So I've noticed something about this site... (124)
stefonline: Ok guys Facts.....
You live here and he lives there...a couple of thousand miles in the difference....in order to be together full time one has to make a choice....one has to give up where they live..etc...etc...etc....who is that going to be....that is the reality...
This is true too. There will come a time when I have to make a decision about where I go with my relationship. In who moves where...You live here and he lives there...a couple of thousand miles in the difference....in order to be together full time one has to make a choice....one has to give up where they live..etc...etc...etc....who is that going to be....that is the reality...
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jessejess47: well this is true , but I would think it would be a decision that you would make together , personally I would love to move overseas but the question would be of course is could I find work there. Not sure what you do for a living ,but there is work here in the states for anyone who wishes to work. I think the appeal of universal health care that many have in other countries is wonderful and as we age I would love to have that to fall back on. But untill that time I was to meet someone I will stay here where I can make a rather good living. And hope that someone would want to join me untill such a time as WE wish to move somewhere else
You see my point exactly....
The question is when is one ever going to meet that person that is willing to make those sarcrifices and move.....I always say the proof is in the pudding.....
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stefonline: If someone is desperate Somme....I am going to see that a mile off....I dont need any desperates around me either....I have had one of them before and boy was I glad I walked away.....I am not a desperate person so I could not have a desperate one around me....
You would be the last person I would call desperate Stef, on here! I just knew you would come back with that.------ This thread is Archived ------
Hey!! Girls... this page is hot......
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OMG. i should hav ben a comedian
Empty spaces - what are we living for?
Abandoned places - I guess we know the score..
On and on!
Does anybody know what we are looking for?
The Show must go on! Yeah!
The Show must go on!
I'll face it with a grin!
I'm never giving in!
On with the show!
Empty spaces - what are we living for?
Abandoned places - I guess we know the score..
On and on!
Does anybody know what we are looking for?
The Show must go on! Yeah!
The Show must go on!
I'll face it with a grin!
I'm never giving in!
On with the show!
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stefonline: You see my point exactly....
The question is when is one ever going to meet that person that is willing to make those sarcrifices and move.....I always say the proof is in the pudding.....
I do see your point ,but as I said I would be willing to move if I found the right person and I knew I could find work . That said I do believe I could find work most anywhere I go,as I have always done well where ever I moved to , I have a very good trade and it is basically the same the world over. But again it would be a decision we would make as a team or parntership ,together as one The question is when is one ever going to meet that person that is willing to make those sarcrifices and move.....I always say the proof is in the pudding.....
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I have to admit, yes, sometimes I get freaked out because I am here only to make friends and if I do start to get that feeling that is a little more than I expected I worry because I live so far away I won't be able to do anything about it. 
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jessejess47: I do see your point ,but as I said I would be willing to move if I found the right person and I knew I could find work . That said I do believe I could find work most anywhere I go,as I have always done well where ever I moved to , I have a very good trade and it is basically the same the world over. But again it would be a decision we would make as a team or parntership ,together as one
I know what you are saying Jess and I understand you completely....but you see there are no guarentees in life....nothing is forever....it's about if one is willing to take a chance/risk.....
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Daisy good to see you. Love, Love for you
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Sommerauer71: You would be the last person I would call desperate Stef, on here! I just knew you would come back with that.
Maybe I am a desperate houswife.....well lots of the young guys on here seem to think so....
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Sommerauer71: You would be the last person I would call desperate Stef, on here! I just knew you would come back with that.
Maybe I am a desperate houswife.....well lots of the young guys on here seem to think so....
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sxc666: Daisy good to see you. Love, Love for you
Hi Sx.......
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DaisyChick: I find it weird that when you find a "connection" with someone that most men on this site get freaked out. I wonder what the real purpose behind these profiles really are. I've been around this site (and forums) for over a year and without fail every single time I talk with someone that is capable of a decent conversation they get freaked out if they "feel" anything more than just a friendship. Why are people really here? I truly believe that it doesn't have anything to do with the person on the receiving end (IN MY CASE... unless I am just in some weird little sheltered world). I'm starting to believe that guys seek out "GOOD" girls and then once they get them they run.
My question is why??
For over a year I have had my profile saying that I am strictly here for forums and friends. That has changed within the last month, I'm tired of focusing only on school. I thought I was ready for something more... until I've had a few experiences of men not being able to handle a decent "intelligent" conversation. It's like everything goes great until they realize how compatible we could actually be and that I am not willing to "play games." I consider myself to be on the high end of "good girls." I am working hard in school (as many of you may know). Is it possible that men aren't willing to share my time? (I have to put schoolwork and studying first. At 32 years old it's time to build a future and career for myself regardless of any relationship). This does not mean that I am not willing to share this life with someone else. This just means that I must find someone that understands that I need more than someone to love. I must love myself too! (And be happy with the choices I make in life.)
Any thoughts on this? Could it intimidate people?
My question is why??
For over a year I have had my profile saying that I am strictly here for forums and friends. That has changed within the last month, I'm tired of focusing only on school. I thought I was ready for something more... until I've had a few experiences of men not being able to handle a decent "intelligent" conversation. It's like everything goes great until they realize how compatible we could actually be and that I am not willing to "play games." I consider myself to be on the high end of "good girls." I am working hard in school (as many of you may know). Is it possible that men aren't willing to share my time? (I have to put schoolwork and studying first. At 32 years old it's time to build a future and career for myself regardless of any relationship). This does not mean that I am not willing to share this life with someone else. This just means that I must find someone that understands that I need more than someone to love. I must love myself too! (And be happy with the choices I make in life.)
Any thoughts on this? Could it intimidate people?
I'm not sure why some are here, I'm here to find someone to date. Life is busy so I don't get out much right now. For me if I start to like someone, even if I never say anything, they stop chatting. I guess those are the ones that like games and crap. Fine with me, I will find someone that enjoys chatting.
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stefonline: Hi Sx.......
Hey lovely lady, hope all is well.------ This thread is Archived ------
sxc666: Hey lovely lady, hope all is well.
All is well in my world Sx....how is everything in yours.....a nice discussion going on in here.....
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stefonline: I would'nt mind some ruhbarb and custard but for now I just had two fried eggs with wholemeal toasted loaf and juice...yummy...
Well time reveals all....
I'm gonna have eggs too.Well time reveals all....
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Sommerauer71: I'm gonna have eggs too.
You know it's funny my body tells me when it needs protein and that only happens maybe once a month.....you know what I mean....
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stefonline: All is well in my world Sx....how is everything in yours.....a nice discussion going on in here.....
What a lovely pic and dress. I really like that pic. Casual yet classy.
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sxc666: What a lovely pic and dress. I really like that pic. Casual yet classy.
ah thank u so much Sx......I love your sweeter side....
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Thanks Sommer....well its true..!
Every body is every where and nobody actually knows where there going....Its a hectic world we live in...I guess.
I have learned to slow down and take one day as it comes....Just stay in control...