What you should do is make it clear to him that you are not interested and that you are aware he is dating a person, of course that is if he is coming onto you.
He might just be being nice, a gentleman and sending you a flower.
I met my man from here and he is chatty, a gentleman with female members.
So don't rush into telling her anything, see what he has to say, if he is being suggestive, then tell him not to be.
I agree with sommerauer71, if you haven't opened the e-mail, he may just be asking you how you like the site as he suggested it to you, see what he has to say then take it from there.
What you should do is make it clear to him that you are not interested and that you are aware he is dating a person, of course that is if he is coming onto you.
He might just be being nice, a gentleman and sending you a flower.
I met my man from here and he is chatty, a gentleman with female members.
So don't rush into telling her anything, see what he has to say, if he is being suggestive, then tell him not to be.
That would be what I would do.
Totally agree. Will she thank you for telling her? Not sure that I would,
costagirl: Totally agree. Will she thank you for telling her? Not sure that I would,
A man who is dating someone would tell her he is talking to others as friends and remove all doubts before they occured through misunderstanding. I always have. If a man keeps it from the one he is dating......why?
RillyNiceGuy: A man who is dating someone would tell her he is talking to others as friends and remove all doubts before they occured through misunderstanding. I always have. If a man keeps it from the one he is dating......why?
Hey you.
He would? My man. I am sure does not tell me everytime he speaks, communicates with another woman. I would find the information tedious listening to that all the time.
He may say 'guess what so and so said today' and I will listen, but I don't think
'I wonder what is going on there'
We are in danger of paranoia on this.
Why not give the man a chance to explain his actions, rather than hang, draw and quarter him?
gemma74: A friend of a friend put me in touch here because she had met someone here. They have been dating for 3 months now and she has fallen for this bloke in a big way. He flowered me a few times last month and yesterday he sent me a message. I haven't replied because I know that this is the bloke she is seeing. I dont know what to do, she is such a nice person and I don't know if I should tell her or not, we keep in touch and she tells me how much she loves this bloke and i feel terrible knowing he has contacted me. Should I tell her? Please help
Yes I had a similar experience. Thelady who this guy had been seeing contacted me and told me. It saves me some some pains. I am glad she did. iT SAVED me from am emotional disaster, .
I guess, its best to let her know the truth so she has the chance still to decide whether she will still trust this guy or just move on....Trust is very important in any relationship...Once it is broken, it is hard to gai it back....Please tell her while she still has the chance to know the truth...Who knows, not only her and not only you have been contacted by this guy....but alot of ladies....thats sad and painful.... ... ...
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