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May 28, 2009 10:07 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
drivenbysound: I knew you weren't being mean.
i knew you knew
and i knew you knew i was rubbin your face in somethinrolling on the floor laughing


it is tooo quiet in here or i just cant get my stridedunno

callin it a night soon


cheers playasgrin
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May 28, 2009 10:08 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
pikengren: just kidding about the hippy thing.
i haven't had a cigarette for thirty eight hours now. this will be my 3,158th attempt.
someone mentioned snuff. kodiak is working for me. (sorry if i'm not qouting people directly) someone else said something about not beating yourself up. man are they right about that. your gut might tell you to admonish yourself. that just makes it worse.


Out of curiosity, how much does Kodiak cost down there ? Up here (Canada) it's $14.00 for a can of 34 grams.
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May 28, 2009 10:08 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"Welcome and have fun..". wave
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May 28, 2009 10:09 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
santarosaPaul
santarosaPaulsantarosaPaulSanta Rosa, CA, California USA173 Posts
Hi mindful... hope you're being a good girl. wink kiss
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May 28, 2009 10:11 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
gentleshepherd
gentleshepherdgentleshepherdSt. Johnsbury, Vermont USA1 Threads 15 Posts
I was married to a woman who hated my smoking. When we'd be out and I'd be smoking my pipe, she'd walk ten steps ahead of me. But then, she hated that I ate cookies, drank coffee and that I snored. I once read a story of a woman who also hated her husband's snoring. She said that she nagged him, and nagged him about it until she was blue in the face. He died and left her behind. She went on to say tearfully, that she would give anything to hear that snoring again. We can focus on the flaws of the ones we love until they loom up so big, that they hide the beautiful person that we fell in love with. No?
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May 28, 2009 10:13 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
santarosaPaul
santarosaPaulsantarosaPaulSanta Rosa, CA, California USA173 Posts
FreddyK1428: One New guy to another, welcome.

I know exactly what you mean about how hard it can be to quit smoking. I quit about 5 or 6 years ago cold turkey (NOT for the feint of heart) and stayed quit until the day last December 30th when my wife died and I started again.

I'm sure I'll quit again but right now I'm not even going to try. Regardless of what anyone will say, it calms the nerves and eases some of the stress.

And no, the glow of a lit cigarette isn't going to outshine Him.


Well, since you put it that way... I hear you. My mom is 64, and she's been smoking for a long time. She wants to quit, but I know she would be a nervous wreck... which is also bad for the heart. Sometimes we gotta do what we gotta do. Welcome Freddy, stay cool. cool
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May 28, 2009 10:14 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
gentleshepherd: I was married to a woman who hated my smoking. When we'd be out and I'd be smoking my pipe, she'd walk ten steps ahead of me. But then, she hated that I ate cookies, drank coffee and that I snored. I once read a story of a woman who also hated her husband's snoring. She said that she nagged him, and nagged him about it until she was blue in the face. He died and left her behind. She went on to say tearfully, that she would give anything to hear that snoring again. We can focus on the flaws of the ones we love until they loom up so big, that they hide the beautiful person that we fell in love with. No?


i was married to someone that could only focus on my negative aspects too. i kept telling her over and over that this was a problem, but she just wouldn't get it.
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May 28, 2009 10:16 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
gentleshepherd: I was married to a woman who hated my smoking. When we'd be out and I'd be smoking my pipe, she'd walk ten steps ahead of me. But then, she hated that I ate cookies, drank coffee and that I snored. I once read a story of a woman who also hated her husband's snoring. She said that she nagged him, and nagged him about it until she was blue in the face. He died and left her behind. She went on to say tearfully, that she would give anything to hear that snoring again. We can focus on the flaws of the ones we love until they loom up so big, that they hide the beautiful person that we fell in love with. No?


its not about focusing on a flaw

thats a weak statement

and there is nothing wrong in people having a preference and one that would preclude them falling in love with a smoker

im a hardass
if someone claims Him i want to see fruit
i want to see a man that can be the head because he knows how to rely on Him

that comes from just one lil ol gal

im nobody

but i can have a say and a direction to some degree and He expects me to as well

nothin wrong with thatdunno
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May 28, 2009 10:16 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
pikengren: i was married to someone that could only focus on my negative aspects too. i kept telling her over and over that this was a problem, but she just wouldn't get it.


We remain a work in progress for all of our lives. We just have to find someone who loves to tinker.
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May 28, 2009 10:16 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
gentlepaws: Out of curiosity, how much does Kodiak cost down there ? Up here (Canada) it's $14.00 for a can of 34 grams.

it's about $4.80, give or take. (need the little emoticon guy with the spitoon)
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May 28, 2009 10:17 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
mindfful: its not about focusing on a flaw

thats a weak statement

and there is nothing wrong in people having a preference and one that would preclude them falling in love with a smoker

im a hardass
if someone claims Him i want to see fruit
i want to see a man that can be the head because he knows how to rely on Him

that comes from just one lil ol gal

im nobody

but i can have a say and a direction to some degree and He expects me to as well

nothin wrong with that
and im just using smoking as an example in a much deeper conversation

if ya cant tellhug
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May 28, 2009 10:18 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
gentlepaws: We remain a work in progress for all of our lives. We just have to find someone who loves to tinker.


noooooooooo way do i want someone who will fix me

and i dont wanna fix anyone

snoring is something to accept-it isnt a choice

let god be the tinkerer i will work on my acceptance of what is


ohmmmmmmmmmmmmlaugh
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May 28, 2009 10:19 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
santarosaPaul: Hi mindful... hope you're being a good girl.


Never!


devil



It's just too natural for her to be bad.


laugh
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May 28, 2009 10:19 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
gentlepaws: We remain a work in progress for all of our lives. We just have to find someone who loves to tinker.


lol.there actually was some truth to my statement, but you gotta watch me. reread it
grin
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May 28, 2009 10:27 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
santarosaPaul: Hi mindful... hope you're being a good girl.



noooow paul

what fun is there in being gooooodrolling on the floor laughing
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May 28, 2009 10:28 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
drivenbysound: Never!
It's just too natural for her to be bad.


i go with my strengths

is that so wrong?dunno innocent
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May 28, 2009 10:32 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
santarosaPaul
santarosaPaulsantarosaPaulSanta Rosa, CA, California USA173 Posts
mindfful: i go with my strengths

is that so wrong?


That's perfect... just being yourself. boogie
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May 28, 2009 10:33 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
santarosaPaul: That's perfect... just being yourself.
gotta go cartwheel dance blah typing
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May 28, 2009 10:38 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
gentleshepherd
gentleshepherdgentleshepherdSt. Johnsbury, Vermont USA1 Threads 15 Posts
Well I thank you for raking me over th.... I mean ah... welcoming me to the si si site. I g g g guess I'll be going now. ah... I'll be ah I'll be sure to ah to ah come back soon. Night All, and you to mindful. blues
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May 28, 2009 10:45 PM CST Hey I'm a Newby
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
gentleshepherd: Well I thank you for raking me over th.... I mean ah... welcoming me to the si si site. I g g g guess I'll be going now. ah... I'll be ah I'll be sure to ah to ah come back soon. Night All, and you to mindful.
aww pooh

now i have to write him a letterhelp
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