So I've noticed something about this site... (124)
Lets get marrid......
how`s that???.......
how`s that???.......
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BOBANBOBAN: Lets get marrid......
how`s that???.......
how`s that???.......
Haha!!
Let's go!! ;)
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Im here until I get out of jail......and for the free chips and dip!!
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Are you My Type, as i can hold somewhat of a conversation, Tho I dont know if it woulsd be intelegent or just smart. After all I an a Man u know
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DaisyChick: I find it weird that when you find a "connection" with someone that most men on this site get freaked out. I wonder what the real purpose behind these profiles really are. I've been around this site (and forums) for over a year and without fail every single time I talk with someone that is capable of a decent conversation they get freaked out if they "feel" anything more than just a friendship. Why are people really here? I truly believe that it doesn't have anything to do with the person on the receiving end (IN MY CASE... unless I am just in some weird little sheltered world). I'm starting to believe that guys seek out "GOOD" girls and then once they get them they run.
My question is why??
For over a year I have had my profile saying that I am strictly here for forums and friends. That has changed within the last month, I'm tired of focusing only on school. I thought I was ready for something more... until I've had a few experiences of men not being able to handle a decent "intelligent" conversation. It's like everything goes great until they realize how compatible we could actually be and that I am not willing to "play games." I consider myself to be on the high end of "good girls." I am working hard in school (as many of you may know). Is it possible that men aren't willing to share my time? (I have to put schoolwork and studying first. At 32 years old it's time to build a future and career for myself regardless of any relationship). This does not mean that I am not willing to share this life with someone else. This just means that I must find someone that understands that I need more than someone to love. I must love myself too! (And be happy with the choices I make in life.)
Any thoughts on this? Could it intimidate people?
My question is why??
For over a year I have had my profile saying that I am strictly here for forums and friends. That has changed within the last month, I'm tired of focusing only on school. I thought I was ready for something more... until I've had a few experiences of men not being able to handle a decent "intelligent" conversation. It's like everything goes great until they realize how compatible we could actually be and that I am not willing to "play games." I consider myself to be on the high end of "good girls." I am working hard in school (as many of you may know). Is it possible that men aren't willing to share my time? (I have to put schoolwork and studying first. At 32 years old it's time to build a future and career for myself regardless of any relationship). This does not mean that I am not willing to share this life with someone else. This just means that I must find someone that understands that I need more than someone to love. I must love myself too! (And be happy with the choices I make in life.)
Any thoughts on this? Could it intimidate people?
Some of us are just bored... and we need just to kill some time
some of us are surching for the ultimat soulmate...but has nothing to offer in return
som of us are just players
some of us are scammers in a deepr mining
some of us dont speak English
and some of us are serios abo9ut a relacionship, but verry carfuly
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Hey!!.. 10'y alone... the same here.... I try.. I do my best.. but this can't help me.... my profile say only what I want.... if somebody are interesting... they know where is my office.... for any complain.... 
Who next....??...
Who next....??...
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LethalLove: What day????? Officially I can give it another go tomorrow...
July 13......hollllllllllly crap!!! This has been the longest!!! Ive kinda stayed away from it too mostly..........the bs is PIZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZING ME OFF!!!
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Honestly, I guess it doesn't really matter as much why one is "here" but that they are upfront about why and they know what it is they want to get out of this experience.
I've never been one to judge or discard because someone didn't seek the same outcome as me. I just like to understand intentions.
I appreciate your replies!!
I've never been one to judge or discard because someone didn't seek the same outcome as me. I just like to understand intentions.
I appreciate your replies!!
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BOBANBOBAN: Some of us are just bored... and we need just to kill some time
some of us are surching for the ultimat soulmate...but has nothing to offer in return
som of us are just players
some of us are scammers in a deepr mining
some of us dont speak English
and some of us are serios abo9ut a relacionship, but verry carfuly
some of us are surching for the ultimat soulmate...but has nothing to offer in return
som of us are just players
some of us are scammers in a deepr mining
some of us dont speak English
and some of us are serios abo9ut a relacionship, but verry carfuly
i think bobanboban has covered the whole gambit there lol
if the men up and run at least you know they are not for you
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pebblesbamban: Hey!!.. 10'y alone... the same here.... I try.. I do my best.. but this can't help me.... my profile say only what I want.... if somebody are interesting... they know where is my office.... for any complain....
Who next....??...
Who next....??...
All you can do is be you and try your best.
It's up to the good ones in the world to appreciate it!
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DaisyChick, I have been wondering the exact same thing.... (wow!) And I can sign under every point you made in your post. 
It will be interesting to hear some of the more serious replies (as this is a topical issue for me and apparently someone else too!).
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DaisyChick: All you can do is be you and try your best.
It's up to the good ones in the world to appreciate it!
It's up to the good ones in the world to appreciate it!
have fun girl...
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AudrysSis: DaisyChick, I have been wondering the exact same thing.... (wow!) And I can sign under every point you made in your post. It will be interesting to hear some of the more serious replies (as this is a topical issue for me and apparently someone else too!).
Good to see you AudrysSis. It's been a while.I felt silly for the "rant" tonight and it's really nice --and not so nice :( --to hear someone understands how I feel.
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BOBANBOBAN: Some of us are just bored... and we need just to kill some time
"Do not squander time for that is the stuff life is made of."
As for being "very careful", there is "careful" and then there is "passive". No one is dragging them down the isle yet, but at some point it would make sense to take the "relationship" out of the computer into the real life, no?
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AudrysSis: "Do not squander time for that is the stuff life is made of."
As for being "very careful", there is "careful" and then there is "passive". No one is dragging them down the isle yet, but at some point it would make sense to take the "relationship" out of the computer into the real life, no?
As for being "very careful", there is "careful" and then there is "passive". No one is dragging them down the isle yet, but at some point it would make sense to take the "relationship" out of the computer into the real life, no?
Excelent point...
and you have noticed that most of us (people on this site) are talking about beeing hurt in the past
so we are scared of "the real life"
pozdrav za tebe...
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Roxaan: Just Chill out Honey and be youself.......we are all in the same boat here.....Stay Positive and just have some fun......
Thank you Roxaan
For the most part I am... Then I have these nights where I just try to figure out the world
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My question is why??
For over a year I have had my profile saying that I am strictly here for forums and friends. That has changed within the last month, I'm tired of focusing only on school. I thought I was ready for something more... until I've had a few experiences of men not being able to handle a decent "intelligent" conversation. It's like everything goes great until they realize how compatible we could actually be and that I am not willing to "play games." I consider myself to be on the high end of "good girls." I am working hard in school (as many of you may know). Is it possible that men aren't willing to share my time? (I have to put schoolwork and studying first. At 32 years old it's time to build a future and career for myself regardless of any relationship). This does not mean that I am not willing to share this life with someone else. This just means that I must find someone that understands that I need more than someone to love. I must love myself too! (And be happy with the choices I make in life.)
Any thoughts on this? Could it intimidate people?