I do you get girls to send you back emails> I email alot of them saying something nice and get stood up. Which i think is rude any nice ladies on the site. Help a new guy out.
If you get about 1 out of 15, I'd consider myself lucky.
Seriously, though, post a copy and paste of what you send them so we can maybe see any inherent flaws. I got some advice on my profile recently and made changes (though it still hasn't changed the positive response percentage)!
From what I understand so far, the more attractive a woman is, the more mail she gets. I mean 100's of them. Often they just don't have the time to respond to all of them. Paws
Just keep on sending the gals messages man. Don't get discouraged. I hit the same numbers as the guys above me. My personal technique is to write something stupid down to make them laugh to break the ice. My advice would be to be yourself, it makes it easier when you find that special person.
SONG: "If you want to live happy for the rest of your life, Never make a pretty woman you wife, So from my personal point of view, Get an ugly girl to marry you..."
Bryan I just checked on your profile ....... not sure if it will increase your response rate but truthfully you have said very little about yourself and the type of woman that you are attracted to. If you are struggling with this - ask some friends how they would describe you and then fill in the details. As well posting a picture of yourself is a great idea and grammar and spelling count. Read over what you've written as well and correct your errors. You only have a chance to make a first impression once - so make it the best that you can.
As for the emails and response rate - sorry to say that this seems a common complaint .... but always remember you are seeking one special woman - not thousands. Good luck.
For so many out there with poorly written profiles. Spelling errors, bad grammar. I will not read beyond the 2nd spelling error. As Langley said, "You only have a chance to make a first impression once - so make it the best that you can". Paws
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