Should I tell her he contacts other women? ( Archived) (98)

Jun 19, 2009 1:26 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Yeah...bust his balls , then come back and tell us the dirt...we love gossip here..cool doh
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Jun 19, 2009 1:31 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
for shame for shame, sounds like Gomer pyle talking to Sargent Carterrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing



That was funnylaugh tongue





Would you want her to tell you?????



Maybe he just wants to as you an innocent question, and maybe she allready know????

Just a thought???confused dunno dunno uh oh uh oh
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Jun 19, 2009 1:32 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
Grandepensees: To think that relationships are made and broken on the net day in and day out! Even Trump's got the goosebumps
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This story needs a little help or it'll NEVER make it to prime time.roll eyes laugh
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Jun 19, 2009 1:36 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
Grandepensees: To think that relationships are made and broken on the net day in and day out! Even Trump's got the goosebumps


Maybe she should just come out and tell this guy like Trump says on his show "You're Fired."rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 19, 2009 1:38 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
somechick: Maybe she should just come out and tell this guy like Trump says on his show "You're Fired."


And she might watch the temper or it'll be literal! devil
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Jun 19, 2009 1:39 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
friendsfirst: This story needs a little help or it'll NEVER make it to prime time.


Prime time is now, here on CS yay
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Jun 19, 2009 1:40 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
raphael118
raphael118raphael118arlington, Virginia USA8 Threads 2 Polls 1,074 Posts
Is she hot? How about you? Do u like Vodka? Send pictures collect!
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Jun 19, 2009 1:57 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Okay.

No, you should stay out of it.

What you should do is make it clear to him that you are not interested and that you are aware he is dating a person, of course that is if he is coming onto you.

He might just be being nice, a gentleman and sending you a flower.

I met my man from here and he is chatty, a gentleman with female members.

So don't rush into telling her anything, see what he has to say, if he is being suggestive, then tell him not to be.

That would be what I would do.
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Jun 19, 2009 2:04 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
ladyluck45
ladyluck45ladyluck45broons, Bretagne France1 Threads 19 Posts
I agree with sommerauer71, if you haven't opened the e-mail, he may just be asking you how you like the site as he suggested it to you, dunno see what he has to say then take it from there.
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Jun 19, 2009 2:06 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
costagirl
costagirlcostagirlCosta Calida, Murcia Spain6 Threads 688 Posts
Sommerauer71: Okay.

No, you should stay out of it.

What you should do is make it clear to him that you are not interested and that you are aware he is dating a person, of course that is if he is coming onto you.

He might just be being nice, a gentleman and sending you a flower.

I met my man from here and he is chatty, a gentleman with female members.

So don't rush into telling her anything, see what he has to say, if he is being suggestive, then tell him not to be.

That would be what I would do.



Totally agree. Will she thank you for telling her? Not sure that I would,

bouquet
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Jun 19, 2009 2:10 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Let her know! It is better to be hurt now than destroyed later. Better to be a partial fool the a complete fool. Let her know!
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Jun 19, 2009 2:13 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: Let her know! It is better to be hurt now than destroyed later. Better to be a partial fool the a complete fool. Let her know!
dunno well i don't know...being a complete fool aint all that bad...professor rolling on the floor laughing hole
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Jun 19, 2009 2:16 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
costagirl: Totally agree. Will she thank you for telling her? Not sure that I would,


A man who is dating someone would tell her he is talking to others as friends and remove all doubts before they occured through misunderstanding. I always have.
If a man keeps it from the one he is dating......why?
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Jun 19, 2009 2:16 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
handshake we dood it so well too!



jlw45: well i don't know...being a complete fool aint all that bad...
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Jun 19, 2009 2:21 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: A man who is dating someone would tell her he is talking to others as friends and remove all doubts before they occured through misunderstanding. I always have.
If a man keeps it from the one he is dating......why?


Hey you.

He would? My man. I am sure does not tell me everytime he speaks, communicates with another woman. I would find the information tedious listening to that all the time.

He may say 'guess what so and so said today' and I will listen, but I don't think

'I wonder what is going on there'

We are in danger of paranoia on this.

Why not give the man a chance to explain his actions, rather than hang, draw and quarter him?
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Jun 19, 2009 2:25 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Nasty situation because obviously you have loyalty towards your friend.

But the for time being i don't think you should say anything, chances are she won't thank you and you could loose a friend.

Realistically how serious is it with this guy, have they met? or planning to do so? Or is it purely an internet relationship?
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Jun 19, 2009 2:26 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
raphael118
raphael118raphael118arlington, Virginia USA8 Threads 2 Polls 1,074 Posts
He may be hoping Sommer is going to give him her special lessons too.rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 19, 2009 2:30 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
goergie
goergiegoergieyazoo city, Mississippi USA1 Threads 6 Posts
gemma74: A friend of a friend put me in touch here because she had met someone here. They have been dating for 3 months now and she has fallen for this bloke in a big way. He flowered me a few times last month and yesterday he sent me a message. I haven't replied because I know that this is the bloke she is seeing. I dont know what to do, she is such a nice person and I don't know if I should tell her or not, we keep in touch and she tells me how much she loves this bloke and i feel terrible knowing he has contacted me. Should I tell her? Please help
Yes I had a similar experience. Thelady who this guy had been seeing contacted me and told me. It saves me some some pains. I am glad she did. iT SAVED me from am emotional disaster, .
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Jun 19, 2009 2:32 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
lovingheart2
lovingheart2lovingheart2Madrid, Madrid, Madrid Spain12 Threads 492 Posts
I guess, its best to let her know the truth so she has the chance still to decide whether she will still trust this guy or just move on....Trust is very important in any relationship...Once it is broken, it is hard to gai it back....Please tell her while she still has the chance to know the truth...Who knows, not only her and not only you have been contacted by this guy....but alot of ladies....thats sad and painful....crying ...blues ...
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Jun 19, 2009 2:37 AM CST Should I tell her he contacts other women?
raphael118
raphael118raphael118arlington, Virginia USA8 Threads 2 Polls 1,074 Posts
I dont think most guys and girls are like that- but Ive seen some secretly cheating husbands that would shock you.
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