Home Sweet Home... (I think) (60)
morgan5: I have just visited UK for 2 weeks to see my children. Had a fantastic time ( ALTHOUGHT THE WEATHER WAS CRAP)But when it came to leave lots of tears and sadness.
I left the UK 6 years ago, my children were grown up and leading their own lives, I had a good career but felt there had to be more to life and wanted some adventure.I had met that 'someone' and thought the time was right to take a risk and follow my dreams. The relationship didn't work out and financially i could not afford to return to the UK, so moved to a European country where language and work would not be so difficult.
I have a good life here, laid back, great friends, much slower pace and always sunny, but there are problems with employment, language etc.
I often see threads saying people would pack up and leave to relocate to another country for love, but in reality it is hard to start from scratch again, and leaving family is a the hardest thing.
I can't say i regret it, because on the whole it has been a great experience, but when i see threads of people saying they would do it so easily, it makes me wonder just how much they have really thought it through.
I left the UK 6 years ago, my children were grown up and leading their own lives, I had a good career but felt there had to be more to life and wanted some adventure.I had met that 'someone' and thought the time was right to take a risk and follow my dreams. The relationship didn't work out and financially i could not afford to return to the UK, so moved to a European country where language and work would not be so difficult.
I have a good life here, laid back, great friends, much slower pace and always sunny, but there are problems with employment, language etc.
I often see threads saying people would pack up and leave to relocate to another country for love, but in reality it is hard to start from scratch again, and leaving family is a the hardest thing.
I can't say i regret it, because on the whole it has been a great experience, but when i see threads of people saying they would do it so easily, it makes me wonder just how much they have really thought it through.
Probably not much...personally...I wouldn't do it. You are a brave and courageous lady!
------ This thread is Archived ------
morgan5: I have just visited UK for 2 weeks to see my children. Had a fantastic time ( ALTHOUGHT THE WEATHER WAS CRAP)But when it came to leave lots of tears and sadness.
I left the UK 6 years ago, my children were grown up and leading their own lives, I had a good career but felt there had to be more to life and wanted some adventure.I had met that 'someone' and thought the time was right to take a risk and follow my dreams. The relationship didn't work out and financially i could not afford to return to the UK, so moved to a European country where language and work would not be so difficult.
I have a good life here, laid back, great friends, much slower pace and always sunny, but there are problems with employment, language etc.
I often see threads saying people would pack up and leave to relocate to another country for love, but in reality it is hard to start from scratch again, and leaving family is a the hardest thing.
I can't say i regret it, because on the whole it has been a great experience, but when i see threads of people saying they would do it so easily, it makes me wonder just how much they have really thought it through.
I left the UK 6 years ago, my children were grown up and leading their own lives, I had a good career but felt there had to be more to life and wanted some adventure.I had met that 'someone' and thought the time was right to take a risk and follow my dreams. The relationship didn't work out and financially i could not afford to return to the UK, so moved to a European country where language and work would not be so difficult.
I have a good life here, laid back, great friends, much slower pace and always sunny, but there are problems with employment, language etc.
I often see threads saying people would pack up and leave to relocate to another country for love, but in reality it is hard to start from scratch again, and leaving family is a the hardest thing.
I can't say i regret it, because on the whole it has been a great experience, but when i see threads of people saying they would do it so easily, it makes me wonder just how much they have really thought it through.
I would never go somewhere I couldn't see my family on a regular basis unless it was for a VERY good reason. It's important to stay connected. At least now it is easier to do this.
------ This thread is Archived ------
TheresMyFriend: Probably not much...personally...I wouldn't do it. You are a brave and courageous lady!
Thank you, at times it has been really hard especially when the relationship broke down, and I was alone in another country. I can admit now that I didn't think it thro as rationally as I should have done because i was so much in love and I do regret that, but over all it has been a life enriching experience.------ This thread is Archived ------
avecaim: I would never go somewhere I couldn't see my family on a regular basis unless it was for a VERY good reason. It's important to stay connected. At least now it is easier to do this.
When i see people here say they woild just up and go, I really don't think they fully realize the full implications. Your right travel is easier, but can be expensive too, so finances do come into it. 
------ This thread is Archived ------
morgan5: When i see people here say they woild just up and go, I really don't think they fully realize the full implications. Your right travel is easier, but can be expensive too, so finances do come into it.
good morning Morgan you look lovely as always........just a note .....some do not have family close to them or do not have family.....it worked out for you as well you are in a good place with a fellow are you not? If you had not made the move in the first place you may not be where you are today.....so I look at it as a good thing ...but of course staying put could also be a good thing ....there is no right or wrong moves only moves...------ This thread is Archived ------
jessejess47: yes of course you do ...you would not be a mother if you did not .....be thankfull for the internet and web cams ....I do this with my daughter from time to time and it seems much better when I can see her face and hear her voice....seems better than just typing or just talking on the phone. I suggest you use these options often.
------ This thread is Archived ------
morgan5: I have just visited UK for 2 weeks to see my children. Had a fantastic time ( ALTHOUGHT THE WEATHER WAS CRAP)But when it came to leave lots of tears and sadness.
I left the UK 6 years ago, my children were grown up and leading their own lives, I had a good career but felt there had to be more to life and wanted some adventure.I had met that 'someone' and thought the time was right to take a risk and follow my dreams. The relationship didn't work out and financially i could not afford to return to the UK, so moved to a European country where language and work would not be so difficult.
I have a good life here, laid back, great friends, much slower pace and always sunny, but there are problems with employment, language etc.
I often see threads saying people would pack up and leave to relocate to another country for love, but in reality it is hard to start from scratch again, and leaving family is a the hardest thing.
I can't say i regret it, because on the whole it has been a great experience, but when i see threads of people saying they would do it so easily, it makes me wonder just how much they have really thought it through.
I left the UK 6 years ago, my children were grown up and leading their own lives, I had a good career but felt there had to be more to life and wanted some adventure.I had met that 'someone' and thought the time was right to take a risk and follow my dreams. The relationship didn't work out and financially i could not afford to return to the UK, so moved to a European country where language and work would not be so difficult.
I have a good life here, laid back, great friends, much slower pace and always sunny, but there are problems with employment, language etc.
I often see threads saying people would pack up and leave to relocate to another country for love, but in reality it is hard to start from scratch again, and leaving family is a the hardest thing.
I can't say i regret it, because on the whole it has been a great experience, but when i see threads of people saying they would do it so easily, it makes me wonder just how much they have really thought it through.
I am pleased that you arrived home safely Morgan. I loved your coments & your feelings. It must have been heart breaking leaving your family .
------ This thread is Archived ------
jessejess47: yes of course you do ...you would not be a mother if you did not .....be thankfull for the internet and web cams ....I do this with my daughter from time to time and it seems much better when I can see her face and hear her voice....seems better than just typing or just talking on the phone. I suggest you use these options often.
totally agree with both postings by Jesse ... it seems you have done alright Morgan ... our children dont really want us on their doorstep ... and building those relationships in this day and age with technology is a marvellous thing ...
plus you get to spend real time with them which enhances the special ...
i would move in an instant, for love ... 'rationale' can break every intuit down to a nothing ... and yours has worked out okay - which may never have happened without stepping out on faith ..
nice story >>> G
------ This thread is Archived ------
Piroska: totally agree with both postings by Jesse ... it seems you have done alright Morgan ... our children dont really want us on their doorstep ... and building those relationships in this day and age with technology is a marvellous thing ...
plus you get to spend real time with them which enhances the special ...
i would move in an instant, for love ... 'rationale' can break every intuit down to a nothing ... and yours has worked out okay - which may never have happened without stepping out on faith ..
nice story >>> G
Sometimes my daughter tells me, i was her best friend and i left her, (although she is now 29) but that stays with me and makes me feels guilty. plus you get to spend real time with them which enhances the special ...
i would move in an instant, for love ... 'rationale' can break every intuit down to a nothing ... and yours has worked out okay - which may never have happened without stepping out on faith ..
nice story >>> G
------ This thread is Archived ------
steve6611: I am pleased that you arrived home safely Morgan. I loved your coments & your feelings. It must have been heart breaking leaving your family .
Tears from both sides, but i had a wonderful homecoming ------ This thread is Archived ------
This is very interesting. Thanks.
Finding love in the UK and moving there is my project.
Nothing bad with Switzerland or Geneva or people living here.
I just don't feel at home here. I even prefer to speak (at least try) and read in English rather than in French. I know, it's a bit strange...
My parents are most of the time in Spain since my dad is retired
and my bro has his own family.
And now with internet, you turn your computer and webcam on and you can chat with them. It's so easily....
Finding love in the UK and moving there is my project.
Nothing bad with Switzerland or Geneva or people living here.
I just don't feel at home here. I even prefer to speak (at least try) and read in English rather than in French. I know, it's a bit strange...
My parents are most of the time in Spain since my dad is retired
and my bro has his own family.
And now with internet, you turn your computer and webcam on and you can chat with them. It's so easily....
------ This thread is Archived ------
morgan5: Tears from both sides, but i had a wonderful homecoming
at least its warmer in Spain
------ This thread is Archived ------
WhovianGeneva: This is very interesting. Thanks.
Finding love in the UK and moving there is my project.
Nothing bad with Switzerland or Geneva or people living here.
I just don't feel at home here. I even prefer to speak (at least try) and read in English rather than in French. I know, it's a bit strange...
My parents are most of the time in Spain since my dad is retired
and my bro has his own family.
And now with internet, you turn your computer and webcam on and you can chat with them. It's so easily....
Can understan what you mean about not feeling at home somewhere, I lived in Malta for a while and just could not settle, but could give a clear reason why.Finding love in the UK and moving there is my project.
Nothing bad with Switzerland or Geneva or people living here.
I just don't feel at home here. I even prefer to speak (at least try) and read in English rather than in French. I know, it's a bit strange...
My parents are most of the time in Spain since my dad is retired
and my bro has his own family.
And now with internet, you turn your computer and webcam on and you can chat with them. It's so easily....
Hope you find what you are looking for
------ This thread is Archived ------
steve6611: at least its warmer in Spain
In the UK i was sooo cold, even sleeping with a hot water bottle some nights.Got back here and it is around 47 degrees!!! Going to buy air- con today
------ This thread is Archived ------
morgan5: In the UK i was sooo cold, even sleeping with a hot water bottle some nights.
Got back here and it is around 47 degrees!!! Going to buy air- con today
Got back here and it is around 47 degrees!!! Going to buy air- con today
we both live in sensible countries Morgan ..none of this snow & freezing cold ------ This thread is Archived ------
steve6611: we both live in sensible countries Morgan ..none of this snow & freezing cold
My daughter has actually banned me from going back in winter, because of my moaning I was sooo cold 
------ This thread is Archived ------
morgan5: My daughter has actually banned me from going back in winter, because of my moaning I was sooo cold
tell her shes silly & she has to move to Spain .But Morgan we both arent cold people we like warmth & sunshine none of this dreary weather for us
------ This thread is Archived ------
morgan5: I have just visited UK for 2 weeks to see my children. Had a fantastic time ( ALTHOUGHT THE WEATHER WAS CRAP)But when it came to leave lots of tears and sadness.
I left the UK 6 years ago, my children were grown up and leading their own lives, I had a good career but felt there had to be more to life and wanted some adventure.I had met that 'someone' and thought the time was right to take a risk and follow my dreams. The relationship didn't work out and financially i could not afford to return to the UK, so moved to a European country where language and work would not be so difficult.
I have a good life here, laid back, great friends, much slower pace and always sunny, but there are problems with employment, language etc.
I often see threads saying people would pack up and leave to relocate to another country for love, but in reality it is hard to start from scratch again, and leaving family is a the hardest thing.
I can't say i regret it, because on the whole it has been a great experience, but when i see threads of people saying they would do it so easily, it makes me wonder just how much they have really thought it through.
I left the UK 6 years ago, my children were grown up and leading their own lives, I had a good career but felt there had to be more to life and wanted some adventure.I had met that 'someone' and thought the time was right to take a risk and follow my dreams. The relationship didn't work out and financially i could not afford to return to the UK, so moved to a European country where language and work would not be so difficult.
I have a good life here, laid back, great friends, much slower pace and always sunny, but there are problems with employment, language etc.
I often see threads saying people would pack up and leave to relocate to another country for love, but in reality it is hard to start from scratch again, and leaving family is a the hardest thing.
I can't say i regret it, because on the whole it has been a great experience, but when i see threads of people saying they would do it so easily, it makes me wonder just how much they have really thought it through.
Hi Morgan,
An interesting and thought provoking thread. I left the U.K. for an adventure in Spain which I have enjoyed for the past 7 years.I have now decided to sell up and return to my roots,family and friends for the last stage of my life.It has been fun but as you stated " home sweet home" this is where I want end my days with people whom I love around me. The weather is not as important as what is in my heart.
------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
More Proof The GOP is a Criminal Organization
I'm a 53 YEAR'S YUNG MAN that lives back in the 80s
Democrats destroyed America
The GOP Representatives owned by Vladimir Putin
wanting beyond need
Why is this shameful?
Would you hire this guy - for any job?
Ladies
Unions support Democrats!
Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Stats for this Thread
1,354 Views
59 Comments
in CS Lounge
Created: Aug 2009
Last Viewed: Apr 27
Last Commented: Aug 2009
0 Likes
Related Forums
- More Proof The GOP is a Criminal Organization
- I'm a 53 YEAR'S YUNG MAN that lives back in the 80s
- Democrats destroyed America
- The GOP Representatives owned by Vladimir Putin
- wanting beyond need
- Why is this shameful?
- Would you hire this guy - for any job?
- Ladies
- Unions support Democrats!
- Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
I left the UK 6 years ago, my children were grown up and leading their own lives, I had a good career but felt there had to be more to life and wanted some adventure.I had met that 'someone' and thought the time was right to take a risk and follow my dreams. The relationship didn't work out and financially i could not afford to return to the UK, so moved to a European country where language and work would not be so difficult.
I have a good life here, laid back, great friends, much slower pace and always sunny, but there are problems with employment, language etc.
I often see threads saying people would pack up and leave to relocate to another country for love, but in reality it is hard to start from scratch again, and leaving family is a the hardest thing.
I can't say i regret it, because on the whole it has been a great experience, but when i see threads of people saying they would do it so easily, it makes me wonder just how much they have really thought it through.