PeachesandRayOPConcord, North Carolina USA1,358 posts
Ever caught yourself becoming lazy about the things you used to do for that special someone in your life?
I know an "ole married CS couple" who has done this
Moi & Earl
So tell me what do you do to "spice things back up again"?
It should be interesting to see the different ways the guys and gals "rekindle the flame
Please everyone share...we can all "try our your ideas"
Earl used to send me Video dedications regularly, virtual flowers everyday...yep, everyday...and beautiful Love Poems into my emails at least 3-6 times a week ..can't tell you when I last received any of the above
I've slacked off on appreciating what he has done so I'm just as guilty...but he spoiled me first
Can't wait to see your ideas
PeachesAndCream
PS....A Video Dedication for Earl has already been posted...let's see what he thinks of it....It's a Love Song
The fact that you've realized what has happened and are doing something to fix it before it goes too long is the best thing you can do about it. Kudos. This is what happens to make most marriages either fail or become less than what they once were.
Sorry, no further suggestions. My best one didn't last long enough to have this issue before he died. My longest one never had such things in it. The best advice I can give is to never take each other for granted again. Do what it takes to keep those fires burning. And HotRodLarry had an excellent thread about that which is full of really good suggestions. You might want to search for it, Peaches.
Good luck to you and Earl. I wish you many happy years.
if i was in a relationship,now i understands what it takes to make it work.but yes i put in the same now as ever,but not found a mate to give my all to,yet.
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I know an "ole married CS couple" who has done this
Moi & Earl
So tell me what do you do to "spice things back up again"?
It should be interesting to see the different ways the guys and gals "rekindle the flame
Please everyone share...we can all "try our your ideas"
Earl used to send me Video dedications regularly, virtual flowers everyday...yep, everyday...and beautiful Love Poems into my emails at least 3-6 times a week ..can't tell you when I last received any of the above
I've slacked off on appreciating what he has done so I'm just as guilty...but he spoiled me first
Can't wait to see your ideas
PeachesAndCream
PS....A Video Dedication for Earl has already been posted...let's see what he thinks of it....It's a Love Song