Should I tell her he contacts other women? ( Archived) (98)

Jun 19, 2009 12:39 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
gemma74
gemma74gemma74valencia, Valencia Spain1 Threads 1 Posts
A friend of a friend put me in touch here because she had met someone here. They have been dating for 3 months now and she has fallen for this bloke in a big way. He flowered me a few times last month and yesterday he sent me a message. I haven't replied because I know that this is the bloke she is seeing. I dont know what to do, she is such a nice person and I don't know if I should tell her or not, we keep in touch and she tells me how much she loves this bloke and i feel terrible knowing he has contacted me. Should I tell her? Please help
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Jun 19, 2009 12:44 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
chococherrie78
chococherrie78chococherrie78samarinda, East Kalimantan Indonesia37 Threads 4 Polls 542 Posts
gemma74: A friend of a friend put me in touch here because she had met someone here. They have been dating for 3 months now and she has fallen for this bloke in a big way. He flowered me a few times last month and yesterday he sent me a message. I haven't replied because I know that this is the bloke she is seeing. I dont know what to do, she is such a nice person and I don't know if I should tell her or not, we keep in touch and she tells me how much she loves this bloke and i feel terrible knowing he has contacted me. Should I tell her? Please help

tell her please!
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Jun 19, 2009 12:45 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
truththumbs up
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Jun 19, 2009 12:49 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
gemma74: A friend of a friend put me in touch here because she had met someone here. They have been dating for 3 months now and she has fallen for this bloke in a big way. He flowered me a few times last month and yesterday he sent me a message. I haven't replied because I know that this is the bloke she is seeing. I dont know what to do, she is such a nice person and I don't know if I should tell her or not, we keep in touch and she tells me how much she loves this bloke and i feel terrible knowing he has contacted me. Should I tell her? Please help


How long are you on this site????

This is your first post...!!!

Do you think he sends flower and messeges to every women on this side ,or he knows you personaly
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Jun 19, 2009 12:50 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
gemma74: A friend of a friend put me in touch here because she had met someone here. They have been dating for 3 months now and she has fallen for this bloke in a big way. He flowered me a few times last month and yesterday he sent me a message. I haven't replied because I know that this is the bloke she is seeing. I dont know what to do, she is such a nice person and I don't know if I should tell her or not, we keep in touch and she tells me how much she loves this bloke and i feel terrible knowing he has contacted me. Should I tell her? Please help


Dear Abby.What should i do?
Ask her if they are exclusive.wave

Or simply.Do not answer the email.conversing
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Jun 19, 2009 12:52 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
gemma74: A friend of a friend put me in touch here because she had met someone here. They have been dating for 3 months now and she has fallen for this bloke in a big way. He flowered me a few times last month and yesterday he sent me a message. I haven't replied because I know that this is the bloke she is seeing. I dont know what to do, she is such a nice person and I don't know if I should tell her or not, we keep in touch and she tells me how much she loves this bloke and i feel terrible knowing he has contacted me. Should I tell her? Please help



Just continue in not opening his mail.
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Jun 19, 2009 12:52 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
BOBANBOBAN: How long are you on this site????

This is your first post...!!!

Do you think he sends flower and messeges to every women on this side ,or he knows you personaly
rolling on the floor laughing

Aaaaahh.
The devils advocate has arrived.
Perhaps he is testing their "friendship">?
Ya think?wow

wave
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Jun 19, 2009 12:54 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
CaySea
CaySeaCaySeaFollow the yellow brick road, Western Australia Australia15 Threads 923 Posts
Tell her and let her decide what she wants to do about it.
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Jun 19, 2009 12:55 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
i think something is rotten in denmarkscold
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Jun 19, 2009 12:55 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
friendsfirst: Aaaaahh.
The devils advocate has arrived.
Perhaps he is testing their "friendship">?
Ya think?
....handshake

(AND I NEVER DID SEND HER A MESSEG)grin
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Jun 19, 2009 1:00 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
gemma74: A friend of a friend put me in touch here because she had met someone here. They have been dating for 3 months now and she has fallen for this bloke in a big way. He flowered me a few times last month and yesterday he sent me a message. I haven't replied because I know that this is the bloke she is seeing. I dont know what to do, she is such a nice person and I don't know if I should tell her or not, we keep in touch and she tells me how much she loves this bloke and i feel terrible knowing he has contacted me. Should I tell her? Please help



Also if she sees this thread and reads your comments you won't have to tell her.
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Jun 19, 2009 1:05 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
somechick: Also if she sees this thread and reads your comments you won't have to tell her.


Yeah, really laugh

Maybe ya should post his mails to her inbox and be done with it.

Ya gotta do something!
Don't leave her in her naivete, she'll hate you for it.
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Jun 19, 2009 1:15 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
Grandepensees: Yeah, really

Maybe ya should post his mails to her inbox and be done with it.

Ya gotta do something!
Don't leave her in her naivete, she'll hate you for it.



laugh I couldn't help but point out the obvious.

Like you say post his mails to her in that other ladies mailbox.
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Jun 19, 2009 1:17 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
somechick: I couldn't help but point out the obvious.

Like you say post his mails to her in that other ladies mailbox.


I agree, it's very obvious. Some people still think that the net is private! Can you believe that?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 19, 2009 1:18 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
somechick: I couldn't help but point out the obvious.

Like you say post his mails to her in that other ladies mailbox.


What if it's the same woman and she's testing HIM?wow laugh
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Jun 19, 2009 1:23 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
friendsfirst: What if it's the same woman and she's testing HIM?


...and she's asking US whether she should tell herself that her own man is contacting other chicks online but they are herself...confused I'm leaving this theory alone...for now.dunno
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Jun 19, 2009 1:23 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
Grandepensees: I agree, it's very obvious. Some people still think that the net is private! Can you believe that?


I know it's so shameful.What would one do without all this important info.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 19, 2009 1:24 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
friendsfirst: What if it's the same woman and she's testing HIM?
confused she's testing him by recieving his email....somehow i think he would already have failed the test...professor dunno laugh
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Jun 19, 2009 1:24 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
friendsfirst: What if it's the same woman and she's testing HIM?


That's a very good point and plays a dual role.Oh for shame for shame.rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 19, 2009 1:26 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
somechick: I know it's so shameful.What would one do without all this important info.


To think that relationships are made and broken on the net day in and day out! Even Trump's got the goosebumps devil
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