What captures your interests and intrigues you enough to want to get to know someone. Do you like for a woman to be wild, spontaneous, lady-like, trashy, dressed conservative, etc. Women what catches your eyes in a man. There are the loud ones, the life of the party, shy guys, trashy body grabbers, the ones who smell like alcohol even when they are not currently drinking, gentlemen, etc. These are just a few so name more things that you look for when picking out someone.
I am like a lot of people who admits that the physical attraction must come first. I am drawn to the eyes and a beautiful smile; however, I only desire a slim/average lady in size.
Once I get past these features the personality must be compatible with a good sense of humor, intelligence, and interests.
In the long run the personality is more important, but in the initial meeting the physical is king.
vanitystorm: What captures your interests and intrigues you enough to want to get to know someone. Do you like for a woman to be wild, spontaneous, lady-like, trashy, dressed conservative, etc. Women what catches your eyes in a man. There are the loud ones, the life of the party, shy guys, trashy body grabbers, the ones who smell like alcohol even when they are not currently drinking, gentlemen, etc. These are just a few so name more things that you look for when picking out someone.
Do you mean physically? Like if I pass a woman in hall, what physical attributes would catch my eye?
Or do you mean after I have met her and got to know her?
I just want to make sure I understand the Question correctly.
What attracts me to a guy is his personality, his quick wit,his charisma ,and his willingness to get to know me.
In response to: What captures your interests and intrigues you enough to want to get to know someone. Do you like for a woman to be wild, spontaneous, lady-like, trashy, dressed conservative, etc. Women what catches your eyes in a man. There are the loud ones, the life of the party, shy guys, trashy body grabbers, the ones who smell like alcohol even when they are not currently drinking, gentlemen, etc. These are just a few so name more things that you look for when picking out someone.
cameraman: What I find most attractive about a woman is that she be just herself...
She can fake it till she makes it if she has too but she should not compromise who she is while doing so...
In order for me to be with her we would have to accept everything about each other and our lifestyle has to be the same... Or should it???
If you accept everything about each other than why should it matter if your lifestyles are the same? You've already acceptef each other for the likes/differences. Right?
avecaim: His voice, hands, his love of family, his morals and character, his sense of humor.
I always pay attention to how he treats his mom/dad and, if he has them, his child(ren). With me i agree, also, he has to have good morals/character and a sense of humor.
Big_John: I am like a lot of people who admits that the physical attraction must come first. I am drawn to the eyes and a beautiful smile; however, I only desire a slim/average lady in size.
Once I get past these features the personality must be compatible with a good sense of humor, intelligence, and interests.
In the long run the personality is more important, but in the initial meeting the physical is king.
To capture my attention in order to pursue the other, i have to be attacted to a man. My weakness is long hair. Yep, it gets me in trouble!
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