Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world ( Archived) (120)

Jul 26, 2009 6:55 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
I've been thinking we should organize a big meeting, sponsored plane tickets by Bill Gates (I'll pull it off by something involving a ransome)... and for all us BLOKES ONLY to meet up and have a weekend long party. Any small beefs would be settled forever over a few pints, it would leave all the women wondering what the hell happened, curious to find out details, there would of course be a blood oath so nothing allowed to be said. I promise you things would change from that day ón, as far as month long bickering and digs go.
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Jul 26, 2009 6:59 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
RDM59: For real ???????


Naw, just joking RD, but if I were, and had time to spare
I would look forward to a drink or two with you.

I have met one or two off this site when our paths have
crossed, its surely a natural progression.
But I certainly wouldnt go out of my way to meet someone
who I had crossed swords with on here.
Not that there are many.


grin
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Jul 26, 2009 7:04 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
Raven0: acquaintances

CaptainBeirutIII: Not even that. We've not met.
Which doesn't mean I don't value any oppinions on a forum, quite the contrary.

I think it needs a new word yet to be invented.




Netquaintances? confused
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Jul 26, 2009 7:14 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
rubendario: Raven0: acquaintancesNetquaintances?


Netpal..... Netmate ...... Virtupal ... Cyberchum grin
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Jul 26, 2009 7:15 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: Oh, don't get me wrong. My first post is not about rating in any way. There's no scale to it where I rate a friend in real life above someone here, or think of one I value as far as ideas and humour goes, less, because its on-line. Hence, to be here is not lesser either.
No, it's just that I find it a bit unreasonable, for me, to call someone a friend in that sense which I tried to explain above.
And even more so I find it unreasonable how someone can invest such amount of time following another around out of pure bother and dislike, or spend daily time trying to put someone down by continous digs.


Ah, now the latter part of this escapes me as well, Captain. I couldn't be bothered with that, and it amazes me to see it.

But I do have people from here that I speak to on the phone and do consider to be friends. I share with them the things that I do my friends who live locally. And those that I'm that close to, I'm sure we will find a way to meet some day. There are a couple of them I have plans to meet soon. I feel that some are friends for life, even if we won't be able to meet up often.

But most here are in the category of acquaintances, people one cares about and helps, but doesn't share their most personal information with...though I tend to share that with the whole community here on the forums, there are some things I don't share about my life. And I usually only share when it's relevant to the topic.
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Jul 26, 2009 7:16 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
rubendario: Raven0: acquaintancesNetquaintances?


How about "iQuentine".

Let's hurry make up our mind before Steve Jobs sees this.
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Jul 26, 2009 7:17 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Raven0: Netquaintances?


RDM59: Netpal..... Netmate ...... Virtupal ... Cyberchum


All very good suggestions, btw. Good going, you two! wine
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Jul 26, 2009 7:17 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
bodleing: Naw, just joking RD, but if I were, and had time to spare
I would look forward to a drink or two with you.

I have met one or two off this site when our paths have
crossed, its surely a natural progression.
But I certainly wouldnt go out of my way to meet someone
who I had crossed swords with on here.
Not that there are many.


grin Likewise beer

I've not met anyone from here yet, I know what you mean about someone you have crossed swords with but I wouldn't rule it out.
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Jul 26, 2009 7:18 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: How about "iQuentine".

Let's hurry make up our mind before Steve Jobs sees this.
confused You lost me with that one, Captain.
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Jul 26, 2009 7:19 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
My personal fave would be cyberchum, or I'll even suggest cyberpal.
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Jul 26, 2009 7:19 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
druidess6308: Ah, now the latter part of this escapes me as well, Captain. I couldn't be bothered with that, and it amazes me to see it.

But I do have people from here that I speak to on the phone and do consider to be friends. I share with them the things that I do my friends who live locally. And those that I'm that close to, I'm sure we will find a way to meet some day. There are a couple of them I have plans to meet soon. I feel that some are friends for life, even if we won't be able to meet up often.

But most here are in the category of acquaintances, people one cares about and helps, but doesn't share their most personal information with...though I tend to share that with the whole community here on the forums, there are some things I don't share about my life. And I usually only share when it's relevant to the topic.


Why would it amaze you? There's no rule to how people chose their friends out there, so why should it here?
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Jul 26, 2009 7:20 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: How about "iQuentine".

Let's hurry make up our mind before Steve Jobs sees this.


Hells ya.
There could be some $$ in it if we're quick.


Copywrite anyone?

oh wait...
doesn't that mean CS has first dibs since it was written here?!

crap!!
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Jul 26, 2009 7:20 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
druidess6308: You lost me with that one, Captain.


My suggestion for what you want to call cyberchum
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Jul 26, 2009 7:22 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
If I put it this way. I have many mates and people I know who if they were in need, I'd borrow them money. I wouldn't borrow a single one of you money. Would you?
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Jul 26, 2009 7:24 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
SlyIrish
SlyIrishSlyIrishKilkenny, Ireland11 Threads 402 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: If I put it this way. I have many mates and people I know who if they were in need, I'd borrow them money. I wouldn't borrow a single one of you money. Would you?


Nah, I wouldn't trust anyone here. I can only take them at face value, and that wouldn't be enough to go by.
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Jul 26, 2009 7:28 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: If I put it this way. I have many mates and people I know who if they were in need, I'd borrow them money. I wouldn't borrow a single one of you money. Would you?


Yes there are people on here that I would 'lend'
money to.
I known and spoke to them for over two years now.
Why wouldnt I?


dunno
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Jul 26, 2009 7:29 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: Why would it amaze you? There's no rule to how people chose their friends out there, so why should it here?
Not the part about the friendships, for I have those too...it was the part about people hating each other so much they follow someone around just to make digs at them. That's what's unfathomable to me, Captain. How can you hate someone that passionately that you've never even met?

Of course, perhaps it's also unfathomable to me because I can't hate anyone regardless. It's something I truly don't understand, but especially in context here. sigh
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Jul 26, 2009 7:30 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
steve6611
steve6611steve6611Victor Harbor, South Australia Australia1 Threads 1,767 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: Hell yeah! I've been a member of a British football forum, a brilliant one which deals with a lot more than football.

I've visited one bloke in Milano, and have sent some sport related stuff to his 12 year old son.

I've met another bloke in Milano when he happened to go see AC Milan play at the same time I did.

I've met up with two other and made a trip to Barcelona to watch Barcelona - Real Madrid. One of them has visited and stayed at my place three times, that other bloke once.

I met a guy last month, who was here visiting.

I've helped a sports journalist in Ireland get in touch with local heroes for some work he needed donw.

There's one who has a standing invitation, one who's moved close to where I live.


Ok im not talking to you any more I am so jealous going to see Real Madrid & Barcelona. I was on a british football forum interesting experience being an Australian on it but I loved it & some of the banter even between opposition fans was hilarious
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Jul 26, 2009 7:30 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: My suggestion for what you want to call cyberchum


Ah, I've got it...you were coming up with an entirely new word. Trouble with that was all words have a root in something, they're not just a random jumble of letters. I couldn't see the etymology of that one.
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Jul 26, 2009 7:35 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
druidess6308: Not the part about the friendships, for I have those too...it was the part about people hating each other so much they follow someone around just to make digs at them. That's what's unfathomable to me, Captain. How can you hate someone that passionately that you've never even met?

Of course, perhaps it's also unfathomable to me because I can't hate anyone regardless. It's something I truly don't understand, but especially in context here.


I don't think it's hate. I think that's a bit of a strong word. I think it's more of a sick sport, convenient when hiding in a far-away country behind a screen. That's why I was wondering out loud how many of those would be prepared to meet up and resolve it like civilized people. If that much time is spent, it must be important enough, or at least a great opportunity to get a good dig in face-to-face.
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