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Jul 12, 2009 4:05 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
lifeis2good77
lifeis2good77lifeis2good77brooks,alberta, Alberta Canada3 Threads 549 Posts
Sweet_And_Sassy: Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?


Someday maybe ? maybe we are all in the wrong place to fine who we are looking for ?doh
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Jul 12, 2009 4:06 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
dirko63: Mussels and Frites and a Leffe Blond


....'Ahem 'to you bro .....Whoa... you have just brought back some awesome and wonderful Memories.....and the Belgium Pastries....Oh soooooooooooooooo.....yummy.....!!! thumbs up

J.D...E.M.C.P


grin devil
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Jul 12, 2009 4:08 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
Sweet_And_Sassy: Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?


...And you mean to tell me, there are no so called 'Woman players' on this site either......Yeah right....doh

J.D....E.M.C.P



grin devil
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Jul 12, 2009 4:08 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
Sweet_And_Sassy
Sweet_And_SassySweet_And_SassyLake Elmo, Minnesota USA6 Threads 51 Posts
ContraryCol: He seems to have started the way he means to go on.
If he is not prepared to communicate with you on any depth about himself from the safety of his pc on such fundimentally important issues to you then what the hell would he be like once he feels he has won you over?
It is too often the case that the ones who are most willing to give attract the most selfish of people who want to give back so little.
And you seem so giving OP.


Oh my goodness. That was very sweet! I am giving, and for many years it did me no good, but to be used and taken for granted. Once my son came along I decided I would never allow that again.

I'm still very loving and giving, but only to those who can also give of themselves. Enough of the one sided crap.

Thanks for your kind words!!!
teddybear
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Jul 12, 2009 4:10 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
dirko63: shall we make a list for you


.....That's very simple 'Tongue in Cheek'..It would be every 'Male' member at C.S SINGLES......professor

J.D....E.M.C.Pgrin devil
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Jul 12, 2009 4:10 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
Sweet_And_Sassy: Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?


My name is Bobanhandshake


And i don t really know for how long and what about you two have been talking...we never did hear his storie

you have to accept the fact that after some time spend et talking to some one

he realize that you are not what he is looking for, so you will probably do the same when you see that that person is not the one you are looking for....bouquet
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Jul 12, 2009 4:12 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
Sweet_And_Sassy
Sweet_And_SassySweet_And_SassyLake Elmo, Minnesota USA6 Threads 51 Posts
lifeis2good77: Someday maybe ? maybe we are all in the wrong place to fine who we are looking for ?


But WHERE is the right place? If not DATING or MATCH making sites, then where??? I have no clue.
frustrated
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Jul 12, 2009 4:13 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
BOBANBOBAN: My name is Boban And i don t really know for how long and what about you two have been talking...we never did hear his storie

you have to accept the fact that after some time spend et talking to some one

he realize that you are not what he is looking for, so you will probably do the same when you see that that person is not the one you are looking for....

you are serious about no jokes for 7 daysrolling on the floor laughing now we see the serious bobanprofessor
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Jul 12, 2009 4:16 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
Sweet_And_Sassy: Thank you! Yes, he wanted me to call at first, but I said I wanted to get to know HIM a little. I guess my instincts were right.

Questions...they're a Good Thing!

BTW - you people are SO NICE! I love this.


I used to think that if someone wanted me to call them right away, that was a huge red flag right there. Whats the rush?

A lot of people can be guarded because of previous relationships (getting hurt before) but its not fair to expect you to share stuff about yourself, if they are not willing to do the same.

I'd just mark it down to experience and move on thumbs up
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Jul 12, 2009 4:16 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
caspatch: you are serious about no jokes for 7 days now we see the serious boban


well i never was a suck up...only a joker
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Jul 12, 2009 4:17 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
Sweet_And_Sassy
Sweet_And_SassySweet_And_SassyLake Elmo, Minnesota USA6 Threads 51 Posts
virgiomonkey: ...And you mean to tell me, there are no so called 'Woman players' on this site either......Yeah right....

J.D....E.M.C.P


Where did I say THAT? Please do NOT put words in MY mouth. TYVM tongue

I merely stated that I am not a fool to it.
You can handle the female playas however you wish.
Good luck!
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Jul 12, 2009 4:20 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
lifeis2good77
lifeis2good77lifeis2good77brooks,alberta, Alberta Canada3 Threads 549 Posts
Sweet_And_Sassy: But WHERE is the right place? If not DATING or MATCH making sites, then where??? I have no clue.



Who realy knows maybe what you are looking for is here you just don't konw it yet maybe he's sitting at the coffee shop too me it's just the matter of being at the right place at the right
time relax your time will come as too everyone.So don't
frustrated ! justbanana
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Jul 12, 2009 4:20 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
Ashes
AshesAshesPunta del Este, Uruguay7 Threads 5 Polls 469 Posts
Sweet_And_Sassy: Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?


Yes, I am sure the right one will come along, just have some(alot) of patience, and check them out VERY well!
Only a spot of sane advice hereteddybear
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Jul 12, 2009 4:24 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
ContraryCol
ContraryColContraryColcrawley, West Sussex, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 601 Posts
In response to: Thanks for your kind words!!!

Your welcome sassy.

hug
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Jul 12, 2009 4:25 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
Sweet_And_Sassy
Sweet_And_SassySweet_And_SassyLake Elmo, Minnesota USA6 Threads 51 Posts
BOBANBOBAN: My name is Boban And i don t really know for how long and what about you two have been talking...we never did hear his storie

you have to accept the fact that after some time spend et talking to some one

he realize that you are not what he is looking for, so you will probably do the same when you see that that person is not the one you are looking for....


Well I might buy that if it had not been as simple as...
him telling me "I'm very interested. [Sent me flower]. We have so much in common. Call me on my phone".

Then (I) ask appropriate questions.

and his reply was rude and childish!

I would send you all of our emails, but I deleted them already. I have NOTHING to hide. Although I sense your skepticism.
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Jul 12, 2009 4:30 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
Sweet_And_Sassy: Well I might buy that if it had not been as simple as...
him telling me "I'm very interested. [Sent me flower]. We have so much in common. Call me on my phone".

Then (I) ask appropriate questions.

and his reply was rude and childish!

I would send you all of our emails, but I deleted them already. I have NOTHING to hide. Although I sense your skepticism.

nothing personally...
believe me....


bouquet
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Jul 12, 2009 4:32 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
Sweet_And_Sassy
Sweet_And_SassySweet_And_SassyLake Elmo, Minnesota USA6 Threads 51 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: I used to think that if someone wanted me to call them right away, that was a huge red flag right there. Whats the rush?

A lot of people can be guarded because of previous relationships (getting hurt before) but its not fair to expect you to share stuff about yourself, if they are not willing to do the same.

I'd just mark it down to experience and move on


Well if I considered getting a phone number from a man, a HUGE RED FLAG, I'd never get to know anyone. Seems *most* men on dating sites are unable (or unwilling) to TYPE! Go figure.

Also, if asking what you like to do for dates is too personal for someone...they certainly should NOT be on a DATING site.

Oh yes. I have moved on. He is blocked and deleted, and soon forgotten. I was just looking for a little feedback on what you folks thought. I seem to enjoy talking in forums...because at least you people will TYPE!
applause
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Jul 12, 2009 4:36 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
dirko63
dirko63dirko63brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium2 Threads 426 Posts
Sweet_And_Sassy: Great advice, except I've been looking for over TEN years. Not exactly a "Sprint". I am cautious, and patient. But it gets super frustrating at times.


10 years to do a marathon doh I thought i was bad blushing
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Jul 12, 2009 4:40 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
dirko63: 10 years to do a marathon I thought i was bad


.....Well, I was going to say 'Tongue in cheek' of course....Wow....after 10 years it might be time to permanently 'Retire'....just an idea.????..that's all.... dunno

J.D...E.M.C.P grin devil
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Jul 12, 2009 4:41 PM CST Did I do something wrong?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
You should've stopped asking questions and proposed marriage. A stellar guy like that doesn't come along very often. smile
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