I was wondering something ( Archived) (27)

Jul 11, 2006 12:37 PM CST I was wondering something
bryan1
bryan1bryan1oak hill, Ohio USA2 Threads 3 Posts
I do you get girls to send you back emails> I email alot of them saying something nice and get stood up. Which i think is rude any nice ladies on the site. Help a new guy out.confused
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Jul 11, 2006 12:41 PM CST I was wondering something
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
if Wavey sees this


anyways jsut forgety about it i know its rude but if they are rude here what do ya think they are like in real life
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Jul 11, 2006 12:42 PM CST I was wondering something
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
Hi, maybe just a flower and a short message to start with.
If you have no reply you have not wasted too much time.

You cannot force anyone to mail you back, it's life unfortunately.

Good luck, take your time.

peace devil
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Jul 11, 2006 12:43 PM CST I was wondering something
up4anything1111
up4anything1111up4anything11113 Threads 145 Posts
"If at first you don't succeed..." laugh

If you get about 1 out of 15, I'd consider myself lucky. rolling on the floor laughing

Seriously, though, post a copy and paste of what you send them so we can maybe see any inherent flaws. I got some advice on my profile recently and made changes (though it still hasn't changed the positive response percentage)! frustrated

We're here to help! hug
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Jul 11, 2006 12:45 PM CST I was wondering something
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Same numbers here. Paws
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Jul 11, 2006 12:48 PM CST I was wondering something
up4anything1111
up4anything1111up4anything11113 Threads 145 Posts
OMG! I was sooooo expecting to hear some "constructive" criticism from someone who "claims" they receive responses from 90% of their e-mails.

Thanks for the empathy and not bruising my ego! laugh
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Jul 11, 2006 12:50 PM CST I was wondering something
stillfitat40
stillfitat40stillfitat407 Threads 510 Posts
Damn Leo you're down to 90%


*runns out to return mail*

V.
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Jul 11, 2006 12:52 PM CST I was wondering something
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
From what I understand so far, the more attractive a woman is, the more mail she gets. I mean 100's of them. Often they just don't have the time to respond to all of them. Paws
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Jul 11, 2006 12:52 PM CST I was wondering something
irishlev
irishlevirishlevColorado Springs, Colorado USA9 Threads 131 Posts
Just keep on sending the gals messages man. Don't get discouraged. I hit the same numbers as the guys above me. My personal technique is to write something stupid down to make them laugh to break the ice. My advice would be to be yourself, it makes it easier when you find that special person.
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Jul 11, 2006 12:54 PM CST I was wondering something
I work on the basis that if they dont write back, then ...
1) its their loss
&
2) you are better off without them.
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Jul 11, 2006 12:55 PM CST I was wondering something
up4anything1111
up4anything1111up4anything11113 Threads 145 Posts
SONG:
"If you want to live happy for the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman you wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you..."

Is that the gist of it, then??? rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 11, 2006 12:55 PM CST I was wondering something
oh ... and get a picture!
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Jul 11, 2006 12:56 PM CST I was wondering something
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Bryan I just checked on your profile ....... not sure if it will increase your response rate but truthfully you have said very little about yourself and the type of woman that you are attracted to. If you are struggling with this - ask some friends how they would describe you and then fill in the details. As well posting a picture of yourself is a great idea and grammar and spelling count. Read over what you've written as well and correct your errors. You only have a chance to make a first impression once - so make it the best that you can.

As for the emails and response rate - sorry to say that this seems a common complaint .... but always remember you are seeking one special woman - not thousands. Good luck.
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Jul 11, 2006 12:57 PM CST I was wondering something
up4anything1111
up4anything1111up4anything11113 Threads 145 Posts
Heck, I e-mail women with the "anonymous" pictures (no photos) and get few responses, so I guess it's pretty universal! roll eyes wink
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Jul 11, 2006 1:01 PM CST I was wondering something
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
Please post a picture.

These black and white drawings are getting old.


Thanks.
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Jul 11, 2006 1:01 PM CST I was wondering something
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
For so many out there with poorly written profiles. Spelling errors, bad grammar. I will not read beyond the 2nd spelling error. As Langley said, "You only have a chance to make a first impression once - so make it the best that you can".
Paws
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Jul 11, 2006 3:02 PM CST I was wondering something
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
Hey Hey no gloom, just positive energy here.comfort

I'll tell you like someone nice told me.
"Just keep trying" it will happen.

Got to do the work if you want the prize. lol

grin
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Jul 11, 2006 3:21 PM CST I was wondering something
Illuminate
IlluminateIlluminateKathleen, Georgia USA21 Threads 1,878 Posts
Sounds like somebody needs to buy you an ice creamblues moping blues hug
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Jul 12, 2006 2:00 AM CST I was wondering something
bryany boy.......so they dont reply.....crying crying

why should they ....your profile has no pic and no information ......its a dead zone....nothing in it.....and you think girls should love it.....

just one question....are you a fake.....if not.....make a profile.....that atleast shows....you are trying to attract a woman....

no need to thank me.....you could be a fake.....yay
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Jul 12, 2006 4:38 AM CST I was wondering something
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
A picture.

I hardly ever write back to a guy without a picture sleep

And your profile is trite...cuddling on the couch, walks...you forgot to mention walks on the beach. Same as a million other guys.

Make yourself sound different than every other guy and show your face.

Then you will have reason to complain that women are not writing back grin
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