somechick: I don't either that's why I said what I said about not wishing to follow the crowd.
Oh no. I did sound like i didn't read what u wrote, but i did. I should have said i agree or yes to what you said first before commenting. Sorry. i write like iwould talk if we were talking on the phone! I did read what you said and i agree.:
vanitystorm: Yep,u can accept people for who they are, but at the same time, choose to not be in their company. Accepting means to realize who a person is and by doing this you don't try to change her/him. If i am totally against a person's particular lifestyle I accept him/her, but i stay away from the lifestyle itself. Meaning if i see them on the street i can still smile and say hello, but keep on going.
More words of wisdom... You keep saying what I was thinking... Or should I???
vanitystorm: go for it. It's all about what you think. doesn't have to make sense to me. Than again how do u know it wouldn't make sense?
I think it would not make sense for others besides myself because I can't put what I think into words - they are intangibles, I think and the caffeine has not kicked in yet - so it makes it harder to be clear and concise.
There are several recent scientific studies about what atracts a female to a male or viceversa. One of the latest examines the relationship of kissing with the picking of a mate. Now, there are social parameters, values and even cliches that influence what we look for. But this is intimately related to what we are socially. Maybe someone should find a short scientific explanation on the subject and post it here. And we can endlesly exchange ideas about social, gregarious reasons for getting interested in somebody.
NERDS ARE HOT!!!some thing about a cosplaying trekkie that turns me on.But I'm not limited to that. I also like rough and tough guys too. personalitywise, I like dark humor, assertiveness, gentlemanly, and confident.
He has to have 12-pack abs cuz 6 is just lame has to be over 6'3" have a good tan always and dark hair and eyes...I can handle the blue eyes but like brown more, full lips Brad Pitt face and 10"--he has to be filthy rich as well!!
j/k as long as he doesn't care if I'm being a bi*&h, can laugh and make me laugh, likes music and relaxing by a bonfire
someone who I can trust and never guess their true intentions. The rest is negotiable
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gingerb: Hi Summer. I'd be the same as that in that it would depend a lot on conversation.........crudity of any kind is out, as is banality or affectations.
Couldn't care less about the smile or whatever visual stuff as long as he is clean.....
Hey Ginger
Oh yes I agree of course you'd have to be able to have fun and interesting conversations..
And yes...he'd definately have to be clean. Nothing worse than smelly pits
vanitystorm: What captures your interests and intrigues you enough to want to get to know someone. Do you like for a woman to be wild, spontaneous, lady-like, trashy, dressed conservative, etc. Women what catches your eyes in a man. There are the loud ones, the life of the party, shy guys, trashy body grabbers, the ones who smell like alcohol even when they are not currently drinking, gentlemen, etc. These are just a few so name more things that you look for when picking out someone.
Ashes: Gosh I´m glad you are back to yourself again... Or should´nt I be?
I was dazed there for awhile because I was just amazed of the negative reaction I was getting for my trademark question closer... But thankfully some slapped me back to my senses...
It wouldn't be fun if you shouldn't because I couldn't... Or should I???
ihateusernames: NERDS ARE HOT!!!some thing about a cosplaying trekkie that turns me on.But I'm not limited to that. I also like rough and tough guys too. personalitywise, I like dark humor, assertiveness, gentlemanly, and confident.
yep, i like the bad boys too. the more eccentric the better. but, one thing always remain: he has to respect me.
Oh yes I agree of course you'd have to be able to have fun and interesting conversations..
And yes...he'd definately have to be clean. Nothing worse than smelly pits
eewww! there definately is nothing worse than stinky body odor. A person can't help if he/she doesn't appeal to someone, but can wash their butts and underarms!
All of the above attracts me to a woman. But, I really like a woman who is quick witted enough to stand up for herself without being mean about it. Women who have a wild and normal side at the same time are outright the best. AND......... its always a plus if they put up with your s##t enough for you to apologize, lol.
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nice 2 know......ty.....