lifeis2good77brooks,alberta, Alberta Canada549 posts
Sweet_And_Sassy: Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?
Someday maybe ? maybe we are all in the wrong place to fine who we are looking for ?
....'Ahem 'to you bro .....Whoa... you have just brought back some awesome and wonderful Memories.....and the Belgium Pastries....Oh soooooooooooooooo.....yummy.....!!!
Sweet_And_Sassy: Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?
...And you mean to tell me, there are no so called 'Woman players' on this site either......Yeah right....
ContraryCol: He seems to have started the way he means to go on. If he is not prepared to communicate with you on any depth about himself from the safety of his pc on such fundimentally important issues to you then what the hell would he be like once he feels he has won you over? It is too often the case that the ones who are most willing to give attract the most selfish of people who want to give back so little. And you seem so giving OP.
Oh my goodness. That was very sweet! I am giving, and for many years it did me no good, but to be used and taken for granted. Once my son came along I decided I would never allow that again.
I'm still very loving and giving, but only to those who can also give of themselves. Enough of the one sided crap.
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
Sweet_And_Sassy: Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?
My name is Boban
And i don t really know for how long and what about you two have been talking...we never did hear his storie
you have to accept the fact that after some time spend et talking to some one
he realize that you are not what he is looking for, so you will probably do the same when you see that that person is not the one you are looking for....
BOBANBOBAN: My name is Boban And i don t really know for how long and what about you two have been talking...we never did hear his storie
you have to accept the fact that after some time spend et talking to some one
he realize that you are not what he is looking for, so you will probably do the same when you see that that person is not the one you are looking for....
you are serious about no jokes for 7 days now we see the serious boban
Sweet_And_Sassy: Thank you! Yes, he wanted me to call at first, but I said I wanted to get to know HIM a little. I guess my instincts were right.
Questions...they're a Good Thing!
BTW - you people are SO NICE! I love this.
I used to think that if someone wanted me to call them right away, that was a huge red flag right there. Whats the rush?
A lot of people can be guarded because of previous relationships (getting hurt before) but its not fair to expect you to share stuff about yourself, if they are not willing to do the same.
lifeis2good77brooks,alberta, Alberta Canada549 posts
Sweet_And_Sassy: But WHERE is the right place? If not DATING or MATCH making sites, then where??? I have no clue.
Who realy knows maybe what you are looking for is here you just don't konw it yet maybe he's sitting at the coffee shop too me it's just the matter of being at the right place at the right time relax your time will come as too everyone.So don't ! just
Sweet_And_Sassy: Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?
Yes, I am sure the right one will come along, just have some(alot) of patience, and check them out VERY well! Only a spot of sane advice here
BOBANBOBAN: My name is Boban And i don t really know for how long and what about you two have been talking...we never did hear his storie
you have to accept the fact that after some time spend et talking to some one
he realize that you are not what he is looking for, so you will probably do the same when you see that that person is not the one you are looking for....
Well I might buy that if it had not been as simple as... him telling me "I'm very interested. [Sent me flower]. We have so much in common. Call me on my phone".
Then (I) ask appropriate questions.
and his reply was rude and childish!
I would send you all of our emails, but I deleted them already. I have NOTHING to hide. Although I sense your skepticism.
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
Sweet_And_Sassy: Well I might buy that if it had not been as simple as... him telling me "I'm very interested. [Sent me flower]. We have so much in common. Call me on my phone".
Then (I) ask appropriate questions.
and his reply was rude and childish!
I would send you all of our emails, but I deleted them already. I have NOTHING to hide. Although I sense your skepticism.
DUBLINGUY1973: I used to think that if someone wanted me to call them right away, that was a huge red flag right there. Whats the rush?
A lot of people can be guarded because of previous relationships (getting hurt before) but its not fair to expect you to share stuff about yourself, if they are not willing to do the same.
I'd just mark it down to experience and move on
Well if I considered getting a phone number from a man, a HUGE RED FLAG, I'd never get to know anyone. Seems *most* men on dating sites are unable (or unwilling) to TYPE! Go figure.
Also, if asking what you like to do for dates is too personal for someone...they certainly should NOT be on a DATING site.
Oh yes. I have moved on. He is blocked and deleted, and soon forgotten. I was just looking for a little feedback on what you folks thought. I seem to enjoy talking in forums...because at least you people will TYPE!
Sweet_And_Sassy: Great advice, except I've been looking for over TEN years. Not exactly a "Sprint". I am cautious, and patient. But it gets super frustrating at times.
dirko63: 10 years to do a marathon I thought i was bad
.....Well, I was going to say 'Tongue in cheek' of course....Wow....after 10 years it might be time to permanently 'Retire'....just an idea.????..that's all....
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Someday maybe ? maybe we are all in the wrong place to fine who we are looking for ?