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Jul 18, 2006 8:29 PM CST The mistakes we make...
betrayed
betrayedbetrayedAustin, Arkansas USA47 Threads 699 Posts
The mistakes we make come back to haunt us. People get hurt and lifes get altered. Plans change, hope fades, and you suddenly realize that your dreams are just that... dreams.

When you are younger you get pictures of you and a pretty girl as your wife that you care about. Living in a nice little house, with a cute pet and a baby on the way. Everybody smiling and laughing, then reality slaps you in the face. You meet a girl, passion flows, instinct over-rules judgement. Few days pass and you realize that this isn't really the girl you want. You care about her but you aren't in love with her. Wait, that's not the best part; there might be a baby on the way from her?

Not sure why I posted this but I really have nobody to really vent to. I'll stop whining now.
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Jul 18, 2006 8:33 PM CST The mistakes we make...
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
Nobody?

J honey, we all have our bumps in the road to deal with. You will do as your heart demands. Be strong. I love you.
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Jul 18, 2006 8:35 PM CST The mistakes we make...
nwnstar
nwnstarnwnstarConway, USA38 Threads 5,464 Posts
hon...i'm always here for you.

life takes detours, and they aren't necessarily the ones that you would have personally chosen...however...later, you realize they were the ones that you were MEANT to take. things you would have never have been blessed with seeing...are sometimes on that road.

you need me, i'm here.
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Jul 18, 2006 8:52 PM CST The mistakes we make...
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Natural consequences of actions ... sometimes are short and sweet and sometimes they result in a baby. Hindsight is always 20/20 but all you can do is deal with the reality of what is.

The girl needs to get tested ASAP and after that a paternity test if she is in fact pregnant and decides to keep the baby. I just went through this with my daughter - it ends up she was just late but the reality is that everyone panics and it doesn't help. Your life is not over or ruined it may have just changed.

You are more than welcome to write me as well Johnny.

Sending you hugs of encouragement and know that I care. hug hug hug
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Jul 18, 2006 9:01 PM CST The mistakes we make...
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
i admire your guts and honesty my new friend hug
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Jul 18, 2006 9:03 PM CST The mistakes we make...
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
Jon get the tests and if indeed a baby is in the works discuss your options together.It is very important no matter what happens to keep the lines of communication open.Big hugs to you and mistakes are how we learn.hug hug hug hug
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Jul 18, 2006 9:39 PM CST The mistakes we make...
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Johnny sweetheart you know we are here if you need a shoulder...I'm sorry that's all we can offer right now...but be strong...things have a way of mysteriously working itself out when it seems like there is no hope left....Hugs and Kisses to you love...Urskiss
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Jul 18, 2006 9:59 PM CST The mistakes we make...
iRon12345
iRon12345iRon12345Tempe, USA35 Threads 2,473 Posts
What does not kill us makes us stronger and this will not kill so I guess you will get stronger.
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Jul 19, 2006 12:49 AM CST The mistakes we make...
andyjay4
andyjay4andyjay4Puoghkeepsie, Maryland USA1 Threads 122 Posts
I'd say, you earn from your mistakes, deal with the consequences of your actions and get bck on track. Easier said than done of course. But possible, as I've seen it happen.

Hang in there, we're all here for you, assuming this is a real situation.
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Jul 19, 2006 4:47 AM CST The mistakes we make...
hug comfort cheers
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Jul 19, 2006 6:37 AM CST The mistakes we make...
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
J - you know that Cat is always there for you, just key me up.



We may have joked for a long time together, however, I feel the struggles that you are facing.

Make the best possible choice for all, not the one that others want you to make.

Think clearly and rationally about every possibility that exisits.
You have a good strong head on your shoulders.




You always have friends, so hang in there.
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Jul 19, 2006 6:38 AM CST The mistakes we make...
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
j rem. to stay stong and true to who you are and what you wnat in life always
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