what draws to to a woman/man? ( Archived) (83)

Jul 26, 2009 9:47 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
What captures your interests and intrigues you enough to want to get to know someone. Do you like for a woman to be wild, spontaneous, lady-like, trashy, dressed conservative, etc. Women what catches your eyes in a man. There are the loud ones, the life of the party, shy guys, trashy body grabbers, the ones who smell like alcohol even when they are not currently drinking, gentlemen, etc. These are just a few so name more things that you look for when picking out someone.
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Jul 26, 2009 9:49 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
I meant what draws you to a woman/man? not to to.doh
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Jul 26, 2009 9:53 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
vanitystorm: I meant what draws you to a woman/man? not to to.


Im drawn to guys with good manners and a natural shyness.
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Jul 26, 2009 9:54 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
His voice, hands, his love of family, his morals and character, his sense of humor.
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Jul 26, 2009 9:55 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
She has to be stinking rich...and blond....wink
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Jul 26, 2009 9:55 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I am like a lot of people who admits that the physical attraction must come first. I am drawn to the eyes and a beautiful smile; however, I only desire a slim/average lady in size.

Once I get past these features the personality must be compatible with a good sense of humor, intelligence, and interests.

In the long run the personality is more important, but in the initial meeting the physical is king.
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Jul 26, 2009 10:03 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
vanitystorm: What captures your interests and intrigues you enough to want to get to know someone. Do you like for a woman to be wild, spontaneous, lady-like, trashy, dressed conservative, etc. Women what catches your eyes in a man. There are the loud ones, the life of the party, shy guys, trashy body grabbers, the ones who smell like alcohol even when they are not currently drinking, gentlemen, etc. These are just a few so name more things that you look for when picking out someone.


Do you mean physically? Like if I pass a woman in hall, what physical attributes would catch my eye?

Or do you mean after I have met her and got to know her?

I just want to make sure I understand the Question correctly.
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Jul 26, 2009 10:05 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
cameraman
cameramancameramanSt. Petersburg, Florida USA29 Threads 19 Polls 2,501 Posts
What I find most attractive about a woman is that she be just herself...

She can fake it till she makes it if she has too but she should not compromise who she is while doing so...

In order for me to be with her we would have to accept everything about each other and our lifestyle has to be the same... Or should it???
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Jul 26, 2009 10:09 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
What attracts me to a guy is his personality,
his quick wit,his charisma smitten ,and
his willingness to get to know me.
In response to: What captures your interests and intrigues you enough to want to get to know someone. Do you like for a woman to be wild, spontaneous, lady-like, trashy, dressed conservative, etc. Women what catches your eyes in a man. There are the loud ones, the life of the party, shy guys, trashy body grabbers, the ones who smell like alcohol even when they are not currently drinking, gentlemen, etc. These are just a few so name more things that you look for when picking out someone.
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Jul 26, 2009 10:25 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
Boban1: She has to be stinking rich...and blond....
oh, darn i am totally out of luck there!doh
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Jul 26, 2009 10:30 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
vanitystorm: oh, darn i am totally out of luck there!


we don`t have to get married right away




(until you win the lottery )...bouquet
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Jul 26, 2009 10:31 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
cameraman: What I find most attractive about a woman is that she be just herself...

She can fake it till she makes it if she has too but she should not compromise who she is while doing so...

In order for me to be with her we would have to accept everything about each other and our lifestyle has to be the same... Or should it???
If you accept everything about each other than why should it matter if your lifestyles are the same? You've already acceptef each other for the likes/differences. Right?
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Jul 26, 2009 10:34 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
Boban1: we don`t have to get married right away

(until you win the lottery )...
I guess i could use my lottery money to keep my hair bleached blonde! Can't have those dark roots showing.grin
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Jul 26, 2009 10:38 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
namcazam: Do you mean physically? Like if I pass a woman in hall, what physical attributes would catch my eye?

Or do you mean after I have met her and got to know her?

I just want to make sure I understand the Question correctly.
Do both! Why not?! I would be interested in reading both comments.wave
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Jul 26, 2009 10:43 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
avecaim: His voice, hands, his love of family, his morals and character, his sense of humor.
I always pay attention to how he treats his mom/dad and, if he has them, his child(ren). With me i agree, also, he has to have good morals/character and a sense of humor.angel
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Jul 26, 2009 10:44 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
Sense of humour firstly. Then his character and personality, the way he interacts with others, his morals and values...

After that, the way he looks...

Luckily he's kinda cute

grin
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Jul 26, 2009 10:47 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
so far any woman with a pulse..... sorry!!!!

How sad am I? doh
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Jul 26, 2009 10:47 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
Big_John: I am like a lot of people who admits that the physical attraction must come first. I am drawn to the eyes and a beautiful smile; however, I only desire a slim/average lady in size.

Once I get past these features the personality must be compatible with a good sense of humor, intelligence, and interests.

In the long run the personality is more important, but in the initial meeting the physical is king.
To capture my attention in order to pursue the other, i have to be attacted to a man. My weakness is long hair. Yep, it gets me in trouble!
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Jul 26, 2009 10:51 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
SummerUK: Sense of humour firstly. Then his character and personality, the way he interacts with others, his morals and values...

After that, the way he looks...

Luckily he's kinda cute
It's always helps if they have good personalities/morals and they are cute! That's what i describe as Heaven Sent.angel
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Jul 26, 2009 10:52 AM CST what draws to to a woman/man?
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
stooie1971: so far any woman with a pulse..... sorry!!!!

How sad am I?


Blimey Stooie where the heck have you been?

Goood to see you

bouquet
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