 Threads 1 Polls 1,358 Posts
Just a brief note, my thread was not understood in the way I had meant for it to be...but that's how it is somedaysdoh sigh conversing rolling on the floor laughing
Peacheswine
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