Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world ( Archived) (120)

Jul 26, 2009 8:57 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
morgan5: I can understand the friendship thing, and have met people from the site, and we have become firm friends. I can't get my head round people 'falling in love' and feeling they have a committed 'relationship' when they have not even met to me that is just crazy


grin What - do I look crazy??wow cheering
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Jul 26, 2009 8:58 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
Ambrose2007
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Apostophe: Yes sirryyyy,What would the point of this whole excersize be then?I have fallen deliciously, madly, in love with "people" on this site - the same as I have with Poets, Writers, Artists etc.


hmmm That's one way to look at it. That's not how I see it, however. I almost never feel any emotional connection to celebrities.
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Jul 26, 2009 8:58 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
venere08: So glad these words came from you, A.

You, people listen to.


wave hug I occasionally even heed my own words, V.blushing
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Jul 26, 2009 8:59 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
SummerUK: Sheesh Dru I forgot about David Cassidy lol

How could I forget him?


Put David Cassidy aside just for a few moments, will ya, miss?

A moment in the kitchen, per favore?

bouquet
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Jul 26, 2009 9:00 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I didn't have her on my bedroom wall, but if I had a picture of her I would have: Annette Funicello. I'm from another age group.
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Jul 26, 2009 9:01 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
steve6611: Oh wow youre a AC MIlan fan too , well when i get to Europe I will definately let you know when I am around


Milan crest tattoo on my left arm, Maldini caught in flight from the back on my right arm, and running a 300 member strong local supporters club.
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Jul 26, 2009 9:02 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
Ambrose2007: Dear Zeus, Captain, you're hijacking your own thread!

I had two posters on my bedroom wall: Jim Morrison and Grace Slick (when she was young and very hot!). What a deliciously dark pair!


Yeah, but only trying to show that if you can fall in love with someone on a poster who doesn't even speak to you, I can't say anything wrong about those who do with someone they spend time with on-line.
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Jul 26, 2009 9:05 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
Apostophe
ApostopheApostopheBoksburg, Gauteng South Africa64 Threads 1,937 Posts
Ambrose2007: That's one way to look at it. That's not how I see it, however. I almost never feel any emotional connection to celebrities.



Apart from Terence Stamp - the rest aint celebrities. It's the word thing and glimpsing a Poet or Writer's soul.


wave
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Jul 26, 2009 9:06 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
Ambrose2007: That's one way to look at it. That's not how I see it, however. I almost never feel any emotional connection to celebrities.


You never felt like kicking Bush in the nuts and bite his arm?
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Jul 26, 2009 9:06 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
venere08: Put David Cassidy aside just for a few moments, will ya, miss?

A moment in the kitchen, per favore?


In the kitchen?

Do you mean errr confused

Oh I think I know what you mean lol
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Jul 26, 2009 9:08 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
CS is interesting place. You meet ALL KINDS. I don't think the situation here for me is any different than in real life - well okay maybe I tend to talk a little bit more here. Normally I'm just a shy angelic type.angel devil But seriously I don't like crowds. So I can live quite happily with just a few faithful companions/friends - same here. I don't need or want to be Miss Popular so a few is good for me. I would never start threads just to stir the pot or knowingly cause friction, I don't think I'm an antagonistic type. Like most Pisceans I'm pretty quiet and live and let live - mostly. However in my first week of being here and a few times after that I have had to clash swords with a few people, normally it does not get too serious but there have been those that have pushed it. Depending on my mood I may just simply flick them aside like an annoying gnat but if they've caught me in a bad mood or irritated me enough with their natter, I'll rip into them like a pitbull on crack, I've never had a repeat offender so far,therefore I have no long standing feuds and its all good.yay
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Jul 26, 2009 9:08 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
SummerUK: Sheesh Dru I forgot about David Cassidy lol

How could I forget him?
laugh There are probably some crushes I've forgotten.

Oh, yeah...I had a poster of the Bay City Rollers too...I had a major crush on the lead singer! laugh doh
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Jul 26, 2009 9:09 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: Yeah, but only trying to show that if you can fall in love with someone on a poster who doesn't even speak to you, I can't say anything wrong about those who do with someone they spend time with on-line.


Yep and blind people fall in Love all the time...

I think its entirely possible to fall in Love online..
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Jul 26, 2009 9:09 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: Heather Locklear from the Dynasty days was on my wall.



heather from any days is good.




what would be the point in trying to reason with someone in person, if you can't reason with them online?

i mean why would it be more effective in person? if someone wants to be disagreeable, won't they do the same in real life?

or were you going to give them a beer and a sandwich to lighten the mood? grin
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Jul 26, 2009 9:09 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
Ambrose2007
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CaptainBeirutIII: Yeah, but only trying to show that if you can fall in love with someone on a poster who doesn't even speak to you, I can't say anything wrong about those who do with someone they spend time with on-line.


hmmm Interesting point. I've always placed celebrities securely in the "fantasy camp" when it comes to my affections for them. I generally have next to no interest in celebrities' personal lives or in getting to know them personally, but there have been a small number of exceptions.

With celebrities there's usually no dialogue between you - not interaction - which I think is critical to achieving a real emotional bond. True, people get *imagine* that they feel a bond with anything (remember "Pet Rocks"?), so I want to make clear that I'm speaking of a real not imagined bond.

When you talk with someone at length, when you share your innermost thoughts and feelings with someone, it would seem unrealistic to expect that a bond wouldn't occur, even if you haven't been face-to-face with them...wine
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Jul 26, 2009 9:09 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
SummerUK: In the kitchen?

Do you mean errr

Oh I think I know what you mean lol


I've put the kettle ongrin
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Jul 26, 2009 9:11 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
druidess6308: There are probably some crushes I've forgotten.

Oh, yeah...I had a poster of the Bay City Rollers too...I had a major crush on the lead singer!



Shang a Lang peace

Les Mckewon.. how could I forget my tartan bags (trousers) lol
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Jul 26, 2009 9:11 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
steve6611
steve6611steve6611Victor Harbor, South Australia Australia1 Threads 1,767 Posts
druidess6308: There are probably some crushes I've forgotten.

Oh, yeah...I had a poster of the Bay City Rollers too...I had a major crush on the lead singer!


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing The Bay City Rollers , sorry Dru I had a crush on the 2 ladies in ABBA, Kate Bush, Olivia Newton John & even Debbie Harry for a while
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Jul 26, 2009 9:11 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
Ambrose2007
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CaptainBeirutIII: You never felt like kicking Bush in the nuts and bite his arm?


I'm glad you didn't reverse those two!!wow

I don't know. I found it hard to relate to Bush with any feeling but absolute contempt. Most of my anger was reserved for those who allow a person like him to rule a country. They're imposing their ignorance and lack of forethought on me, which I resent.
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Jul 26, 2009 9:12 AM CST Friendship, switchblade duels, backstabbing & sudden surprise cuts from the side in the cyber world
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: Yeah, but only trying to show that if you can fall in love with someone on a poster who doesn't even speak to you, I can't say anything wrong about those who do with someone they spend time with on-line.


I didn't fall in love with them...at that age, it was definitely lust. I knew that there was no point in falling in love with someone I'd never meet. And online, I was supposed to meet them, so I allowed it. I'm a lot more cautious now. Next time, love will wait until we do meet, if I even get into another online LDR.
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