Her hair her eyes & her smile, then if we should strike up a convo I listen mostly...at the end of the convo I will know if she's shallow or materialistic which are BIG turn offs.. If she can hold my interest w/some stimulating convo then we have a chance at a 2nd meeting.....
SummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK8,842 posts
NIGHTWLF: Her hair her eyes & her smile, then if we should strike up a convo I listen mostly...at the end of the convo I will know if she's shallow or materialistic which are BIG turn offs.. If she can hold my interest w/some stimulating convo then we have a chance at a 2nd meeting.....
vanitystorm: If you accept everything about each other than why should it matter if your lifestyles are the same? You've already acceptef each other for the likes/differences. Right?
I have to know her lifestyle in order to accept her either as a good friend or as just a friend...
She would have to know my lifestyle in order to accept me either as a good friend or as just a friend...
If our lifestyle are alike then we should accept each other and be good friends...
If our lifestyle are different we still should accept each other and be only just friends...
SummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK8,842 posts
sweetowen: Hey there Summer
I'm fine. Sang karaoke last night at a local club. I love to sing! But now, my eye keeps watering & hurting.
How are you doing? And when are you visiting us here in the states??
lol You must have been giving it your all
Well if I come it will be the end of september/ beg oct... have a few things to sort out first though.. I gotta go somewhere then..Outer Mongolia..wherever lol
Love to meet you and Dru though.. Things are a bit up in the air at the moment and I have to wait for someone else to make a decision before I can finalise mine if you know what I mean
vanitystorm: Do both! Why not?! I would be interested in reading both comments.
1.) Well I guess if I passed a woman in the hall, the first thing I would notice is her smile; The second would be her hair. Shoulder length or longer hair attracts me, Color doesn't matter. It's going to sound weird but a woman wearing glasses also attracts me.
2.) If I got to know her, Her physical appearance would not matter to me. I have known very beautiful women in my eyes (in the physical sense) but their personality makes them ugly to me.
cameraman: I have to know her lifestyle in order to accept her either as a good friend or as just a friend...
She would have to know my lifestyle in order to accept me either as a good friend or as just a friend...
If our lifestyle are alike then we should accept each other and be good friends...
If our lifestyle are different we still should accept each other and be only just friends...
Or should we???
Yep,u can accept people for who they are, but at the same time, choose to not be in their company. Accepting means to realize who a person is and by doing this you don't try to change her/him. If i am totally against a person's particular lifestyle I accept him/her, but i stay away from the lifestyle itself. Meaning if i see them on the street i can still smile and say hello, but keep on going.
namcazam: 1.) Well I guess if I passed a woman in the hall, the first thing I would notice is her smile; The second would be her hair. Shoulder length or longer hair attracts me, Color doesn't matter. It's going to sound weird but a woman wearing glasses also attracts me.
2.) If I got to know her, Her physical appearance would not matter to me. I have known very beautiful women in my eyes (in the physical sense) but their personality makes them ugly to me.
it's nothing uglier than a beautiful person who acts arrogant!
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