So I've noticed something about this site... (124)
YOUR COMMENTS ARE VERY INTERESTING! I HAVE HAD A DIFFERENT EXPERIENCE,THERE ARE LOTS OF FAKE PICTURES OF BEAUTIFUL WOMAN THAT I SOON REALIZED WERE NOT REAL BUT NIGERIANS SCAMMERS!~ I JUST LAUGH NOW
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Sommerauer71: Morning, light of yet to find husband's life.
He does need an x ray! That sounds dangerous and not right.
He does need an x ray! That sounds dangerous and not right.
Maybe he don't want to do this.. because he's afraid to find the nut...
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Sommerauer71: He does need an x ray! That sounds dangerous and not right.
Perhaps some surgical intervention might be needed... 
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DaisyChick: I find it weird that when you find a "connection" with someone that most men on this site get freaked out. I wonder what the real purpose behind these profiles really are. I've been around this site (and forums) for over a year and without fail every single time I talk with someone that is capable of a decent conversation they get freaked out if they "feel" anything more than just a friendship. Why are people really here? I truly believe that it doesn't have anything to do with the person on the receiving end (IN MY CASE... unless I am just in some weird little sheltered world). I'm starting to believe that guys seek out "GOOD" girls and then once they get them they run.
My question is why??
For over a year I have had my profile saying that I am strictly here for forums and friends. That has changed within the last month, I'm tired of focusing only on school. I thought I was ready for something more... until I've had a few experiences of men not being able to handle a decent "intelligent" conversation. It's like everything goes great until they realize how compatible we could actually be and that I am not willing to "play games." I consider myself to be on the high end of "good girls." I am working hard in school (as many of you may know). Is it possible that men aren't willing to share my time? (I have to put schoolwork and studying first. At 32 years old it's time to build a future and career for myself regardless of any relationship). This does not mean that I am not willing to share this life with someone else. This just means that I must find someone that understands that I need more than someone to love. I must love myself too! (And be happy with the choices I make in life.)
Any thoughts on this? Could it intimidate people?
My question is why??
For over a year I have had my profile saying that I am strictly here for forums and friends. That has changed within the last month, I'm tired of focusing only on school. I thought I was ready for something more... until I've had a few experiences of men not being able to handle a decent "intelligent" conversation. It's like everything goes great until they realize how compatible we could actually be and that I am not willing to "play games." I consider myself to be on the high end of "good girls." I am working hard in school (as many of you may know). Is it possible that men aren't willing to share my time? (I have to put schoolwork and studying first. At 32 years old it's time to build a future and career for myself regardless of any relationship). This does not mean that I am not willing to share this life with someone else. This just means that I must find someone that understands that I need more than someone to love. I must love myself too! (And be happy with the choices I make in life.)
Any thoughts on this? Could it intimidate people?
Now that is one piece of intelligent writing Miss....I whole heartedly agree with you there....and the way I see it is someone is not willing to share the life I lead and become a part of it....I wont be changing for anyone...I know what you are saying and there comes a time in a Lady's life where she has to start looking out for herself.....
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stefonline: Now that is one piece of intelligent writing Miss....I whole heartedly agree with you there....and the way I see it is someone is not willing to share the life I lead and become a part of it....I wont be changing for anyone...I know what you are saying and there comes a time in a Lady's life where she has to start looking out for herself.....
Hi Stef... If I may, the highlighted statement, what about you fitting into his life too?
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DaisyChick: And no one ever should "give up" but we should know what it really is we are fighting for AND competing against
Ahh someday we should all be as lucky to understand these things!!
Ahh someday we should all be as lucky to understand these things!!
I myself for one am not competing this is not a competition.....there is someone for everyone and what is one persons cup of tea may not be anothers...
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Sommerauer71: Hi Stef...
If I may, the highlighted statement, what about you fitting into his life too?
If I may, the highlighted statement, what about you fitting into his life too?
Exactly...I would like to think that, that street is a two way street, not a one way street 
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stefonline: I myself for one am not competing this is not a competition.....there is someone for everyone and what is one persons cup of tea may not be anothers...
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Sommerauer71: Hi Stef...
If I may, the highlighted statement, what about you fitting into his life too?
If I may, the highlighted statement, what about you fitting into his life too?
Hi Somme....
Over the years and after one marriage and one very very long relationship and basically fitting mylife into theirs and making huge sacrifices of my own personal growth....It is time for me to say if they want me bad enough then they can some how find a way to fit into my life and if not then keep on moving....I'm sorry but I dont need love that badly to make any more sarcrifices......
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jessejess47: Exactly...I would like to think that, that street is a two way street, not a one way street
Ok guys Facts.....
You live here and he lives there...a couple of thousand miles in the difference....in order to be together full time one has to make a choice....one has to give up where they live..etc...etc...etc....who is that going to be....that is the reality...
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Audry does surgical stuff on guys for free.
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stefonline: Hi Somme....
Over the years and after one marriage and one very very long relationship and basically fitting mylife into theirs and making huge sacrifices of my own personal growth....It is time for me to say if they want me bad enough then they can some how find a way to fit into my life and if not then keep on moving....I'm sorry but I dont need love that badly to make any more sarcrifices......
Hello Stef, I see what you are saying. Over the years and after one marriage and one very very long relationship and basically fitting mylife into theirs and making huge sacrifices of my own personal growth....It is time for me to say if they want me bad enough then they can some how find a way to fit into my life and if not then keep on moving....I'm sorry but I dont need love that badly to make any more sarcrifices......
When I moved to Austria, I vowed I would not be in a relationship where the man did not come home at 6pm every night.
I limited myself very badly in that. I was never going to find a person who would just slot into my life and live my life concurrently alongside his slotting in.
Somebody who was desperate for love, may find that an easy way to get into your life though...
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jessejess47: Exactly...I would like to think that, that street is a two way street, not a one way street
If it only was a 2 way Street....I find that we are on a 4 lane highway at times.....
The slow lanes and the fast Lanes....either way...You´ll always get to your destination ....I guess..
JMO....Have a grate weekend.......
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AudrysSis: Perhaps some surgical intervention might be needed...
as above
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Roxaan: If it only was a 2 way Street....I find that we are on a 4 lane highway at times..... The slow lanes and the fast Lanes....either way...You´ll always get to your destination ....I guess..
JMO....Have a grate weekend.......
Great post, the 4 line highway...JMO....Have a grate weekend.......
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stefonline: Ok guys Facts.....
You live here and he lives there...a couple of thousand miles in the difference....in order to be together full time one has to make a choice....one has to give up where they live..etc...etc...etc....who is that going to be....that is the reality...
well this is true , but I would think it would be a decision that you would make together , personally I would love to move overseas but the question would be of course is could I find work there. Not sure what you do for a living ,but there is work here in the states for anyone who wishes to work. I think the appeal of universal health care that many have in other countries is wonderful and as we age I would love to have that to fall back on. But untill that time I was to meet someone I will stay here where I can make a rather good living. And hope that someone would want to join me untill such a time as WE wish to move somewhere else You live here and he lives there...a couple of thousand miles in the difference....in order to be together full time one has to make a choice....one has to give up where they live..etc...etc...etc....who is that going to be....that is the reality...
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Sommerauer71: Hello Stef, I see what you are saying.
When I moved to Austria, I vowed I would not be in a relationship where the man did not come home at 6pm every night.
I limited myself very badly in that. I was never going to find a person who would just slot into my life and live my life concurrently alongside his slotting in.
Somebody who was desperate for love, may find that an easy way to get into your life though...
When I moved to Austria, I vowed I would not be in a relationship where the man did not come home at 6pm every night.
I limited myself very badly in that. I was never going to find a person who would just slot into my life and live my life concurrently alongside his slotting in.
Somebody who was desperate for love, may find that an easy way to get into your life though...
If someone is desperate Somme....I am going to see that a mile off....I dont need any desperates around me either....I have had one of them before and boy was I glad I walked away.....I am not a desperate person so I could not have a desperate one around me....
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He does need an x ray! That sounds dangerous and not right.